I like doing things that make my boyfriend feel good that I wouldn't necessarily seek out to do unless it made him feel good... does that make him an abuser? Does that make me an abusee? I wouldn't say so! I like to pleasure him.. and I'm nowhere near abused. My point is: It isn't TA's fault JA did sexual acts on him for his satisfaction. In this case, JA is manipulating him with sexual control.
When he had to stop doing things (ie JA's painful bootyhole experience), he didn't shame her or guilt her. I have seen no evidence of him coercing her into anything against her will or making her feel bad for not doing sexual things.
MOO.
Ugh....the testimony is so slow, it's sucking the battery life of my iPad. I don't know if it will make it through the end of the day. I guess that is a blessing in disguise considering that I feel like deja vu.
Before she answers a question, she looks up, and then kind of jumps, turns toward the jury and then answers. What is up with that. Are the answers written on the ceiling or on the inside of her forehead. Her demeanor on the stand is driving me crazy. It is almost like she has a tic. Grrr! :banghead:
I like doing things that make my boyfriend feel good that I wouldn't necessarily seek out to do unless it made him feel good... does that make him an abuser? Does that make me an abusee? I wouldn't say so! I like to pleasure him.. and I'm nowhere near abused. My point is: It isn't TA's fault JA did sexual acts on him for his satisfaction. In this case, JA is manipulating him with sexual control.
When he had to stop doing things (ie JA's painful bootyhole experience), he didn't shame her or guilt her. I have seen no evidence of him coercing her into anything against her will or making her feel bad for not doing sexual things.
MOO.:waitasec: