Found Safe ME - Jill Sidebotham, 28, Nicholas Hansen, 38, Lydia Hansen, 2, Camping in Phillips area, overdue from trip, Sanford, 3 July 2022

[Teche]

What was he arrested for? I thought she was with him willingly.

Several traffic-related offenses, no plate, leaving the scene of an accident, not rendering aid, evading LE, etc.

 

[caradana]

Truly such a sad story, in multidimensional ways. A story that illustrates the desperation that some feel in this world, and the ways that American society can sometimes lead to the lows getting even lower. I hope the children involved can somehow come out with an opportunity to climb out. I wish there was a way to donate to them in a purposed way. Xo

 

[WingsOverTX]

Truly such a sad story, in multidimensional ways. A story that illustrates the desperation that some feel in this world, and the ways that American society can sometimes lead to the lows getting even lower. I hope the children involved can somehow come out with an opportunity to climb out. I wish there was a way to donate to them in a purposed way. Xo

What does American society have to do with a young woman who has two children outside of marriage with two different men, one a controlling, abusive criminal, with a boyfriend who wants her back despite her running off with the father of her youngest child & abandoning her oldest child?

Oh. I guess I answered my own question.

Or perhaps you have a more generous view of her as a victim of a society unable to save her from herself, much less others? Just curious.

I don't find the story sad. I find it archetypal of bad choices leading to awful consequences. Unless better choices get made with the welfare of the children being #1 priority, the next episode in this saga is likely to land right here, too.

JMO

 

[WingsOverTX]

Let us recap:

EXCL: Boy, 10, distraught after his mom vanished with 'abusive' ex

Brayden Sidebotham-Farmer, 10, (left) of Springville, is just 'one step from breaking down' after his mother Jill Sidebotham, 28, and his sister Lydia, two, disappeared (right, together).

www.dailymail.co.uk

Family members of missing campers plea: ‘Come home’

A Springvale woman, her 2-year-old daughter and the girl's father left June 27 for a camping trip, and no one has heard from them in more than three weeks.

www.centralmaine.com

 

[caradana]

I believe that the average person turns out a product of his own environment, yea. And only the edge case people (intellectually on the upside, addiction-wise on the downside) see nature triumph over nurture. Nurture rules the average man.

It’s the choices I find sad. The generational issues.

 

[bombardier]

What was he arrested for? I thought she was with him willingly.

According to Arrest Log October 3, 2022, arrested for "first offense Failure of Owner to Maintain Required Insurance/Security; No Registration Plates; Leaving Scene of Accident-Failure to Render Aid or Assistance; Menacing; first-degree Fleeing or Evading Police (Motor Vehicle); Reckless Driving; first-degree Wanton Endangerment-Police Officer."

 

[carbuff]

Sounds like he got in a car accident and seriously misbehaved.

 

[Iwatchingeye]

According to Arrest Log October 3, 2022, arrested for "first offense Failure of Owner to Maintain Required Insurance/Security; No Registration Plates; Leaving Scene of Accident-Failure to Render Aid or Assistance; Menacing; first-degree Fleeing or Evading Police (Motor Vehicle); Reckless Driving; first-degree Wanton Endangerment-Police Officer."

I'm not sure this was she was willingly with him. I'll wait to see if we hear more of this story......

 

[Savemecastiel]

Nick was arrested and Jill contacted her family. It’s a brief update but worth watching. His mugshot is classic.

That is.... quite the mugshot...

 

[Stunned]

That is.... quite the mugshot...

You’re to kind!

 

[bombardier]

That is.... quite the mugshot...

if i hadnt known the case and you told me that guy was 38, i would have thought you were messing with me

 

[Dre]

I am SO glad that he’s in jail and she now has the space to breathe, I hope she’s able to make a clean start with her kids and keep away from toxic men. Moo

 

[ashhouston]

What does American society have to do with a young woman who has two children outside of marriage with two different men, one a controlling, abusive criminal, with a boyfriend who wants her back despite her running off with the father of her youngest child & abandoning her oldest child?

Oh. I guess I answered my own question.

Or perhaps you have a more generous view of her as a victim of a society unable to save her from herself, much less others? Just curious.

I don't find the story sad. I find it archetypal of bad choices leading to awful consequences. Unless better choices get made with the welfare of the children being #1 priority, the next episode in this saga is likely to land right here, too.

JMO

yes yes yes.

 

[cocomod]

Possibly Stockholm syndrome???

 

[Stunned]

Possibly Stockholm syndrome???

After all this time, just her and him? Possible. But I doubt it started out that way. IMO, she was a willing participant, for whatever reason.

 

[Spider92]

What’s the update, without having to watch?

I know! I don't do videos.... the family doesn't appreciate me watching them and I've never found an ear bud that will stay in place

 

[vls12345]

Has anyone seen more updates on this family? Thanks.