Michelle Young~Pregnant Mother NC Part 4

[close_enough]

Oh my goodness! I've been trying to catch up on all these posts today, since we had company in for Thanksgiving and I didn't want to appear too rude hanging on the computer all the time. I can not believe that there is no arrest yet, of JY. I will eat my hatcrazy: ) if he is an innocent man, as much as we would all like him to be. I have listened to the 911 call over and over again this evening. Called my dh & son in here and had them both listen to it. I didn't say a word about little Cassidy or what she had said... my son said "Obviously daddy was there." and my hubby said, "That sob out of town,huh? Well he's your guy" Now these 2 haven't been following this case and reading all this stuff on here like I have. It really is difficult to understand why no arrest yet though. Someone mentioned earlier about would LE delay an arrest due to the upcoming holidays, I feel quite certain they will not, yet what could be the hold up? Is there any one of you guys that think this young woman's murder was a random act? Are we all pretty much agreeing that JY did it? It breaks my heart for little Cassidy, the little unborn baby boy, and all of Michelle's family. So so sad, and so very sick. I wonder also if there is something that causes these demon spouses to just crack at holidays. Horrible loss any time but death just prior to Christmas time is doubly horrible. JMHO. I appreciate all of you.

morning sweetmop

good question.....i think the holidays make for a lot of emotions for lots of folks.....good & otherwise...a time to think about one's life, present, past & future, etc......folks start to think of the past year & how they've led up to it, & wonder what the next will bring...??(does that make sense?)
some are happy, & some are sad...& then there's the angry ones....(shivers)


good question!!

 

[PolkSaladAnnie]

Is it reported anywhere that Cassidy got to see Michelle's family over Thanksgiving? It is odd to me that he has not returned to the house to at least get cloths.

Haven't seen anything here, Masissy... It's got to be heartbreaking for Michelle's mum and her family. Can you imagine the tears at T/G dinner: the stength they all need? And missing Michelle is bad enough - with Cassie so far away: the grief!

Not good.

 

[jilly]

Hey otto, fran ...

Just thinking here ... Meredith knew that house inside out, not only as a relative and regular visitor - but also because she was Cassie's full time carer for some time (which makes JY distancing Cassie that much harder to fathom..). Surely Meredith would be as good a judge of what was disturbed, misplaced, broken and what might be missing?

Exactly. By the way PSA & Taximom....thank you for the little pat on the back...I'm trying! :blushing: My hat goes off to everyone here.The friendly tone is very inviting and hopefully it will encourage more lurkers to join in.

 

[close_enough]

Hi close ... schlurping the Ovaltine..

I'm with you guys on this one.

I 'see' him leaving shortly BEFORE Gr Anat: This would be to MAKE SURE he had their full attention, noticed cases, said goodbyes ... otherwise he'd just as easily have slipped out nekkid and unnoticed if GA it's all it's cracked up to be (don't know this show - not seen it here ...).

So - that would be latest ... 9:20? I highly doubt guests would have arrived at 7 pm as JTF over at CTV, Misfits, etc, suggested we swallow.

Then he maybe drove no further than an hour and half away; checked in and by the time he reached his room, it was 11.

Could there be TWO reasons he may have made that 11:00 call? 1 to fold into his alibi and 2, to make sure the guests had departed and Michelle was going to sleep. I feel he wanted to 'do' this when she was asleep - almost that she 'wouldn't know' who attacked her. A poster here suggested a ski mask (or cover of sorts - I can see that possibility - nevertheless.

So if he left at 11:30 - 11:45 - traffic would be that little easier and he may have reached home - parked - prepared - slunk in and ---->

I'm curious as to why LE specifically stated midnight and 6:00 am?

Maybe he didn't even go back to the hotel? Maybe he SAID he checked out at 6:00, but didn't complete the sentence as to WHERE he checked out from?

Should we wonder if ... he slept at HIS HOUSE or in the car for an hour or so and drove straight to Va?

Ugh. I can't tell you how many pencils I've broken tring various combinations ...!

yep yep Polk....same page, same page

if you look at 'our' timeline here...our guesstimation.. it would be sometime after 12 midnite that he COULD have been back at the neighborhood....the timing......that & i still think the state of Michelle's body gave them a FAIRLY good idea of time of death.....LE must think along the same lines as 'us here', but they have a reason to think so....they're going by his timeline, right?.....lol, we have to guess his timeline.....

 

[packerdog]

Haven't seen anything here, Masissy... It's got to be heartbreaking for Michelle's mum and her family. Can you imagine the tears at T/G dinner: the stength they all need? And missing Michelle is bad enough - with Cassie so far away: the grief!

