GUILTY MO - Clauddinnea 'Dee Dee' Blancharde, 48, Springfield, 10 June 2015 - #3

I don’t know why anyone expects someone who was horrifically abused from infancy for decades to suddenly begin making healthy choices.

She’s doing as well as can be expected. We don’t have to agree with her post-prison choices but none of them suggest she cannot be an adequate parent. And that’s all the law requires: not “cured” and not amazing but simply adequate.
 
This troubles me- this post partum display of her body- that by the way, really, nobody cares about- leads me to believe that she requires a whole lot of attention. Remember she received horrible attention from her mother- but it was lots of destructive attention for many many years- It seems she got used to all that attention and now she needs it--- may even require it-- we will be seeing and hearing a lot from her--- and sadly she may use the child to get that attention.
 
This troubles me- this post partum display of her body- that by the way, really, nobody cares about- leads me to believe that she requires a whole lot of attention. Remember she received horrible attention from her mother- but it was lots of destructive attention for many many years- It seems she got used to all that attention and now she needs it--- may even require it-- we will be seeing and hearing a lot from her--- and sadly she may use the child to get that attention.
Showing off the post-baby body pic has become increasingly common on social media for years now. While I do agree it's based off a desire for attention & compliments (exactly the way social media is designed), it's not something out of the ordinary for young women her age.
I do hope she is a good mother to this little girl, and removes herself from public life completely.

jmo
 
No way…in a week?

Yes! Remember the seductive photos of her and Ryan just days after she was released. Ryan was embracing her in the mirror, she had low cut tops on for every photo and she was talking about how it’s been fun to finally have sex with her then husband. She elaborated; I don’t recall the exact words she used but it was weird and inappropriate.

Then I think it was just about a month after that she was posting pictures of her new boyfriend. She didn’t mention Ryan or that she was going to divorce him prior to posting. That was a clear sign of her poor judgment and instability.

When she was interviewed early on she spoke about wanting to mentor women. If that is still her intention she needs therapy to understand the professional and respectful way to pursue that. In my opinion it would take a few years in intensive therapy to see if that is even possible.

To have a child this early on is concerning for someone who isn’t emotionally mature and mentally stable.
 
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Good for Gypsy:


"To everyone asking, No, I will not be posting pictures of Aurora," she wrote. "I understand everyone's excitement and we appreciate the support, but we value the privacy and safety of our daughter."

"We continue to express love towards our supporters and thank you for following our journey ❤️," she added.
 
Good for Gypsy:


"To everyone asking, No, I will not be posting pictures of Aurora," she wrote. "I understand everyone's excitement and we appreciate the support, but we value the privacy and safety of our daughter."

"We continue to express love towards our supporters and thank you for following our journey ❤️," she added.
Hopely this declaration will last. IMO
 
Unfortunately, I think in her life she is going to be in and out of relationships.

 
Unfortunately, I think in her life she is going to be in and out of relationships.

Sadly, I believe she is permanently emotionally damaged--- I am concerned for her child--- Given what was done to her over such an extended period of time, it is not surprising. i don't think we can understand the depth of the trauma she experienced and the deep anger that no doubt has resulted. Then she murdered her mother, the instrument of her torture, but that instrument was still her mother -- so she no doubt lives with ambivalent feelings about her torturer. It doesn't appear that she has the insight to realize she needs help.
 
Unfortunately, I think in her life she is going to be in and out of relationships.

I agree- she seems to lack the insight necessary to make changes in herself -she will probably go from one relationship to another.
 
Sadly, I believe she is permanently emotionally damaged--- I am concerned for her child--- Given what was done to her over such an extended period of time, it is not surprising. i don't think we can understand the depth of the trauma she experienced and the deep anger that no doubt has resulted. Then she murdered her mother, the instrument of her torture, but that instrument was still her mother -- so she no doubt lives with ambivalent feelings about her torturer. It doesn't appear that she has the insight to realize she needs help.

Very good analysis. She would have to be in intensive psychiatric treatment to pursue if she can even be rehabilitated. She FIRST has to be willing to consider that she is emotionally unstable.

Her inability to decipher what is healthy in a relationship is deeply ingrained in her desire for ‘a spark’. She feels that she suffered so much abuse that she deserves to chase her happiness. As it is now, she is going to be chasing ‘sparks’ for the rest of her life. If the child gets in the way of her pursuit of sparks the child is at risk for injury or death (Casey Anthony).

First Ryan, then the boyfriend and next it will be whoever she feels a spark from. It clearly points to her immaturity and instability. Aside from her extreme mental health issues, she has no moral compass to launch her next relationship or just life in general.
 
Very good analysis. She would have to be in intensive psychiatric treatment to pursue if she can even be rehabilitated. She FIRST has to be willing to consider that she is emotionally unstable.

Her inability to decipher what is healthy in a relationship is deeply ingrained in her desire for ‘a spark’. She feels that she suffered so much abuse that she deserves to chase her happiness. As it is now, she is going to be chasing ‘sparks’ for the rest of her life. If the child gets in the way of her pursuit of sparks the child is at risk for injury or death (Casey Anthony).

First Ryan, then the boyfriend and next it will be whoever she feels a spark from. It clearly points to her immaturity and instability. Aside from her extreme mental health issues, she has no moral compass to launch her next relationship or just life in general.
Agree with everything you said. It is a potentially ugly situation- it is unfortunate she chose to bring a child into the world, but if you think about it, she wants a child to LOVE HER-- since her relationships are failing, one after another she will look to this child to make up for all of those failed relationships---not good
 

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