I agree there was a close relationship between Michelle's family and her child prior to her murder. My reference was to the years of time between Michelle's murder and the custody agreement. Nearly three years for a motherless child to be with her biological dad and some pretty nasty things were said about him in public documents that she can find and read. I think it would be terribly traumatic to the child to lose daily contact with her only remaining parent after all that time.
My thoughts are with the child's best interest only. In my opinion it is cruel to do that to any child and may have long term emotional impact on her.
JMO
But you see, for the first 1.5 years Jason and Pat were allowing Cassidy to visit with the Fishers on a regular basis. There was no need to go to court at that point because they could monitor Cassidy's well being and remain connected to Cassidy - they could also monitor Jason's behavior and could get a read on whether his squirrelly- ness was reaching a tipping point.
Once Jason and Pat got their feelings hurt (wrongfully, I might add, because it wasn't Linda or Meredith making comments to the media) - they took their ball and went home. i.e. They threw a tantrum and used Cassidy a a pawn to punish the Fishers.
Following that complete disregard for Cassidy's best interest, the Fishers tried to negotiate a visitation schedule with Jason and Pat. They weren't trying to take Cassidy away - they wanted to return to the arrangement they had been working with since Michelle's murder. But the selfish and childish Young's would have none of it.
Their intent was to completely extricate Michelle's family from Cassidy's life and from her awareness - wouldn't even open letters to Cassidy or deliver Christmas presents to her!!! Sorry but there is no argument that such behavior is in Cassidy's interest. The Young's were concerned only with Jason's comfort and interests. Can you deny that?
It was only after all of that that the Fishers filed a custody petition. The irony is it was Jason and Pat's own bad behavior that forced their hands.
Another "irony" is that Pat testified that they banished the Fishers from Cassidy's life because Pat heard from some gossip monger that the Fishers were going to abscond with Cassidy. The Young's' response? They did exactly the thing they feared the Fishers would do.
The Youngs actions leading to the custody suit had nothing to do with Cassidy and everything to do with Jason.
I include Pat in all this because I think she was the driving and destructive force. IMO Jason and Pat are in a totally enmeshed parent-child relationship, and Pat has a lot to do with why Jason grew up to be a narcissistic, entitled, self indulgent, overgrown 4 year old. (JMO)
While you may believe a parent's rights are akin to ownership of their children, despite any harm caused to the child - that is not the way the family courts go about determining custody issues for children who cannot speak for themselves and who are completely helpless and at the mercy of their caretakers, fit or not.