Not good.

Yes that had to be horrible for her family. I just can't understand why a reward hasn't been offered, even for the sake of showing that they think someone else murdered her from Jason's family. I wonder if LE have told MY family anything.

 

[close_enough]

Exactly. By the way PSA & Taximom....thank you for the little pat on the back...I'm trying! :blushing: My hat goes off to everyone here.The friendly tone is very inviting and hopefully it will encourage more lurkers to join in.

GROUP HUG!
:blushing:

& yes jilly, the Sheriff said as of that night, speaking with live w/Greta, once his deputies relayed to him what they "had", a homocide, CCBI was called in & took over immediately......(i think that's it...ccbi???...county city bureau of investigating?)

 

[SewingDeb]

Hi SewingDeb!! Were you in Germany? Sprechen Sie? Wonderful! I've visited a couple of times, Munich and Cologne. Gorgeous in Spring and Summer; been there mid-winter eek Ahhhh ... O/T, sorry, lol. All charlie's fault :silenced:

Yes....from age 18 months to 5. Army brat.

My earliest memory is of the hotel room in NY before we flew over. I have a lot of memories of Germany and did learn to speak fluently at the time (same time I was learning English...lol). My sister was born in Frankfurt.

I have been back a few years ago to visit Ludwig's castle. We were in Austria and visited Germany, Italy and Switzerland. That was in the spring....cold in Austria, warm in Germany and downright hot in Italy. All in a span of days. Good thing I brought a variety of clothing.

Yep, it's Charlies fault.

Back on topic. Is it possible that Jason has been in touch with LE since the Sheriff's comment about speaking with him briefly? He may be calling in for progress reports or may have even met with investigators, attorney in tow.

 

[close_enough]

Haven't seen anything here, Masissy... It's got to be heartbreaking for Michelle's mum and her family. Can you imagine the tears at T/G dinner: the stength they all need? And missing Michelle is bad enough - with Cassie so far away: the grief!

Not good.

no kidding

 

[SewingDeb]

morning masissy
..i've heard nothing about them seeing Cassie for T-giving.....if i'm not mistaken though, i BELIEVE family members got some things out of the house, once it was released as a crime scene....i would think Cassie's clothes, & some toys were taken, along with some of JY's things.....

I remember reading that a family member went in the house after it was cleared as a crime scene.

 

[PolkSaladAnnie]

Exactly. By the way PSA & Taximom....thank you for the little pat on the back...I'm trying! :blushing: My hat goes off to everyone here.The friendly tone is very inviting and hopefully it will encourage more lurkers to join in.

:blowkiss: to you jilly! You're so welcome - everyone here has been just a blessing to one another and you're part of that. Bout time, eh, that folk from all over the web & world and of diff'rent backgrounds can run 4 mighty long threads and get along!

Your input is great - don't stop and don't go far - and the commitment is equal to close's 5 million posts (tsk, I'd never embarrass myself do that, hahahaha yeah. Right. :innocent: ) or a lurker's first time post.

Y'know, when we read about cases like this - the reality of how precious life is, how short a time we have here, sets in. What on Earth is there to gain by playing "Board-Elbows" and jostling for position or "Forum Freezers" and offering the cold-shoulder? So I happen to have big fat mouth and I tell you what, huz is NOT complaining, lol... keep hearing him ay "No worries: take your time ... it's OK ..." heheheee.

I've actually never enjoyed w/s as much as I have on this thread, albeit a truly tragic story - so do accept 'enjoy' in the right context ....

What are your thoughts on JY as a charecter, Jilly?

 

[close_enough]

Yes....from age 18 months to 5. Army brat.

My earliest memory is of the hotel room in NY before we flew over. I have a lot of memories of Germany and did learn to speak fluently at the time (same time I was learning English...lol). My sister was born in Frankfurt.

I have been back a few years ago to visit Ludwig's castle. We were in Austria and visited Germany, Italy and Switzerland. That was in the spring....cold in Austria, warm in Germany and downright hot in Italy. All in a span of days. Good thing I brought a variety of clothing.
Yep, it's Charlies fault.

Back on topic. Is it possible that Jason has been in touch with LE since the Sheriff's comment about speaking with him briefly? He may be calling in for progress reports or may have even met with investigators, attorney in tow.

omg.....how coooool

i've never been out of the country....(although i have a friend that's driving me nuts to go up to Canada for a visit)

 

[Taximom]

Aw, shoot, I thought I quoted someone for this comment, but it didn't work!

