Trudie
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This is all speculation.....
I wonder if Uncle was the one threatening self harm, hearing voices, etc. Once James entered the family unit, was Uncle pissed if James got a snack or a soda? With his weight being out of control, did mom attempt to stifle his eating? Was it “all of the cookies are gone...no more for a week,” and out of rage and withdrawal Uncle turned maniacal? Sounds silly but a 14 yo obese boy is apt to fly off the handle over nothing, imo & be a very pathetic person emotionally.
It appears to me Grandpa was not as involved, although he was certainly aware of the abuse, so no excuses....absolutely none.
If James suffered from psychiatric problems possibly they were triggered by nightmares or ptsd. It would be difficult to sleep knowing a 300# monster armed with a paddle lurked nearby. (I don’t know Uncle but had nightmares after reading here.)
The sister/aunt....idk what to think. Why did she not call for help or alert a friend? She obviously was aware of the torture her nephew suffered. Was she so wrapped up in her life she was able to block what she witnessed & heard?
Did Uncle invite Gage to the discipline party to video him, hoping he would kill James or at least be blamed?
Anyone know if Gramps is employed by the BOE? I know he coached FB. In my state, a coach is employed by the school system.
I hope all 4 are most miserable tonight, wishing they had more food & a comfortable bed. Things James never knew in their home.
I wonder if Uncle was the one threatening self harm, hearing voices, etc. Once James entered the family unit, was Uncle pissed if James got a snack or a soda? With his weight being out of control, did mom attempt to stifle his eating? Was it “all of the cookies are gone...no more for a week,” and out of rage and withdrawal Uncle turned maniacal? Sounds silly but a 14 yo obese boy is apt to fly off the handle over nothing, imo & be a very pathetic person emotionally.
It appears to me Grandpa was not as involved, although he was certainly aware of the abuse, so no excuses....absolutely none.
If James suffered from psychiatric problems possibly they were triggered by nightmares or ptsd. It would be difficult to sleep knowing a 300# monster armed with a paddle lurked nearby. (I don’t know Uncle but had nightmares after reading here.)
The sister/aunt....idk what to think. Why did she not call for help or alert a friend? She obviously was aware of the torture her nephew suffered. Was she so wrapped up in her life she was able to block what she witnessed & heard?
Did Uncle invite Gage to the discipline party to video him, hoping he would kill James or at least be blamed?
Anyone know if Gramps is employed by the BOE? I know he coached FB. In my state, a coach is employed by the school system.
I hope all 4 are most miserable tonight, wishing they had more food & a comfortable bed. Things James never knew in their home.