TY honeybun1807. I'm still confused as to the age order though. You started with the "second oldest" child and went on from there. So who is the oldest child?
Do we have a ballpark notion of the ages of the 4 oldest of CR's children, the ones who are not related to BH? We know her youngest was 2 1/2.
Confused further by this quote by Crystal's mother (the grandmother of the children):
S. BALLARD: Right at that moment, I didn`t pay real big attention. A little bit, not a lot, because the kids were -- her oldest daughter that lived there with her was at her grandmother`s. The two, the younger two was at their dad`s, and she just had the baby there at home.
That's 4 children, not 5. Who is the 5th child and where does s/he live?
Also, from Ballard's quote it sounds like the oldest daughter who ordinarily lived with CR (not necessarily the oldest of her children, from the ambiguous wording) was visiting her grandmother at the time of CR's disappearance. Was this a regular or a rare thing? Whose idea was it? I wonder.