All I was going to say is that I also think JY planned leaving his home while MiY's friends were there so they could witness "a happy couple". This way nobody (LE) could infer that maybe a fight broke out that evening, and he left in anger or was kicked out etc.

Please pass the ovaltine!

 

[SewingDeb]

omg.....how coooool

i've never been out of the country....(although i have a friend that's driving me nuts to go up to Canada for a visit)

You should take your friend up on it. I've only been to Canada once to see Niagra Falls from the other side. I would love to go back for a longer visit.

 

[PolkSaladAnnie]

Yep, it's Charlies fault.

Back on topic. Is it possible that Jason has been in touch with LE since the Sheriff's comment about speaking with him briefly? He may be calling in for progress reports or may have even met with investigators, attorney in tow.

OK, we'll 'do' Germany in Jury Room one day, lol.

There has been such a tight handle on this crime, SewingDeb - there HAS to have been some communication going back and forth. It may be in writing - JY may have submitted an affidavit (for want of an expression) to SmithX3 and they have forwarded it on.

Also, JY's reluctance to 'be up front and open' could well be the catalyst that's slowing down progress. Seems LE have to submit orders before JY does anything.

Whether or not he is guilty, he did himself abso zero favours by being so unco-operative, leaving town, taking Cassie away - and icing out Michelle's family - for NO reason! Lord, he'd just solicited Meredith's trust over the phone. If he's innocent, wouldn't he have hugged her - said "Oh MY God, I had no idea what I was sending you into ....".

Wouldn't he have WANTED to retain the scent, sound, and life of Michelle with BOTH families united? Go through every detail WITH them?

He stinks for that alone, IMO. If he's innocent - he is still an very cold and thoughtless individual!

 

[close_enough]

lmao....really! :laugh:

...Bout time, eh, that folk from all over the web & world and of diff'rent backgrounds can run 4 mighty long threads and get along!

Your input is great - don't stop and don't go far - and the commitment is equal to close's 5 million posts (tsk, I'd never embarrass myself do that, hahahaha yeah. Right. :innocent: ) or a lurker's first time post.

 

[Taximom]

CLOSE, you are closing in on 5,000 comments! That's amazing.

Is there another topic here that caught your interest like this case has?

Jilly and sweetmop (did I miss any other new faces)-jump in and share!

 

[PolkSaladAnnie]

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Aw, shoot, I thought I quoted someone for this comment, but it didn't work!

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All I was going to say is that I also think JY planned leaving his home while MiY's friends were there so they could witness "a happy couple". This way nobody (LE) could infer that maybe a fight broke out that evening, and he left in anger or was kicked out etc.

Please pass the ovaltine!

Indeed, Taximom. Yep... as per 'a glorious marriage'. And THAT"S maybe why he chose Friday for his alleged business trip. He knew there'd be company to back him up...

You know what else I think? If he lied ONCE about a business trip - you may betcha that's not the first time. For every one lie a spouse discovers, it's said there are 9 more that have slinked by ...

 

[jilly]

i'm thinking Cassidy will have a good Christmas & good healthy happy life is ahead of her......it breaks my heart she won't ever 'have' her mama around, but with lots & lots of love, she'll be fine....( i HAVE to look at it this way)

The perfect scenario for me (if JY did this) would be for Meredith to fight for and win custody.

 

[close_enough]

OK, we'll 'do' Germany in Jury Room one day, lol.

There has been such a tight handle on this crime, SewingDeb - there HAS to have been some communication going back and forth. It may be in writing - JY may have submitted an affidavit (for want of an expression) to SmithX3 and they have forwarded it on.

Also, JY's reluctance to 'be up front and open' could well be the catalyst that's slowing down progress. Seems LE have to submit orders before JY does anything.

Whether or not he is guilty, he did himself abso zero favours by being so unco-operative, leaving town, taking Cassie away - and icing out Michelle's family - for NO reason! Lord, he'd just solicited Meredith's trust over the phone. If he's innocent, wouldn't he have hugged her - said "Oh MY God, I had no idea what I was sending you into ....".

Wouldn't he have WANTED to retain the scent, sound, and life of Michelle with BOTH families united? Go through every detail WITH them?

He stinks for that alone, IMO. If he's innocent - he is still an very cold and thoughtless individual!

what we NEED is another visit with Greta, back out to Raleigh, with the Sheriff

we could email Greta & ask "what's up with Raleigh?...we need a update, please"

 

[jilly]

i think JY did a lot of driving ......

Yeah....he probably dropped to his knees when he heard of the news out of pure exhaustion!!!! :crazy: