To Travis Alexander and his family, Jodi Arias is the worst murderer that ever walked the face of the Earth.
In my experience of the sister of a murder victim, typically we aren't sitting around with each other comparing which murder is worse. We are just bonding in the fact that it's as horrible as it could be for each and every one of us. But that's the view from the inside, fwiw.
I hate how defense attorneys usually try to make the defendant into the victim and try to portray the true victim as the criminal. It's very hard to sit in a court room and listen to a defense attorney telling things you know are untrue about your loved one. And then you are instructed not to show any emotions or you will be removed from the court room. They want to make sure the criminal gets a fair trial. What about the victim?