I do agree with that. When my husband's 24 year old nephew committed suicide with a shotgun it was one of the best times of his life or so we thought. He had just been promoted at work. He was engaged and soon to be married to his girlfriend of 4 years. In fact the night he committed suicide they went out to a movie and a dinner and discussed their wedding plans. She said he was very happy and upbeat telling her how he wanted different things to be in their wedding. Like usual, he kissed her goodnight and 45 minutes later he lay dead in his elderly grandparents front yard.
He had called his grandmother telling her he needed to come out and talk with her. He called around midnight and she told him she would wait up for him. His grandfather was still asleep. She waited by the door and turned the outside lights on for him. They lived in a very rural area on a farm so it took him about 30 minutes to get there. She saw him pull up in his truck and she could hear the music coming from it but he parked way over at the side of the yard instead of pulling up to the garage like he always did. As she waited she heard a tremendous boom. Everyone from the south knows the sound of a shotgun. She ran and got his Papa up and they rushed outside. The yard was dark on that area of their vast yard so his grandfather had to get his vehicle and shine the lights in that direction to see him. She called 911 and it took them 30 minutes to get there. He was immediately dead and torn all apart yet they still held him until the EMTs and Sheriff arrived. It ruined both of their lives and they were never the same again.They had practically raised him all of his life.
I still wish to this day that he would have gone to his own apartment to do it if that was what he was determined to do. He made them victims and they never mentally healed or recovered from what they saw and the grandson they lost. They were in their 70s then. It seemed like such a cruel self centered thing to do to the very two that cared about him the most.
We went through everything he owned even his phone, computer and never could find a reason for what he decided to kill himself.
IMO
That is one of the saddest stories I've ever heard! 😭I do agree with that. When my husband's 24 year old nephew committed suicide with a shotgun it was one of the best times of his life or so we thought. He had just been promoted at work. He was engaged and soon to be married to his girlfriend of 4 years. In fact the night he committed suicide they went out to a movie and a dinner and discussed their wedding plans. She said he was very happy and upbeat telling her how he wanted different things to be in their wedding. Like usual, he kissed her goodnight and 45 minutes later he lay dead in his elderly grandparents front yard.
He had called his grandmother telling her he needed to come out and talk with her. He called around midnight and she told him she would wait up for him. His grandfather was still asleep. She waited by the door and turned the outside lights on for him. They lived in a very rural area on a farm so it took him about 30 minutes to get there. She saw him pull up in his truck and she could hear the music coming from it but he parked way over at the side of the yard instead of pulling up to the garage like he always did. As she waited she heard a tremendous boom. Everyone from the south knows the sound of a shotgun. She ran and got his Papa up and they rushed outside. The yard was dark on that area of their vast yard so his grandfather had to get his vehicle and shine the lights in that direction to see him. She called 911 and it took them 30 minutes to get there. He was immediately dead and torn all apart yet they still held him until the EMTs and Sheriff arrived. It ruined both of their lives and they were never the same again.
I still wish to this day that he would have gone to his own apartment to do it if that was what he was determined to do. He made them victims and they never mentally healed or recovered from what they saw and the grandson they lost. They were in their 70s then. It seemed like such a cruel self centered thing to do to the very two that cared about him the most.
We went through everything he owned even his phone, computer and never could find a reason for what he decided to kill himself.
IMO
