It's Christmas once again at Wal-Mart

[windovervocalcords]

Aww Wind, it's not like that at all. DK and I don't agree on MANY things! But we do have mutal respect. The same I have for every poster, even if we disagree.

I just believe in sticking up for someone, no matter the differences, when I feel they are being put upon. Just like I'd call DK on it if I felt he was being out of line concerning something.

In reality, it's hard to express yourself via the pc. I'm just glad we all try. It has opened my world and my mind.

That's exactly what I am doing. Calling DK on it when I feel he is out of line. I am happy DK never wants to offend you.

It would be great if that wish extended to some of the rest of us.

 

[Sundayrain]

LOL Sunday, I can't highlight your post to show you the parts I found funny...so let's just say I found it all funny!
Like I said, Christmas is different for you guys, when you're sweltering in 40 degree heat, it's hard to 'enjoy' Christmas to the extent you do...
I bet I would be singing along with you and hubby if I spent Christmas with you guys over there, it would have a whole different feel to it..
I actually don't mind some of the carol's, that was just my mood yesterday coming out in my posts lol...still, I can only handle so much cheery Christmas music, that is true..

Oh and you shouldn't have, you are naughty- I am going to wait a bit longer to send my card, I seem to have more faith in the mail system than you do lol

Hey girl........yeah, just trying for some humor. Ah........some days are just not laughable I think. Whatchagonnado?........I know I'd hate 40 at Christmas. Ya' know what? One New Years Eve it was like high 60's or close to 70 degrees........and we were going to a party. It was kind of like bring out the spring coats. I do like some snow in the air. Smiling Snowmen, sleigh rides........Yahooooo..........
Hey, sometimes the music is not so good......some singer comes along who is quite bad.
Or the song is too loud and rocky for the moment.
Tonight I had the time up here in NY to read some posts. I just have great hopes for one main thing........that .........whatever holiday or whatever celebration you believe in on this post ( for this thread of people) I hope that it brings you happiness. That we can look at others religions with great respect and thoughtfullness. Thats why I found going to everyones church in the downtown celebration quite joyfull. I believe God wants you happy with your choice.
Oh my mail.........it has gone everywhere but to me. This is the first year of this happening. Lost Christmas Cards, Lost jackets,Lost calendars...lost, lost, is the word.
LOL..........Hey, I didn't get your card out yet.......don't get ahead of me.

 

[Sundayrain]

JBean--I second that--great post---I also went to a 50% Jewish School,a private school in Princeton, NJ---It was certainly a change from Connecticut, since in our town of 10,000, we had no Jewish people, and I had never heard of them until I entered private school at age 14---But you must have gone to a nicer school than I did--Boarding School was not a pleasant experience, most everyone disliked everyone else--We certainly didn't sing Christmas or Hannaka songs, religion was pretty much downplayed--We were there to strictly study our azzes off and we did, it was an intensely competitive atmosphere where 100% of us were accepted at a four year university---nobody talked about holidays, either Christian or Jewish---so all this talk here about complaining about holiday behavior by others seems very strange to me--I've always found the Christmas season to be a fantastic time of the year, whether it was at work, at home or at play

I know Peter...I find this all so strange too.....It is such a Happy time....
I enjoyed your post.

 

[Dark Knight]

Wait, wait! The comments DK made regarding gays and Jews were a parody of someone elses post. He just substituted those words for words the other poster used to show just how easy it is to misconstrue something and how silly he thought the whole analogy was.

I can't promise that DK is the most pious, most tolerant person, not knowing him in real life, but from his post, he seems to walk his talk and has never, ever put down my faith, even during a heated discussion of differences. He's always taken the time to explain things I find confusing without being condescending.

I am only speaking of this thread though. I don't recall any others where he has put down anyone in any other. Your remembrance may be different.

Do you have any plans for Hannakuh this year, BM? Also, is it Hannukah or Chanukkah? That's always confused me, lol.

 

[IrishMist]

Do you have any plans for Hannakuh this year, BM? Also, is it Hannukah or Chanukkah? That's always confused me, lol.

Good question, DK. It's always confused me, too.

 

[JBean]

Do you have any plans for Hannakuh this year, BM? Also, is it Hannukah or Chanukkah? That's always confused me, lol.

They are all used. I was raised using Channukah as the spelling, but there is more than one way for sure.


Channukah

n : (Judaism) an eight-day Jewish holiday commemorating the rededication of the Temple of Jerusalem in 165 BC [syn: Hanukkah, Hanukah, Hannukah, Chanukah, Chanukkah, Channukah, Channukkah, Festival of Lights, Feast of Lights, Feast of Dedication, Feast of the Dedication]

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Channukah

 

[windovervocalcords]

My friends were going through a bitter divorce. My partner and I offered to give their eight year old twin daughters a time out stay with us to help the stress in the family. They are Jewish. The girls had their hearts set on going to a Christmas light festival. It was one of those drive in things. It was pouring rain, but off we went. They loved it.

We also put up a tree, bought decorations and trimmed it. My partner and I gave them Christmas presents. We had a big feast, turkey, ham etc. Christmas is not my holiday but they wanted to have the cultural experience of Christmas and it was our delight to offer that to them.

Their mom was ok with it. She knew they wanted some Christmas experience and she would have caught hell from her family if she had done so and they discovered it. It worked out well. The kids had a great time, she was guilt free, and we got to delight in helping them all through a difficult time in their lives.

My partner and I practice another spiritual path that is non-theistic. God and Christ are not a normal part of our spiritual vocabulary. Compassion and kindness are the main tenets of our path.

Happy Holidays one and all throughout the year--be your holiday Hannukah, Channukah, Winter Solstice, Ramadan, Yom Kippur, Christmas, Kwanza or the Buddha's birthday. Whatever day is most sacred to your tradition this year may it inspire you toward your highest positive potential.

May all be merry. May there be peace in earth. May we all come to love and respect each other as human beings all in the same boat, wanting to be happy and not suffer. May all be happy and free of suffering.

 

[csds703]

My friends were going through a bitter divorce. My partner and I offered to give their eight year old twin daughters a time out stay with us to help the stress in the family. They are Jewish. The girls had their hearts set on going to a Christmas light festival. It was one of those drive in things. It was pouring rain, but off we went. They loved it.

We also put up a tree, bought decorations and trimmed it. My partner and I gave them Christmas presents. We had a big feast, turkey, ham etc. Christmas is not my holiday but they wanted to have the cultural experience of Christmas and it was our delight to offer that to them.

Their mom was ok with it. She knew they wanted some Christmas experience and she would have caught hell from her family if she had done so and they discovered it. It worked out well. The kids had a great time, she was guilt free, and we got to delight in helping them all through a difficult time in their lives.

My partner and I practice another spiritual path that is non-theistic. God and Christ are not a normal part of our spiritual vocabulary. Compassion and kindness are the main tenets of our path.

Happy Holidays one and all throughout the year--be your holiday Hannukah, Channukah, Winter Solstice, Ramadan, Yom Kippur, Christmas, Kwanza or the Buddha's birthday. Whatever day is most sacred to your tradition this year may it inspire you toward your highest positive potential.

May all be merry. May there be peace in earth. May we all come to love and respect each other as human beings all in the same boat, wanting to be happy and not suffer. May all be happy and free of suffering.

Same to you and your loved ones and to everybody here.

 

[Sundayrain]

My friends were going through a bitter divorce. My partner and I offered to give their eight year old twin daughters a time out stay with us to help the stress in the family. They are Jewish. The girls had their hearts set on going to a Christmas light festival. It was one of those drive in things. It was pouring rain, but off we went. They loved it.

We also put up a tree, bought decorations and trimmed it. My partner and I gave them Christmas presents. We had a big feast, turkey, ham etc. Christmas is not my holiday but they wanted to have the cultural experience of Christmas and it was our delight to offer that to them.

Their mom was ok with it. She knew they wanted some Christmas experience and she would have caught hell from her family if she had done so and they discovered it. It worked out well. The kids had a great time, she was guilt free, and we got to delight in helping them all through a difficult time in their lives.

My partner and I practice another spiritual path that is non-theistic. God and Christ are not a normal part of our spiritual vocabulary. Compassion and kindness are the main tenets of our path.

Happy Holidays one and all throughout the year--be your holiday Hannukah, Channukah, Winter Solstice, Ramadan, Yom Kippur, Christmas, Kwanza or the Buddha's birthday. Whatever day is most sacred to your tradition this year may it inspire you toward your highest positive potential.

May all be merry. May there be peace in earth. May we all come to love and respect each other as human beings all in the same boat, wanting to be happy and not suffer. May all be happy and free of suffering.

I had forgotten about a Christmas when one of my middle daughters Jewish friends wanted to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas Morning with us. She just wanted the experience of those two days .......her parents gave her the ok........Jennifer slept over, and Santa had visited our house and "found" her there too. She had wanted a "Santa" statue.....and so we wrapped one up, along with some other presents. She was all smiles that night and morning. She was so happy to have her own stocking too........later they traveled to Jennifers home. Each, I am sure learning that no matter what their beliefs or practices.....happiness came in sharing them.
Before "Random acts of Kindness" became a household word. There was always a push to instill that....all year, all the time.....promote acts of kindness.

 

[BhamMama]

They are all used. I was raised using Channukah as the spelling, but there is more than one way for sure.


Channukah

n : (Judaism) an eight-day Jewish holiday commemorating the rededication of the Temple of Jerusalem in 165 BC [syn: Hanukkah, Hanukah, Hannukah, Chanukah, Chanukkah, Channukah, Channukkah, Festival of Lights, Feast of Lights, Feast of Dedication, Feast of the Dedication]

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Channukah

Yeah, what JBean said! I also grew up with Channaukah as the spelling. I think the differences lie in what Jewish school or what part of the world your family come from lol

I do have plans, same as always. We will gather each night, say our prayers, light our candles, sing, play some games and tell our story and good food!

 

[Trino]

Remember the "Happy Holidays" vs. "Merry Christmas" flap? Here's a new one for you all.

I teach in an inner-city h.s. environment. We've been told to not mention the up-coming Thanksgiving or anything related to Chrismas, Hannakuh, or other holidays because it isn't a great time for our students.

Some students live with dysfunctional families, are in foster care, live with a single mom who is in a financial bind; some students are even homeless. Some have alcoholic parents or a parent who is jailed. It wouldn't be a surprise to hear that police were called to a home on Christmas Day. Sad to say, but some will eat a meal (or meals) at at the Salvation Army. They may not get presents; if they do, it could be from charity.

So, I won't be wishing students anything, not "Happy Holidays" or Merry Christmas" or "Happy Kwanza." Not anything.

 

[michelle]

Remember the "Happy Holidays" vs. "Merry Christmas" flap? Here's a new one for you all.

I teach in an inner-city h.s. environment. We've been told to not mention the up-coming Thanksgiving or anything related to Chrismas, Hannakuh, or other holidays because it isn't a great time for our students.

Some students live with dysfunctional families, are in foster care, live with a single mom who is in a financial bind; some students are even homeless. Some have alcoholic parents or a parent who is jailed. It wouldn't be a surprise to hear that police were called to a home on Christmas Day. Sad to say, but some will eat a meal (or meals) at at the Salvation Army. They may not get presents; if they do, it could be from charity.

So, I won't be wishing students anything, not "Happy Holidays" or Merry Christmas" or "Happy Kwanza." Not anything.

You know that really sucks. I actually thought about going to a soup kitchen and helping out on Thanksgiving just so my son can see how fortunate we are.

 

[michelle]

...when I get fed up, I tell people to "zip it" (a generic remark of frustration).

Zip it is my all time favorite thing to say around my house. I hate to hear someone say "Shut Up" even though I feel like screaming it at times, so I just say "Zip it" Or "Raise Down" when things start to get fired up, lol.....I am a corn dog I know it.:crazy:

 

[IrishMist]

Remember the "Happy Holidays" vs. "Merry Christmas" flap? Here's a new one for you all.

I teach in an inner-city h.s. environment. We've been told to not mention the up-coming Thanksgiving or anything related to Chrismas, Hannakuh, or other holidays because it isn't a great time for our students.

Some students live with dysfunctional families, are in foster care, live with a single mom who is in a financial bind; some students are even homeless. Some have alcoholic parents or a parent who is jailed. It wouldn't be a surprise to hear that police were called to a home on Christmas Day. Sad to say, but some will eat a meal (or meals) at at the Salvation Army. They may not get presents; if they do, it could be from charity.

So, I won't be wishing students anything, not "Happy Holidays" or Merry Christmas" or "Happy Kwanza." Not anything.

Sometimes holidays are not happy times.

 

[Sundayrain]

Sometimes holidays are not happy times.

I hope the city works hard to bring joy to the little ones who would miss the day so dearly. I wonder if they have Angel trees in the area......to choose a child to help?
Does the Salvation Army have Angel Families that people can choose and help with a meal and a few "wished for" toys? This is one of the great times for Random Acts of Kindness. I once got a letter from an Angel family. It was a "blessing to me" more then to them.......it was tearful, and full of love......I know I have tucked that one away.......to know that in our small way.....our family gave them this day in their life...is so heartwarming. Just a doll, some food, a babies PJs......something for the Mom.
I hope your city area helps to warm their hearts. I think that trying to help people come out of the depths of dispair, makes for a better society. It will someday......go around.......and .....around. Leaving a basket at a doorway is also a random way of helping..... Your story was quite sad.....I hope for better times for the families.

 

[michelle]

Isn't the suicide rate highest during the holiday's?

 

[Marthatex]

My daughter had an experience over the summer that was very upsetting. It started out as typical "teenage drama". Some kids decided they didn't like her and started to harass her. One night she gets a phonecall. It was an electronically altered voice.
"Listen you Jew , you need to burn in the oven". Alot of other hateful things were said as well.
Why does it always come down to that?:waitasec: :banghead:

I think I might consider getting that call traced and getting someone arrested.

Either that or run over to McDonald's, and sneak a mouse in their food.... :furious:

 

[Marthatex]

Isn't the suicide rate highest during the holiday's?

Yes it is. People who have losses, or depressed anyway, or few friends and connections or support network get very depressed over the holidays.

 

[michelle]

Yes it is. People who have losses, or depressed anyway, or few friends and connections or support network get very depressed over the holidays.

My husbands uncle shot and killed himself right before thanksgiving a few years ago, it was so sad.

 

[SadieMae]

I hope the city works hard to bring joy to the little ones who would miss the day so dearly. I wonder if they have Angel trees in the area......to choose a child to help?
Does the Salvation Army have Angel Families that people can choose and help with a meal and a few "wished for" toys? This is one of the great times for Random Acts of Kindness. I once got a letter from an Angel family. It was a "blessing to me" more then to them.......it was tearful, and full of love......I know I have tucked that one away.......to know that in our small way.....our family gave them this day in their life...is so heartwarming. Just a doll, some food, a babies PJs......something for the Mom.
I hope your city area helps to warm their hearts. I think that trying to help people come out of the depths of dispair, makes for a better society. It will someday......go around.......and .....around. Leaving a basket at a doorway is also a random way of helping..... Your story was quite sad.....I hope for better times for the families.

My sons and I have gotten tags from the Angel tree every since they wer 4 & 5 years old. They do it on their own now they are 20 and 19. When they were small they got such joy shopping for items on the list and knowing some other kids were going to have Christmas presents.