ME ME - Ayla Reynolds, 20 mnths, Waterville, 17 December 2011 - # 1

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Has it been confirmed by dad that he did not know of the custody filing? I know mom has said that... but Maine is a small place and I can imagine that word might have gotten to him through unofficial channels?

Or maybe this is just a real case of exceptionally bad timing. :(

BBM

Is it really?
 
  • #643
DHS has to get a judge to sign off on a removal of a child. I don't like CPS/DHS very much.. but they don't go around taking kids for ZERO reason.....and no judge is going to sign off on a removal for no reason
 
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From the link:

“My daughter went into rehab; me and my oldest daughter had Ayla, and DHS had her removed from us to go with her dad,” Hanson, 45, said. “I believe DHS did that because they don’t like my family. They had no reason to take Ayla.”

DHS took Ayla from the maternal grandmother and aunt?

Gosh, this is getting really icky! Mother in SA treatment (gawd), gma who thinks there is a conspiracy surrounding her, and there is an older Aunt?

Drugs & kids do not MIX! OMG! Who are these people allowing this?:banghead:
 
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Ayla's aunt lives in the home with her own little child. Surely she is not going to go along with any kind of cover up involving the disappearance of a baby. Right?

One would hope not!
 
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I am looking at it now; I think that there are about 70 in Waterville (residence and place of work/school).

That's not really alot though if the census I read was right, 15,700. That's like 1 in every 250 some residents.

Im suprised there are that many residents! Doesnt look like that big of town.
 
  • #648
I feel like there were problems with both sides of Ayla's extended family. I do not believe that CPS took Ayla because they do not "like' the family. Like said upthread, a judge needs more than that to sign off on giving a baby to the non-custodial parent.

Of course there are huge red flags with the father's care so far, like the broken arm, bruises, missed doctor's appts, and not allowing mom to even talk to Ayla on the phone, And of course, the fact that she is now missing. But I think that Mom is pointing a lot of fingers because she had her own problems as well. I wish they would get together and talk and try to figure this all out.
 
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:sigh:Since dad is not talking to the media, all of this information is coming from mom, her family, and her friends. She may have an axe to grind and this information may not be accurate. Maybe I am jaded by our recent Orlando case. Without our sunshine laws. We might have looked at that case differently before the trial.
I am raising my grandson and if anything happened, I would be a basket case unable to function, but my DD would be on every media channel available crying about how I stole him, didn't let her see him, etc and none of that is true.
I don't know what happened with this toddler, but mom's purpose seems to be bashing dad. I am on the fence with this one until I hear about dad from a less biased source.

I don't think it looks good, though :(

I don't care that the dad is not talking to MSM, actually, I prefer that! As long as he is cooperating with LE, I am okay . . . I'm changing my mind about shows like Nancy Grace because I truly believe their sensationalism is under-minding our judicial system. Until LE releases information, :fence:
 
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Reporter: Reynolds says she hasn't spoken to Ayla's father Justin since their daughter disappeared.

TR: I've had no contact with him. He's had no contact with me. Like, all I know is he's the last man to see my daughter and all I want to know is where she is.
Respectfully shortened

It is impossible to comprehend why the dad wouldn't contact Ayla's mom immediately after her baby disappeared at his home. That is viciously passive aggressive, IMO.
 
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Respectfully shortened

It is impossible to comprehend how the dad wouldn't speak with Ayla's mom immediately after her baby disappeared at his home. That is viciously passive aggressive, IMO.

I am kind of surprised that he wouldn't at least call and ask if she took the baby. He knew she was upset about not being able to see her. If I were him and I did not know what happened to Ayla, I would probably think the Mom came and took her. I would call my ex and beg them to tell me the truth, most likely.
 
  • #652
99 sex offenders within a 5 mile radius of Baby Ayla??? from NG

Has anyone done a query?

Doesn't seem to be a priority; clear the people in that small house & other family members to me would be the lst priority.
 
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See you all tomorrow...I hope that by then we will have some answers!

