bessie
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Reply to MissIzzy down there at 119. (Sorry, forgot to quote.)
Such thought provoking questions, Miss Izzy. I don't claim to have the answers, mind you, but I appreciate you posing them to us. Sexual responsibility/freedom and ID adults is an important human issue that is grossly overlooked except by the few parents and caregivers like yourself for whom it's a daily concern. There's a voice inside me that's saying, "Don't worry about it, MissIzzy. Ignorance is bliss. They're better off playing with Barbie dolls
." But I realize that as a parent you would love to see them make the natural progressions in life. I would, too. Yet, is it right to release them into adult situations that require a level of responsibility beyond their capacity? On the other hand, is it morally just to exercise control over the sexual activity of chronological adults? Do we write laws based on intellectual age, which is subjective? At some point it becomes a human rights issue, as you well know.
It's a tough dilemma, to be sure. I'm just glad those two girls have you and your husband to guide them, and that so far they seem content with the status quo. It's very sad that you can't protect the other daughter. But your hands are tied by the law, and frankly I'm not sure if that isn't the way it should be. We step onto a slippery slope when we begin to deny liberty to any group of individuals. Yet, I'm sickened to no end by how many, like her and the torture victim, are exploited each and every single day.
Such thought provoking questions, Miss Izzy. I don't claim to have the answers, mind you, but I appreciate you posing them to us. Sexual responsibility/freedom and ID adults is an important human issue that is grossly overlooked except by the few parents and caregivers like yourself for whom it's a daily concern. There's a voice inside me that's saying, "Don't worry about it, MissIzzy. Ignorance is bliss. They're better off playing with Barbie dolls

It's a tough dilemma, to be sure. I'm just glad those two girls have you and your husband to guide them, and that so far they seem content with the status quo. It's very sad that you can't protect the other daughter. But your hands are tied by the law, and frankly I'm not sure if that isn't the way it should be. We step onto a slippery slope when we begin to deny liberty to any group of individuals. Yet, I'm sickened to no end by how many, like her and the torture victim, are exploited each and every single day.