Then doesn't it only make sense that he should ask them to do it before witnesses are subpeoned, take the stand, have to stay milling around for hours after their testimony in case they need to be called back and having the attorney for the other side talk to you on the stand like your s**t?? A whole day was wasted for people who could have used that time only for this judge to wait a week and say "Work it out among yourselves or I'll get a third party to be Adminstrator of this womans estate." I guess you can tell I'm pissed, huh Jeanna?? LOL