I respect people with different opinions. I lose respect when they are unwilling to substaniate them, when they refuse to concede points that they've lost, refuse to see what my true intentions in the debate are, and refuse to respect when I have a valid point.
The other day, we had the "mop" issue, where I said the mop was in the hall closet. Dgfred said it was outside. I asked for a picture to prove it. Finally, he gave one. I conceded that the mop in his picture could be the mop in question, and I even got another picture with a better view of said mop. I think I even said I was proud of Dgfred for going ahead and supplying the picture. Turned out to be a very positive end to our debate, even though I turned out to be mistaken.That's how I like debates to go. Points are laid out and proven and then you move beyond it. We don't have to ever debate that mop again. I'm glad. With other things, you can prove the point again and again and again and again and again, but it never sinks in, gets acknowledged or moved beyond. That's why I just bow out. Because you can only say the sky is blue so many times.
So, when something like that happens, if I'm able to concede, it's not a fair conversation if the other person will NOT on a different point that I am correct about. That's all. That's all.