BBM: This from the Nancy Grace transcript.
http://edition.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/1507/08/ng.01.html Crystal's mom explains where all the children were:
GRACE: First of all, our prayers are going up ever since we heard about her missing, and we are all hoping and praying for her return. I want to start with you, Ms. Ballard. When did you first learn she`s missing?
S. BALLARD: Friday, her granddaughter contacted me and said she couldn`t get in touch with her. So I texted my daughter and just told her that her daughter was trying to get in touch with her and to call her. I think that was around 6:00 maybe. Around 9:30 maybe, Kylie texted me back and said she still hadn`t heard from her mother, so I started calling around to people that I think she would have talked to --
GRACE: Was that abnormal? Was that unusual, Ms. Ballard, for her not to have texted back?
S. BALLARD: Right at that moment, I didn`t pay real big attention. A little bit, not a lot, because the kids were -- her oldest daughter that lived there with her was at her grandmother`s. The two, the younger two was at their dad`s, and she just had the baby there at home. It was July 4th weekend. I thought maybe she had plans and maybe didn`t get to her phone. But then when I started calling everybody and nobody had heard from her, that was sort of unusual.
GRACE: When you say you started contacting everybody and no one had heard from her, who did you contact?
S. BALLARD: I called my mother, because she`s real close with her. I called my younger daughter. I called my sister-in-law, Barbara, and I don`t remember if I -- I think that`s all I called. I called Sabrina, my niece.
GRACE: And Ms. Ballard, with me is Tommy and Sherry Ballard. This is Crystal`s mom and dad. When did it hit you she`s missing?
S. BALLARD: It really hit me Sunday. My daughter texted me back or called me and asked me, she said, have you heard from Crystal yet? I said no, I said, you haven`t heard from her? She said no. And so I called my mom back and other people, and they hadn`t heard from her. And I told my husband, I said, that`s just not right.
GRACE: How often do you normally talk to her?
S. BALLARD: During the week, at least probably every other day, if not every day because the kids, like her older daughter lives with me, so we`re constantly in contact. Not as much on the weekends.
I don't get confused often so maybe I am reading into this transcript too much? I think I know the dynamics of the family and this conversation but if someone not following the story that closely and were to read these transcripts, it can get confusing. At the start NG introduces CR's parents using their full names Sh--- B. and To--- B. and then the transcript says...
S. BALLARD: Friday,
her granddaughter contacted me and said she couldn`t get in touch with her.
Now is this SB person CR's mom or is it the niece of the mom/cousin of CR?? Or did CR's oldest daughter have a child making CR a grandmother? Because when she says on Friday her granddaughter contacted her, is she referring to CR's mom's granddaughter, CR's granddaughter or was she meaning to say "my" granddaughter or meaning to say her "daughter" and not granddaughter? Or was SB stating HER granddaughter meaning Sh--- B's granddaughter? All depending on who this SB person talking is? I assume this SB is suppose to be the same person as in the start of the interview because she states...
"So I texted my daughter and just told her that her daughter was trying to get in touch with her and to call her."
But I now think there is a 2nd SB in the interview, the mom and Ms B. So confusing thanks to NG.
Then what is this line?
GRACE:
And Ms. Ballard, with me is Tommy and Sherry Ballard. This is Crystal`s mom and dad. When did it hit you she`s missing?
Is NG telling Ms. B that also on the line are CR's parents TB and SB? And I thought for sure I knew there was only 2 ppl involved in this conversation with NG...this makes it sounds like there are 3...so weird...thanks NG haha
So in summary I know that NG was talking to Ms.B, SB and TB and it sounds like CR's oldest daughter lived with her mom but was staying at the grandmother's that wknd but then SB then says the oldest daughter lives with her. Again, a little confusing how these ppl talk.
S. BALLARD: Right at that moment, I didn`t pay real big attention. A little bit, not a lot, because the kids were --
her oldest daughter that lived there with her was at her grandmother`s.
Was SB making this comment or does this sound like this is a comment referring to SB? Because then SB says the oldest daughter lives with HER.
S. BALLARD: During the week, at least probably every other day, if not every day because the kids,
like her older daughter lives with me, so we`re constantly in contact. Not as much on the weekends.
Lastly what is up with this??
GRACE: You know, interesting, to Tommy and Sherry Ballard, when she was spotted that afternoon at Walmart, was she with anyone?
S. BALLARD:
She had her two children with her.
GRACE: And where did they go that evening? Did they go with her to the apartment or did they, what?
S. BALLARD: She took her --
she took the kids to their dad`s house, to an apartment where they lived. They were spending their weekend with their dad.
GRACE: And then --
S. BALLARD: She
may have had the baby with her,
I`m not sure.
T. BALLARD: We really don`t know.
GRACE: So the Walmart video she revealed who was with her,
but you believe she had two children with her. She was not in the company of someone else, correct?
S. BALLARD: No. Just her and the kids.
She may have had the baby with her, I`m not sure.
GRACE: Now, who has the baby tonight?
T. BALLARD: The dad. Her boyfriend.
Wow...so first they say CR was with her 2 children at Walmart, then they say CR was with 2 children and MAYBE her baby but they are not sure...have SB and TB not talked with the 2 grandchildren in question to ask who was with them and her mother at Walmart, if their baby brother was also there or not?
I know this has much to do with nothing and apologize for the rant but it also gives a little insight as to how difficult it must be to investigate a complex case like this with half-brothers and sisters, multiple parents/guardians involved, how facts are told in confusing ways and at the time very little clarification or questions asked if answers seem muddled.