I'm sorry DeeDee249, it was not my intention to be confusing in my post about acandyrose. I was simply going by Tricia's, the OP, information that acandyrose had everything and I thought she meant links, etc. which would amount to many papers. Tricia's sentence just prior to mentioning acandyrose said something about backing up points in the letter with links.
As far as Patsy and family leaving and going to Michigan, I found that info in a couple places but one is here at this link (mentioning Patsy and Burke going) and the statement is just above the heading of "The Intruder Theory". Here's the link and hope it's a legitimate source:
http://crimemagazine.com/jonbenet.htm
But more important than the above link was my point in that I would never have left (not including her funeral, of course) Boulder and would have camped on the steps of BPD and I know I would have been cooperative with them from the very beginning instead of legally dodging them. The rest of what you said I do know to have happened, i.e. their buying a house in GA and settling there, the house in Boulder, etc. I also was aware that they'd cancelled their plans and flight to Michigan the day JBR's body was discovered. When I posted about soon after, I meant after they'd buried their daughter, dear.
Thanks!
No need to apologize! That is what this forum is for- discussion! My comment was to simply clarify the events of that day. Many people (including me) feel as you do. I'd have had to be dragged from that house that day. And while I probably would not have wanted to continue to live in a home in which my daughter was so brutally killed (even if I were responsible for it), the almost immediate attempt to get out of town right after "finding" her body stunned me. She wasn't even in the morgue yet! She hadn't even been pronounced dead yet (while it was so obvious to anyone there -despite JR's inane question to Arndt "is she dead?") that she WAS dead when she was brought up but would still have had to be pronounced dead by an MD.