jodi arias TAKES THE STAND FOR 14TH DAY #69*may contain graphic and adult content*

[AnonymousD]

Ugh what is BBM? Sorry I feel like the need who feel passed out first at the sleepover

Bold By Me
Bolded By Me

 

[KBisMe]

Ugh what is BBM? Sorry I feel like the need who feel passed out first at the sleepover

BBM = Bolded By Me

 

[FrayedKnot]

Funny that. I'm 47 and haven't spoken to anyone in "pig latin" since I was about 16. Good on you... MOst clever.

Huh?

Lol, I'm 45! Mr. Knot and I are fluent. Unlike English. :lol:

Anyway, we can still get some things past Lil Knot with the Igpay Atinlay. She hasn't caught on yet.

 

[BritsKate]

I know super late reply to your post, but I had to chime in...

My mom is BPD too. I don't have children yet, but when I do I will not allow my children to be exposed to her without being present to interfere if she steps into her BPD mode. Dealing with my mother is like dealing with a toddler sometimes and other times it's like dealing with a hormonal teenager with parent angst. She's exhausting, that's why my contact with her is limited and I go to counseling a every couple to few months to work on how to deal with her and set boundaries with her.

I may have had some sympathy for Jodi if it weren't that her behaviors are eerily similar to my BPD mom (minus the killing). BPD's are so obsessed with being "left" by people that they will do nearly anything to keep people around. They threaten suicide to keep people around, they manipulate everyone possible to keep people around, and when that doesn't work they smear the person who won't stay around. My mom did this to me at my aunt’s funeral because I wouldn't allow her to cross boundaries prior to it. She sat in the funeral home telling everyone who would listen that I wasn't being supportive to her during her grieving process of her sister’s death (gee, my aunt died, but nevermind that), she told them I was mean to her, and that I intentionally said hurtful things to her. Fact is, she recently threatened suicide so I sat in a hotel room with her awake for the majority of the night making sure she didn't try to kill herself, when she woke up and wanted me to come "snuggle" in the middle of the night I told her no and told her that wasn't appropriate. She said it was okay because it was to comfort her and I told her it wasn't an appropriate way for her to be comforted. Those interactions are the abhorrent things I did to her that caused her to rail against me at the funeral home.

THIS is what it's like dealing with people with BPD and JA screams of this. MOO

I just can't imagine when its a parent...I'm so sorry to all of you who have endured a PD mother or father.

As for the bolded portion - there's been recent research conducted to suggest a 'new' form of psychopathy mostly found in females very consistent to BPD. Considering that, I think you're most likely right...but I also believe she's almost certainly comorbid too. To my understanding most afflicted with PD are.

Should anyone have need of it - this is an awesome resource for people who have been in relationships with disordered personalities:
http://www.outofthefog.net/index.html

 

[Steely Dan]

Ugh what is BBM? Sorry I feel like the nerd who passed out first at the sleepover

BBM = Bolded By Me

What she said.

 

[StephanieHartPI]

Um...just to be clear, by "you"' you mean Jodi, right? Although I am indeed capable of things most here wouldn't do, murder would not be one of them.

yes yes Jodi LOL

 

[shefner]

Nurse is not here because y'all have worn her out all day! You need to settle down around here....
Now, she went to take a nap and left me in charge...
because I am the sane one, remember?

 

[Steely Dan]

Why not, be calling the supervisor? Perhaps some supervising be needing.

:snooty: Party pooper!

 

[seguek9]

Ugh what is BBM? Sorry I feel like the need who feel passed out first at the sleepover

It means Bold By Me....
And I'm fairly sure no one will put your bra in the freezers....well maybe Steely....
(This actually happened to me at a sleepover once:blushing: yes-im a nerd:rocker:

 

[JusticeJunkie]

Her height and that Jodi is taller than the attorney

IMO he was reproducing the appearance of her finger (the pic she had taken with her sis). Trying to prove it does not look broken when in that position.

 

[princesspjs]

My high school English teacher assigned 100 SAT words every other day. My vocabulary is spectacular, my spelling...not so much. It's my opinion, she uses a vocabulary she picked up while reading romance novels. She doesn't know how to use or pronounce the words she uses. The purpose of her verbiage is to put forth a facade that she's educated and intelligent. IMO she is neither. It's as fake as everything else about her.

If we have to hear about green witch time one more time I really will yank her little side pony out of her head.

 

[moonbird]

your posterity didn't she use these words today in her journal?

excellent catch, TexMex!!

 

[ChristYTN]

My sister is BPD, narcissistic disorder.
I 100% relate to this entire post.

Ever read "Walking on Eggshells" and work the workbook?
I set myself out of my sisters OZ and mainly only communicate via text ir Facebook now. I had to set my boundaries.

I see so much BPD, etc in JA too.

(((hugs to you)))

I know super late reply to your post, but I had to chime in...

My mom is BPD too. I don't have children yet, but when I do I will not allow my children to be exposed to her without being present to interfere if she steps into her BPD mode. Dealing with my mother is like dealing with a toddler sometimes and other times it's like dealing with a hormonal teenager with parent angst. She's exhausting, that's why my contact with her is limited and I go to counseling a every couple to few months to work on how to deal with her and set boundaries with her.

I may have had some sympathy for Jodi if it weren't that her behaviors are eerily similar to my BPD mom (minus the killing). BPD's are so obsessed with being "left" by people that they will do nearly anything to keep people around. They threaten suicide to keep people around, they manipulate everyone possible to keep people around, and when that doesn't work they smear the person who won't stay around. My mom did this to me at my aunt’s funeral because I wouldn't allow her to cross boundaries prior to it. She sat in the funeral home telling everyone who would listen that I wasn't being supportive to her during her grieving process of her sister’s death (gee, my aunt died, but nevermind that), she told them I was mean to her, and that I intentionally said hurtful things to her. Fact is, she recently threatened suicide so I sat in a hotel room with her awake for the majority of the night making sure she didn't try to kill herself, when she woke up and wanted me to come "snuggle" in the middle of the night I told her no and told her that wasn't appropriate. She said it was okay because it was to comfort her and I told her it wasn't an appropriate way for her to be comforted. Those interactions are the abhorrent things I did to her that caused her to rail against me at the funeral home.

THIS is what it's like dealing with people with BPD and JA screams of this. MOO

 

[FrayedKnot]

In today's testimony, the sex tape was played and both Alexander and Arias were speaking.
He refers to a cream pie and she plainly asked him, "What is that?"
He then explained it to me...I mean, her...yeah, to her.

I really didn't wish I had to know these things. They are destroying all my favorite snacks.

Ima be pizzed if there is a nasty times trick called "snickerdoodle" or "mallowmars". .

Nobody ruins MY treats!

 

[Steely Dan]

Well, I can't play witcha no more. fftobed: :lamb: :countsheep:

Hopefully the mods will get some laughs out of our silliness tonight.

:seeya:

 

[swedie]

In regards to Jodi's broken finger...can the jurors ask to inspect her finger? I bet upon close up examination they will see it has been cut not broken. Hope they ask to inspect it. :great: The interrogation video should be enough evidence but I would love to see this happen. :moo:

 

[joyceandjay]

It means Bold By Me....
And I'm fairly sure no one will put your bra in the freezers....well maybe Steely....
(This actually happened to me at a sleepover once:blushing: yes-im a nerd:rocker:

Oh gosh! Well my bra is off for the night soo lol oh man!! :wink:

 

[seguek9]

My sister is BPD, narcissistic disorder.
I 100% relate to this entire post.

Ever read "Walking on Eggshells" and work the workbook?
I set myself out of my sisters OZ and mainly only communicate via text ir Facebook now. I had to set my boundaries.

I see so much BPD, etc in JA too.

(((hugs to you)))

Walking on Eggshells is my "Bible"....thank you!!!

 

[Boytwnmom]

Travis was an acquisition. She had pretty much a loser life. But she targeted Travis. I really wonder how she came across PPL and whether she checked people out before that conference she went to. The prior men she'd been with were no great shakes and she was a waitress going nowhere. She KNEW she deserved better.

Spots Travis, turns on the charm. He's highly visible and attractive to others-that makes him valuable to her. Plus he's making money and lives in a nice house (did u see where she was living-that room?) and drives a Beemer and has tons of friends and everyone thinks highly of him.

There was no love but she could pretend and would have happily married him. Just like she became a flippin Mormon overnight. It was just a tactic. Even when he began pulling away, realizing their relationship was not one he could build his future on, she just continued, using sex, asking for favors, leaving things at his house, spying, hacking, anything to get into his life and create a tie to him. I'm sure he had no idea what was really going on. How do you accept this pretty girl is evil?

But once he was truly on to her in late May of 08 and she knew it was really over, when he knew she was a sociopath and she knew she was going to lose the whole PPL, upscale Mormon life she envisioned, he couldn't be allowed to live. He was ruining it ALL for her and he needed to suffer and die.

And then she packed up her little murder kit and drove to Utah to snag the next sucker she already had lined up.

The things you think you see in Jodi simply aren't there. This isn't a girl with low self esteem looking for love in all the wrong places. That scenario could describe countless women. What separates Jodi from the others...she slaughtered a man. She planned it and feels zero remorse. She's a psychopath. She is not like other love lorn women.....she's not really even human in the true sense if the word. She has no empathy and no conscience

 

[gwenabob]

Being less than 2 years older than Jodi, I've known many girls and perhaps have been in the past myself put in a situation of wanting to be accepted by a man that I thought I loved for all the wrong reasons.. Mostly for stability- Financial and mental. However 9 times out of 10 that never worked out. I think she saw a means to an end. She would marry him and her life as a single gal workin odd jobs would be over. And she would be living the good life... Nice house, hot hubby, nice cars, travel, perfect kids, etc

The more time went by and the more of herself she gave and lost to Travis she thought she was putting in her "time" for the "reward".... I mean geez she even converted religion.. But the reward never came, what transpired was that she was treated as a common 2-dollar ho.
Which by no doubt she was but that was her "thing" to lure him.... I guess she forgot the saying that "you can't turn a ho into a housewife"! She took things too far! And then realized it. And of course she turned her humiliation into anger and projected it to the one and only person she vested soo much into..

I really hope the younger generation of women take this as a warning and learn from this. Mostly to never rely on a man or on your sexuality to get you places in life. Work hard, have self worth and love and respect yourself.

Exactly. She gave the audition of her life--SEX! HOUSECLEANING! BAPTISM! FUN, FUN, FUN! and in the end, he took a pass on her. She poured her heart and soul into this audition for Mrs. Alexander and he rejected her. He had to pay. Nobody. Rejects. Jodi.