Mothers Who Kill Their Children

[beesy]

But I must add...that my husband is from another generation than Darin. I would shame him if I (in his opinion) was showing others what he deems is all his. I guess it is a different mind set. The one thing I don't understand...is why they called her fat. I am sorry. She was in no way fat! Now that all that ugly bleached hair is gone....she is really pretty. BUT...she could use a lot less makeup. LOL. I don't understand how she can put makeup on anyway. I mean..you have to look in the mirror to put makeup on. I just couldn't do that if I had killed my sweet children. That lady has a screw loose! It is hard to believe she could do that...and yet show no remorse. :waitasec:

I don't think she was fat either. Those take up alot of weight though. I still don't like her hair. It's brown, but at least in the most recent photos I've seen, looks curly and permed. I think her face looks sorta fat now(bad beesy, bad bad)
The prettiest I've ever seen her is when she first went to court. She still had the bandage on her neck. Her hair was just pulled back and she had no makeup on. It didn't take her long to get rid of that look though!

 

[britgirl]

Sorry I have been slow to welcome you and acknowledge the pending first time birth. Here's hoping you have a lovely, healthy baby and a lifetime of happiness.

Thank-you for your kind words Goody xx

 

[britgirl]

Don't worry, you'll be the size of a big country come June

Yes, I'm looking forward to being able to rest my dinner on my bump!xx

 

[britgirl]

Congratulations on the baby. My birthday is June 30th so try for that will you? Just kidding. My family is from Manchester. Whereabouts are you?

Hi! I live in Leicester, near to Nottingham and Birmingham in the midlands.
I'm due on June 25 so who knows, could be your birthday!

Thanks for your message

 

[britgirl]

I think it goes beyond normal vanity of wanting to look nice and be attractive to men as Goody said. In Darlie it could have been pathological, a need for attention that went beyond normal vanity. She's not been diagnosed as far as I know so it's possible it was pathological with her.

Nothing wrong with vanity really is there. I want to look nice when I leave the house so I guess you could call me vain. I prefer to think it's self-confidence. Of course I don't wear thongs and certainly not outside, LOL.

I'm 33 and I pluck the grey hairs from my head with eyebrow tweezers. Is this normal??!

 

[feenix]

Hi! I live in Leicester, near to Nottingham and Birmingham in the midlands.
I'm due on June 25 so who knows, could be your birthday!

Hi Britgirl!

I too am a Britgirl from Manchester, hope you have your baby on my birthday which is June 24th!!

 

[Thinkoflaura]

I'm 37 now and I still wear makeup and earrings and color my hair. I thought ya'll meant her generation, not her age. She and I are in the same generation, and not all of us are vain to that extent. I wear Mom Jeans now! Ugh![/b][/color]

I am so tired of the nitpicking.
I meant that she was a very shallow individual by all accounts.
She wore a thong bikini somewhere, like in her birdbath fountain, and if you all are going to pick apart the ONE THING I thought we would all agree upon, then I totally give UP.

:banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :banghead:

I dress stylishly, modernly, wear makeup, jewelry, high heeled boots and shoes, have my hair colored too, just whatever the he%% I want to, but I am NO Darlie Routier with her snooty attitude.
Could we please come to an agreement that I meant she was shallow and pretentious and drop this? Nitpicking distracts the importance of the other words in the post and thread, and I regret that it keeps happening on the WS forum more than I can say.

Thank you for reading my post. Best to all.

 

[beesy]

I am so tired of the nitpicking.
I meant that she was a very shallow individual by all accounts.
She wore a thong bikini somewhere, like in her birdbath fountain, and if you all are going to pick apart the ONE THING I thought we would all agree upon, then I totally give UP.

:banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :banghead:

I dress stylishly, modernly, wear makeup, jewelry, high heeled boots and shoes, have my hair colored too, just whatever the he%% I want to, but I am NO Darlie Routier with her snooty attitude.
Could we please come to an agreement that I meant she was shallow and pretentious and drop this? Nitpicking distracts the importance of the other words in the post and thread, and I regret that it keeps happening on the WS forum more than I can say.

Thank you for reading my post. Best to all.

My post above was not to you, it was to Goody. I completely agree that Darlie was vain and shallow and pretentious. I'd have to be blind not to. This is Goody's post that I was responding to:

O, you are probably more vain than you realize. I remember wanting to dress in "cool" clothes and get a sharp hairdo, went through a make up stage, etc. Most of us are vain to some extent in our twenties. After all, we aren't dead yet at that age.

Girls like Darlie are probably upping the vanity levels some, but I don't find it all that unusual for a young woman to want to be appreciated by the opposite sex, to want to look sexy and attractive, to want to the attention of others.

I don't think Darlie's failings fall in her vanity levels but in her detachment and ability to just bounce back before the bodies were even cold. Somehow she even managed to justify it in her mind, i.e. the boys lived full lives. How do you live a full life in just 5 or 6 years?

I think Darin said a lot when he said they were so wrapped up in "living large" they lost track of what was important or something to that effect. That's another thing that makes me think Darin was more involved in what happened than he claims. I think he is haunted by what they did that night, and if the truth be known, is probably the one with the conscience.

I don't think Darlie could deal with a conscience so her way of coping with what they did is to balance it somewhere between justification and denial.
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I stand behind everything else I said in my 2 posts addressed to you

 

[beesy]

I'm 33 and I pluck the grey hairs from my head with eyebrow tweezers. Is this normal??!

Haha I wouldn't know..I don't have any gray hairs. I am so glad to know I am not the baby here. Everybody else is ancient and doesn't understand our generation, LOL

 

[j2mirish]

I'm 33 and I pluck the grey hairs from my head with eyebrow tweezers. Is this normal??!

o/t here- but reminded me---
I use to do that too- started after my 6 year old daughter was brushing my hair one day sitting on the couch--
she said " mommy, why do you have white strings in your hair? "

 

[cami]

Hey Cami, I too am in Manchester. I asked you whereabouts in Lancashire your family were when we were discussing the bloody onion, but you must have missed it?

I did miss it sorry. Gosh small world isn't it really.

I haven't been there since 1979 but I do hope to get back there some day. I have cousins there that I talk to all the time by email of course.

 

[cami]

No,it is quite normal to be vain. We all are to some degree whether we will admit or not. I just am not sure that we KNOW Darlie's vanity was all that much more consuming that most of the rest of us. She obviously had a bit more. That is evidenced in her picture perfect appearance on picture day and her neatnik housekeeping style, her showplace style of decorating, etc. I just don't feel comfortable leaping to the assumption that any of it was pathological without at least some evidence of her daily behaviors and interactions,etc. spelling it out.


Well, you aren't 22 with a knock out body living in the sweltering hot Texas sun either. LOL!

LOl, no I'm over 50 with a knockout body living in the frozen northland, aaahahahahahahahahah pass me my toque and polar fleece.

Yeah I agree, I thought that was what I said anyway, that if there is pathology it goes beyond normal vanity. I keep my house clean too but it appears it might have been a tad obsessive in Darlie. Actually, she reminds of my friend in that regard. She is immaculate in her housekeeping and so is her son and he's a teenager! I bet his room is spotless, LOL. It's a need to keep their environment tidy and clean.

 

[Jeana (DP)]

Who said she was a lady????? LOL! Come on, even most hookers don't kill their kids. Just because she liked to strut her stuff through the neighborhood doesn't make her pathological.

No, strutting herself around the neighborhood like a ho, doesn't make her pathological. The fact that she slaughtered her two little boys in their sleep makes her pathological.

 

[cami]

He killed two daughters and his wife was pregnant with his son.

Yes, that's what I said, He killed one daughter in the midst of the argument with his wife-Kimberley,his eldest daughter. He then murdered his baby, Kristen, because she was there and because she was a witness.

 

[cami]

But I don't understand the wanting to be attractive to other men. I work hard at looking pretty for my HUSBAND. I want to please him. I could give a rats tail about what other men think of me. He is my one and only concern! I really dig him...LOL...can you tell? One day...when his hair was thinning, and turning grey, he asked me if it bothered me. I told him....no honey....I LOVE antiques! You look better and BETTER to me each year! LOL. I do love him. He is a sweetie!

Oh you're right, I would never look sideways at another man when I was married. I honestly did not think when I said that. I'm single so I didn't even think in the context of being married.

 

[cami]

Here's the story of a lovely lady
Who was bringing up three very lovely girls.
All of them had hair of gold, like their mother,
The youngest one in curls.

Here's the story, of a man named Brady,
Who was busy with three boys of his own,
They were four men, living all together,
Yet they were all alone.

Till the one day when the lady met this fellow
And they knew it was much more than a hunch,
That this group would somehow form a family.
That's the way we all became the Brady Bunch.
The Brady Bunch,

That's the way we all became the Brady Bunch.
The Brady Bunch.

OMG aaaaaaaaaahahahahahahahahahahhahahaah you fool, hysterical.

 

[cami]

Who said she was a lady????? LOL! Come on, even most hookers don't kill their kids. Just because she liked to strut her stuff through the neighborhood doesn't make her pathological. Darlie might have liked admiration, but she wasn't promiscuous, which would be more indicative of real problems there. I think she was just young and adventuresome.

For the record, Goody didn't wear a thong in public either. Shoot, they didn't even have thong bikinis when Goody was 22. Bikinis hadn't been out that long!!! hahahahahaha. And she didn't wear them either.

Well sorry to have to say this but I think she looked like an "old slapper" and the British girls will know what I mean. Cheap in other words. With her bleached hair and skin tight clothes and all that makeup.

I guess I am just too old school or old fashioned. Strutting around your neighbourhood in a bathing suit is disgusting regardless of how hot it is. I would have felt very ashamed to call her my mother. I don't think she got much "admiration" from the neighbours.

Of course today the girls are showing everything they have with those low cut tops and baring midriffs, low cut pants, etc, LOL. I remember when we weren't allowed to wear mini skirts but we all did somehow.

 

[feenix]

Well sorry to have to say this but I think she looked like an "old slapper" and the British girls will know what I mean.

Hope you mean because us British girls will understand the definition of the term "an old slapper" and not for any other reason Cami!! LOL :blowkiss:
:slap:

 

[cami]

Hope you mean because us British girls will understand the definition of the term "an old slapper" and not for any other reason Cami!! LOL :blowkiss:
:slap:

OMG, yes that's what I meant aaaahahahahahahah sorry about that.

 

[feenix]

OMG, yes that's what I meant aaaahahahahahahah sorry about that.

I know that's what you meant really, just kidding you!! :blowkiss: