MI MI - Danielle Stislicki, 28, Southfield, 2 Dec 2016 #12

[DakotaMayi]

What a sad day. Another sleuth and I talk about you all the time, Dani and I am sure we have said more than a few times that we never want it to get to 6 months and still be wondering where you are.

 

[Lee3250]

I don’t have a fenced yard so I have to take my dog out on walks and I have noticed how my habits have changed when I am walking her. I am constantly looking around for signs of anything…fabric…phone…anything. My dog is part hound and is always sniffing and digging and there are times she will follow a scent into the woods and I am almost scared to follow her in.

We discovered nature trails that run along the expressway at Oakland Community College in Farmington Hills, between Danielle’s apartment and her office. The trails are awesome but can get pretty dense at times and I keep my eyes open for any sign of Danielle all the time. I did not pass any people on the trail and it made me think that if someone were to have harmed her and left her in this area this would have been a good spot.

It sucks. I am just so much more aware of my surroundings and constantly vigilant when I walk my dog. Because he is part hound I keep taking him to woody areas to he can dig and follow scents all he wants but it makes me so nervous. She brought me a pair of sunglasses last week that she found in the woods and I nearly crapped my pants. I just saw her running towards me with something hanging in her mouth…

 

[monkeypants]

Yes and supposedly.

I just don't see why a family would support their brother in law or son in law if they weren't protecting the daughter/sister as well. (Other reasons too but I wouldn't want to upset anyone by voicing my own opinion.)

Well, I can see it. If I put myself into their shoes. They have way more information than we do. They have history and back story...if there is one between him and Dani.

They also are supporting their sick daughter. Maybe they are protecting her, not him but in order to do so they have to support him.

They seem to be a family with a few sick members and maybe they try to keep things calm and simple to preserve their energy.

I don't agree with any of this, but I can see how and possibly why.

Maybe they really do think he is guilty but are so worried about their sick daughter that they remain quiet. Or maybe they think he is the most amazing man in the world and would never ever do this so screw everyone else.

He holds information and I truly don't think anyone will learn it unless she is recovered. Unless they have an airtight circumstantial case (extremely hard to accomplish) I'm not sure this would ever be solved unfortunately.

I assume once the hunters start traipsing thru the woods or hikers they may find her.

 

[DakotaMayi]

Well, I can see it. If I put myself into their shoes. They have way more information than we do. They have history and back story...if there is one between him and Dani.

They also are supporting their sick daughter. Maybe they are protecting her, not him but in order to do so they have to support him.

They seem to be a family with a few sick members and maybe they try to keep things calm and simple to preserve their energy.

I don't agree with any of this, but I can see how and possibly why.

Maybe they really do think he is guilty but are so worried about their sick daughter that they remain quiet. Or maybe they think he is the most amazing man in the world and would never ever do this so screw everyone else.

He holds information and I truly don't think anyone will learn it unless she is recovered. Unless they have an airtight circumstantial case (extremely hard to accomplish) I'm not sure this would ever be solved unfortunately.

I assume once the hunters start traipsing thru the woods or hikers they may find her.

I will be shocked, more shocked than I have ever been before, if it turns out she knows nothing. I think it's impossible.
IMO - She knows everything.

 

[monkeypants]

I will be shocked, more shocked than I have ever been before, if it turns out she knows nothing. I think it's impossible.
IMO - She knows everything.

The only way she would if she was there, which we know she wasn't. I would find it impossible to believe he would confess to her. Doesn't strike me as that kinda guy...I think he will claim innocent until his dying breath...but then again maybe he is...hopefully one day we know.

Nothing sadder than watching the days tick by, the interest waning ...very sad

 

[DakotaMayi]

The only way she would if she was there, which we know she wasn't. I would find it impossible to believe he would confess to her. Doesn't strike me as that kinda guy...I think he will claim innocent until his dying breath...but then again maybe he is...hopefully one day we know.

Nothing sadder than watching the days tick by, the interest waning ...very sad

Maybe. I just think he told someone.

It is so sad. Please let answers come before we're at 12 months. Hell, before we're at 7 months.

 

[Ozoner]

Well, I can see it. If I put myself into their shoes. They have way more information than we do. They have history and back story...if there is one between him and Dani.

They may know much less than we do if they are willfully ignorant.

Any postulated "back story" is unsupported by any evidence. Unless it's the back story of a stalker and his victim, I consider it pure fiction. They have been described as acquaintances--nothing more--by LE, and Dani's mother has stated that Dani didn't have a boyfriend. In the past six months, no evidence has surfaced to contradict LE and Dani's mother.

 

[monkeypants]

They may know much less than we do if they are willfully ignorant.

Any postulated "back story" is unsupported by any evidence. Unless it's the back story of a stalker and his victim, I consider it pure fiction. They have been described as acquaintances--nothing more--by LE, and Dani's mother has stated that Dani didn't have a boyfriend. In the past six months, no evidence has surfaced to contradict LE and Dani's mother.

<modsnip> Danis parents may know Dani but every 28 year old has their own life and doesn't make their parents privy to everything they do or fraternize with. Do your parents know everything you did or do? Silly to think otherwise...you never know anyone in life, you only know what they allow you to see. I also never said boyfriend. The only two people in the world that know what the connection is between them is THEM. Plain and simple. Things can't be stated as fact when we have none.

BTW..I truly don't think they know less than us...that seems pretty far out to me.

 

[Razz]

One of the things with the SG story that doesn't neatly add up is: how is it she was somehow convinced to go to his house after she had texted her friend that she had managed to get off from work early that evening and would be going home, pack a bag and be on her way to her friend's house.

If DS went willingly 30 minutes out of her way, wouldn't she have texted her friend "sorry, I'm going to be a bit later than I originally thought. Had to give a coworker a ride to his house."
Or did she have the opportunity to do that? If she willingly went inside the house, that was another delay.

I don't know but I can't totally rule out that she was grabbed at her apartment.

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[DakotaMayi]

One of the things with the SG story that doesn't neatly add up is: how is it she was somehow convinced to go to his house after she had texted her friend that she had managed to get off from work early that evening and would be going home, pack a bag and be on her way to her friend's house.

If DS went willingly 30 minutes out of her way, wouldn't she have texted her friend "sorry, I'm going to be a bit later than I originally thought. Had to give a coworker a ride to his house."
Or did she have the opportunity to do that? If she willingly went inside the house, that was another delay.

I don't know but I can't totally rule out that she was grabbed at her apartment.

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Maybe she was grabbed at MetLife?

 

[Razz]

Maybe she was grabbed at MetLife?

Would SG or anyone else risk that?!
If that was the case, why go to his place at all?!

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[DakotaMayi]

Would SG or anyone else risk that?!
If that was the case, why go to his place at all?!

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I would hate to even wonder.

 

[Skigirl]

Would SG or anyone else risk that?!
If that was the case, why go to his place at all?!

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I thought everyone thought what I did, which is that it's most likely that she was grabbed, or offered a ride to someone, from the MetLife building. I had not even considered that she just said to herself, "Self, I think I'll go to SG's house even though I just told my best friend that I was let off from work early and that I was heading home to quickly grab a bag and then I'd be over to her place to cook her dinner."

 

[Momma2cam]

Maybe. I just think he told someone.

It is so sad. Please let answers come before we're at 12 months. Hell, before we're at 7 months.

I don't think he acted alone. I am not sure of his role but do think someone else knows something. I am doubtful that his wife knows but think a friend does.

I also hope answers come soon. This is just so sad.

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[Momma2cam]

I thought everyone thought what I did, which is that it's most likely that she was grabbed, or offered a ride to someone, from the MetLife building. I had not even considered that she just said to herself, "Self, I think I'll go to SG's house even though I just told my best friend that I was let off from work early and that I was heading home to quickly grab a bag and then I'd be over to her place to cook her dinner."

I still think there are many possibilities, especially the longer this has drawn out. The speculation that she was seen at SG's house (or was it just that her Jeep was seen there?) is what makes me wonder more about the connection between them.

Is it possible her friend knew she would be stopping at his house before coming over? Maybe that was an arranged thing previously? Or, maybe SG unexpectedly asked for a ride in the parking lot and she willingly helped him and then she went inside for what? Or maybe she was never seen walking inside. If she went willingly and it was unexpected, I imagine she would have texted her friend to let her know she would be late. Or, could she have been hiding this relationship/connection from her friend, too?

If she truly did not know him more than an acquaintance and did not plan to see him that day, I think she was abducted against her will from the parking lot. If it was SG, he knew there were no working cameras. Jmo.

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[BloodHoundSleuther]

Would SG or anyone else risk that?!
If that was the case, why go to his place at all?!

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I believe the SG coerced Dani to help him. Perhaps he needed a ride? So technically nothing may have seemed off to Dani until she entered his residence. I can definitely think of some reasons to go to his place but I'm not going to elaborate.

 

[Momma2cam]

I believe the SG coerced Dani to help him. Perhaps he needed a ride? So technically nothing may have seemed off to Dani until she entered his residence. I can definitely think of some reasons to go to his place but I'm not going to elaborate.

Agree. I wish we had more facts that could rule out or reinforce some of the possible "elaborations." I have several myself.

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[DakotaMayi]

Agree. I wish we had more facts that could rule out or reinforce some of the possible "elaborations." I have several myself.

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What are your elaborations then???

 

[Momma2cam]

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Stalking could definitely be what happened and with the timeline, the chance that he was not involved in her disappearance at all is slim IMO. It seems everyone agrees with that. But, there are many ways he could have been involved and we just don't have enough information to rule any of them out. I do think it is important to be careful about closing off all other scenarios until we have an arrest. I'm still hopeful LE knows a lot more and is slowly but surely moving toward an arrest.

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[DakotaMayi]

<modsnip>I do think the relationship matters as does motive. I think it could give more answers into what exactly happened and where she is. I prefer not to elaborate without more information from LE.

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Yeah it might answer some questions like motive or where she is now. But it doesn't change what he probably did.