Sorry, I meant to quote this post and I don't know how to fix it.
"I guess instead of proving a reversal of brain death, perhaps it will cover his extensive writings about the concept of "whole body death", as opposed to just "brain death"? Now I'm really looking forward to reading it. We already know he's been riding that train for some time now (if the rest of the body is alive, we can't call the person truly dead.)"
Well that's the impression given at hospitals because Under normal circumstances, when a brain dead patient is on life support they disconnect the vent, wait for the heart to stop beating, then call the time of death and only then does the morgue come for the patient. I'm not opposed to doing things that way and I suppose it is just a courtesy to the family but it gives people the impression that death doesn't occur until the body is dead.
I think that when a person is declared brain dead and all the tests have been done to validate the death, the time of death should be called and noted. Instead they discuss with the family about when to disconnect the ventilator and that is just asking for trouble. They could be typing up a death certificate while the family is thinking about it.
Does that sound too harsh?
Nope, doesn't sound harsh at all. It's my understanding that hospitals do things this way as a compassionate measure to give the family time to grieve and accept the reality that their loved one is gone and not coming back. They don't want to be put into the "cold hearted" position of just walking a family into a patient's room and the family unexpectedly seeing their loved one deceased and covered head-to-toe in a sheet. The shock of such a thing would likely cause more harm than good. So they approach it with a compassionate understanding to help the family come to terms with what happened, give them some sense that they (the family) have a bit of control in what happens next, and let the grieving process work its way naturally. And for the most part this seems to be extremely effective.
It's only extremely rare that a family becomes so incredibly defiant and refuses to accept the reality of what happened, and things turn messy. Hospitals then are forced into a position of having to put their foot down and set some finality to the matter ("we will turn off the machines on this day and time, we're sorry, but that is what's best"). And then this does usually work...until you get the super duper exceptionally rare cases where the family takes the FIRM stance of, "the hospital lacks compassion or wants to treat us badly/unfairly", so they get TRO's.
People grieve in different ways, and for the most part this is a predictable process based on years and years and years of seeing people die and how their families handle it. Some come to terms with it much easier than others. And some are so incredibly defiant to accept something they don't want to hear, that they choose to fight the reality of death rather than accept it.