And Anna, growing up so sheltered, probably doesn't know the beauty of what true intimacy between loving partners can be. I'm sure she has suffered abuse, perhaps physical, definitely emotional, but I worry too about her children - she has several young daughters.
That’s a sobering thought. IMO she has lived a sham marriage. But does she even know that? So tragic. Your words paint a picture of the grim, unsatisfying, lonely life she probably has had with this person. Trying to convince herself that all was well and that this was love...