Jodi printed the letters from emails she found @ library from Bobby to a female he had not yet met . . . JA went to see Bobby . . . .she didn't say anything - handed letters over to Bobby and began to cry . . . .
after not going to work, gone through his personal emails, you were there confronting him?
I guess you could say confrontation
you gave him the letters
I showed him
intent for him to look @ them
I guess - yes
he began to read them, you stood there, you went directly over to see him with the letters?
no I actually went home got all my stuff to move and then 'confront'? him
you weren't going to put up with it
no
you guys broke up
we didn't
you decided to stay after he cheated on you
eventually yes
where did you actually spend the night that night after putting you stuff in the car
my Grandma's . . . few days
your decision to get back with him
after talking to him
you felt good going back to him
yes
did same thing with Matt McCartney
what ways - be specific
you had a feeling - you drove to Crater Lake
I had feeling but not straight to Crater lake
2 of his coworkers told me he was dating Bianca
saw photograph - heard bout this and left work
did side work 5-10 min then left
first I drove to Ashland
did I ask you where you went?
I asked about Bianca - did you tell her you drove an hour and a half
are you having a problem here?
sometimes because you go in circles
did you have any problem with understanding 5-10 min sidework drove to speak to Bianca 1.5 hrs . . . when you thing something not right you are going to confront that person.
not necessarily
MM and Bobby you did
yes
same thing with TA . . . .back in Aug 2007 - you thought you were being courted and you felt you were being wronged . . you felt strong enough to confront him the next day
wasn't confrontational - I wasn't allowed to be confrontational with TA
how could he possibliy control how you acted . . . youhad no free will, you could leave and not go there if you didn't want to . . .you went to Yreka .. . . leaving in March but left in April
I could have left much earlier if I had the financial means
I am a procrastinator
re: Bobby, Matt & Mr. Brewer you acted immediately
what are we talking about Brewer never cheated on my . . . . I had one foot out the door in that relationship
Met TA and 4 days later Brewer was on the outs - when you want something you act immediatel
yes
same thing with your Mother - you acted immediately . .. your Mom came out late March, Sunday March 30, 2008 ?
Sunday doesn't sound right . . . late March early April
she came out and was acting in a way you didn't like
during part of it
she was making stupid excuses
yes about her flight
she was being negative - you made sure she went back
she was being negative
and you made her leave. . . . immediately . . . it appears you have been able to act very quickly
in those examples yes
with regard to Mr. Burns you acted very quickly
what you mean quickly
in very beginning of relationship, text each other, plan to meet (after a few months-ja) you then go out there and start sexual contact
no sexual contact - I was on top of him when I fell asleep
you adjusted him
yes
you put your hands under his buttock area
no it was his shoulders
Trust issues . . . what you said about trust issues