I was told by Eric that they were in the mall together and he spoke of conversations with her and exchanging Christmas gifts. That seems to be confirmed by photos he posted. The cleaning woman at the motel said FG came on Fridays and picked Eric up to take their daughter skating at Brockway Skating Center. Eric's friends spoke of postings from Eric about FG and her children. He went there to meet this daughter he never knew about before. Why would he not spend time with her after they told the child Eric was her father. He sent photos of her to me..some obviously given to him by FG because they were of his daughter as a little child. Some of the photos were obviously current ones. I had gathered several photos of him, as a child and teen to send to him so he could show her how much they looked alike. The police told me that Eric's daughter said that Eric had a temper which just tells me that the original story that FG told Eric's family about having an argument in front of their daughter in April probably happened.Did he have contact more than once with the daughter that you know of? Or do you believe she actually only saw him the one time?
This was when one of Eric's family members talked to FG's husband after Eric vanished. The family member mentioned that Eric had posted about painting and fixing up a house and about FG posting about water issues. That's when he made that statement. I don't understand the way he talked to Eric's relative ( a total stranger )about his own wife, but from what the police told us, it was a strange relationship. Photos of them together in their new location say otherwise. I wish they would both get their stories straight and tell what really happened.And why in the world would Eric and fg need to rent somewhere if he was already renting somewhere? FG's husband needs to get his story straight!
It sure makes us wonder. I would love to talk to her someday and tell her how happy Eric was to know about her and what a difference she would have made in his life if he could have helped raise her from birth. I told just that to FG .I only talked to FG twice and the second time I think she was irritated that I called and let me know she would call me if she heard from Eric.So we know that child has been told to lie as well then...
So we know that child has been told to lie as well then...
It sure makes us wonder. I would love to talk to her someday and tell her how happy Eric was to know about her and what a difference she would have made in his life if he could have helped raise her from birth. I told just that to FG .I only talked to FG twice and the second time I think she was irritated that I called and let me know she would call me if she heard from Eric.
Eric's family was told by an extremely reliable source in the Saginaw area that research they did revealed what you just mentioned ,MyBelle, only it was S.S. benefits. I know this source is in touch with state police, so I don't know what is being done to look into this.ITA. The mother sounds like a scam artist and usually they get their start by scamming welfare. It's possible he was lured to Michigan in order to obtain his identity so that a household could be set up in his name to obtain welfare benefits.
A call to HHS with her name, the daughter's name and Eric's SS# should set the wheels in motion for an investigation into her agenda.
JMO
I totally agree. One of my sisters first got in touch with FG's husband and talked to him twice. Then he put my sister in touch with FG and they had a conversation once. My sister asked her to call me and she did ...giving me the exact same story she had given my sister. I truly believe she thought it would appease us to say that she and Eric had a fight and he left for CA, she thought. (The story she gave my sister and was never told to BV police. Maybe it would have been except for the motel owner giving his side of the story.) I called her back once. As Eric's mom, I asked detailed questions and was given detailed answers. FG NEVER once told me that Eric had befriended the motel owner and the housekeeper and had met some men in his work at another motel owned by the brother of Millers Motel's owner. (Those men told police they remembered Eric, but had not seen him since they worked together earlier.) I was so worried and asked FG if Eric had money for gas to CA and if not, did she help him out. She said she didn't have any money to give him and she KNEW OF NO ONE he might have befriended..... when all along she KNEW about the motel owner's friendship with Eric and the housekeeper. It was hard to think that maybe he ran out of gas and some stranger killed him and took his car. I pictured Eric giving his last dollar to a total stranger that needed it. ( The motel owner and the housekeeper told me later and I assume told the police that FG told the housekeeper to "stay away from Eric".) It wasn't until we got that Nov. 22,2011 email that was suppose to be from Eric that our family ruled out a total stranger hurting Eric.BBM
There is something very wrong there, in my opinion. Even if it was a complete stranger, it would be a very coldhearted person who'd get irritated at a mom seeking support to find her missing child, for just the second time.
It seems terrible also, that anyone would drag their child into such a strange situation - suddenly revealing and introducing them to a father they never knew, then just as suddenly forgetting all about him, when he mysteriously disappears. And leaving town, in fact.
I don't think Eric's disappearance can 'go away' until he is found, and all the miles in the world aren't far enough to get away from that. Somebody has to have more information and then they need to come forward and talk to police now, before it's too late.
This information was only given to family recently and it involved a lawyer who knew what he was talking about. I would think the BV police would have found it out because the lead investigator told me he had a friend in the FBI whom he had search for Eric's SS# being used. When I called the FBI in Saginaw later (I talked to FBI several times trying to get them to help.) I was told they knew nothing about that contact between FBI and BV police. I since have tried to get state police and FBI to work together. The FBI could easily find out info we can't. It has been and continues to be very frustrating. This is my child that's missing. This is a human being that's missing.If that's the case then we know she has his social securitt. Have you ran a free credit report on that?
Eric's family was told by an extremely reliable source in the Saginaw area that research they did revealed what you just mentioned ,MyBelle, only it was S.S. benefits. I know this source is in touch with state police, so I don't know what is being done to look into this.
After Eric vanished, she told me that she "never , ever" intended to be with Eric . Yet, she posted things on FB that made Eric's friends say they were like high school sweethearts. One of Eric's closest friends says posts and pictures were deleted. That friend says FG was "hot then cold" .The motel owner said they were either in love or really good friends. He had seen them hugging and she came almost every day and stayed a couple of hours. She said things to me and to the motel owner and housekeeper indicating she was jealous of any friendships of Eric's with other women or even his wife. FG's husband told Eric's aunt that his sister overheard FG talking romantically to Eric on the phone. FG's husband told police he knew his wife was "seeing Eric". He had lots to say against his wife to family and police. I hope you are right and the truth comes to light in this life. I might add that no one says they believe her!!Is it possible that FG was attempting to make it appear that the interaction between her, Eric and the child was minimal? And that the things Eric claimed were all in his head? That's how it seems to me - not that Eric was lying but that she was able to convince people that was the case. Purporting to be the truth by posting on FB isn't verification and she, correctly, assumed that she would be believed when he "left" instead of his convos with family and FB postings.
It's so bizarre because had I heard of this prior I woulda said, there is no way anyone would believe the out-of-state moving ex, over the now missing Eric!
And yet, she was right. So far. The truth has a way of coming to light...
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Eric posted that FG had a plan. He said he didn't understand it at first. She told Eric before he went to Saginaw that she and her husband didn't live together as husband and wife. That was a similar story FG's husband told police. Eric talked to me about how she was going to arrange things so she could keep her favorite business, the Adult Care Facility. He posted that it would take about 2 years. Her husband told one of Eric's family members that his wife was trying to take their house and businesses away and he put one of the businesses in his sister's name. Yet, they were renting the house they lived in when they moved out of state, so that one couldn't be taken away. As stated before, he did speak to Eric's family member of owning a house further up north and was going to sell it.ITA. The mother sounds like a scam artist and usually they get their start by scamming welfare. It's possible he was lured to Michigan in order to obtain his identity so that a household could be set up in his name to obtain welfare benefits.
A call to HHS with her name, the daughter's name and Eric's SS# should set the wheels in motion for an investigation into her agenda.
JMO