Hi everyone, I read about this suicide on Reddit a few months ago and it stuck with me. I was not living in Prato at the time of the suicide (I didn't know anything about it) but I do live in Prato now and I was born in Prato.
The only thing I can give a contribution about is about the place she took her life in and what's nearby.
Prato's population in 2007 was comprised in 16% of immigrants, the place where she took her life is not an immigrant area, on the contrary, it's the richest area. Prato has been the Manchester of Italy, a town that since the '70s, thanks to its textile industry, has made many textile entrepreneurs rich and that area is where they would build their houses, it's charming, close to the centre, and near the hills.
There are two things the bug me about this case: she hardly had any belongings and we do not know where she spent the night before. It's unusual because even back in 2007 it was compulsory to register the passports of everyone sleeping in a hotel or a hostel or they would pay heavy fines, so it's unlikely she slept in a hotel in Prato.
The first hypothesis is that she slept in a religious shelter. I took the liberty to ask Gemini where a woman with a housing emergency would go in 2007 and in Florence that place would be the nuns of Madre Teresa but there was no such official place in Prato, the religious affiliated associazione Santa Rita took care of this kind of problems, but in an informal manner so we do not know where they would host women back then.
The place where she took her life is very peculiar, known mostly to locals, it is very close to what was then a franciscan monastery (i cappuccini). It's unlikely that she spent the night there because it was an only men's cloister. Within walking distance though you can find the chiesa di Sant'Anna, which ages ago used to be a monastery for nuns.
Could it be that she asked for help in Florence (maybe in the Suore di Madre Teresa in Florence) and she was directed then to Prato and stayed the night in the old monastery of Santa Rita? No idea. I'm not into religion. But if she was hosted in a religious setting though, then all of the secrecy around the real name of this person would make sense. They don't want to be linked to a suicide, to make public where one of their safehouses is and to have the police investigate the place. They want to keep it quiet. If this woman stayed the night in a religious shelter it means that she was broke and did not have anyone who cared about her, beside the fact that she was sick, had zero chances of survival in Italy and had no means to get back to her own country whichever it was.
The second hypothesis is that she knew or met someone who lived nearby and who offered to host her for the night. Could she have met someone at the conference in Florence? Could she have known someone in Prato from the philatelic world? As of today there's only one philatelic shop left in Prato in the centre (no idea how many were open in 2007).
The third and final hypothesis is that she had no connections at all with Prato. She did not sleep in Prato, she just stopped in town randomly, she walked randomly in despair and she found the right spot for her final act on the hill: calm and peaceful. What makes this the most strange hypothesis is that the place is not easy to find, it feels very specific to a local. Tourist and foreigners don't visit it. Back in 2007 Google maps was not a thing in Italy, ordinary people did not have smartphones with apps. She did not have a map of Prato in her belongings and yet she walked it as if she was a local.