Just trivia - of no great importance, i was born into a family with Great Danes, excellent pillows when you are little

. Danes basically are 1 part mastiff x 2 part hound, they have no undercoat and long legs, they are built to run not swim they have a natural aversion to water, because their body build makes them crappy swimmers and also their lack of undercoat gives them little cold protection.
my 2 old whippets(hounds that hate water)(and the cat) just passed, i got them when my child was young, he left home and my little loves all died shortly after-it was very depressing. Next life i'll stagger my pets so everything dos'nt happen at once.
Bella the dane died, danes are big dogs, natural death is not pretty or easy, i still think that Robin may have been with Bella at that time and they were on a dock and fell together. If not for Bella's death i would suspect the husband JMO MOO
As far as the husbands phone and such- i would'nt be feeling to chatty either