:candle: for Ayla
 
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RE: who found the empty bed. Since we've heard Ayla and the cousin shared a room, I'm betting the sister's own child woke up so she went in the room and found Ayla was missing. Perhaps she wasn't alarmed at first thinking Ayla was possibly sleeping with her dad. When dad finally woke up, sister asks about Ayla, dad knows nothing, she's not in bed with him....they call 911.

My speculation only.
 
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Unless someone took Ayla for revenge or drug payment, I don't understand why anyone would take just Ayla and not both the babies. Her mother was in rehab for drugs. Maybe it was related to her drug usage, a debt, or revenge.

Not knowing more about the father its hard to say whether it could be relaliation against him for some reason.

Since CPS took Ayla from the grandparents, maybe there was something there that we are not aware of. Its hard to know why she was taken from them. Alcohol or drugs?

Regardless of the reason she was taken or disappeared, I hope and pray she will be found alive and well real soon.
 
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:sigh:Since dad is not talking to the media, all of this information is coming from mom, her family, and her friends. She may have an axe to grind and this information may not be accurate. Maybe I am jaded by our recent Orlando case. Without our sunshine laws. We might have looked at that case differently before the trial.
I am raising my grandson and if anything happened, I would be a basket case unable to function, but my DD would be on every media channel available crying about how I stole him, didn't let her see him, etc and none of that is true.
I don't know what happened with this toddler, but mom's purpose seems to be bashing dad. I am on the fence with this one until I hear about dad from a less biased source.

I don't think it looks good, though :(

BBM

Thank you for whatever sacrifices you are making to be able to raise your grandson! I wish I had had a grandparent such as you.....
 
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The article says that LE said theres a possibility that she wandered away which is very scary because I looked at the arial and the adress is only a couple blocks to a park which is on the Kennebunk River!

Climbed out of her bed with her arm in the sling? Nah, just too suspicious.
 
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RE: Trista's mother saying CPS dislikes their family...so they took Ayla, but assuming the grandma also had the 9mo old at the time as well...they left him? Makes no sense. What would make them take Ayla and not the other child?
 
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Although, I understand why the suspiscions are falling on dad, I am just not ready to throw him under the bus yet. I need more info. We are getting very one-sided views here...remember, Joshua Davis. He too went missing from a house full of adults and he too was said to be too young to wander out on his own. I cannot rule out Ayla leaving the home on her own. I have a daughter her age, we have contact alarms on all our doors and windows, bc I can completely see her getting a thought in her head to go to the park, go outside, etc and having the determination to follow through with it. And, she would run naked through a blizzard if I let her, so I don't think the cold would be a deterrent.

I am not saying dad is all clear in my mind, I hope those detectives are drilling him on every, little, minute detail. And if he so much as stutters, I hope they question him some more. But, I just want for once to be able to give a parent the benefit of the doubt. We don't get to do that anymore in this post Casey/Julia/Dandre (fill in the name of the latest parent to hurt their child and make up a preposterous story about their disappearance, only to then completely clam up and not speak to LE anymore...) world.
 
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Although, I understand why the suspiscions are falling on dad, I am just not ready to throw him under the bus yet. I need more info. We are getting very one-sided views here...remember, Joshua Davis. He too went missing from a house full of adults and he too was said to be too young to wander out on his own. I cannot rule out Ayla leaving the home on her own. I have a daughter her age, we have contact alarms on all our doors and windows, bc I can completely see her getting a thought in her head to go to the park, go outside, etc and having the determination to follow through with it. And, she would run naked through a blizzard if I let her, so I don't think the cold would be a deterrent.

I am not saying dad is all clear in my mind, I hope those detectives are drilling him on every, little, minute detail. And if he so much as stutters, I hope they question him some more. But, I just want for once to be able to give a parent the benefit of the doubt. We don't get to do that anymore in this post Casey/Julia/Dandre (fill in the name of the latest parent to hurt their child and make up a preposterous story about their disappearance, only to then completely clam up and not speak to LE anymore...) world.

To be honest, I am not 100% convinced that Joshua Davis walked out on his own either.
 
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