Nova said:
The problem with that argument is that minorities always make the majority feel uncomfortable. Before we start evicting people from airplanes (or buses or malls or...), we need a better standard than the subjective feelings of others.
Fine. If and when a group of gay men start blowing up citizens, we'll worry about you.
My point is that one person feeling "uncomfortable" might be subjective. An entire plane load isn't.
(I know your argument isn't a personal attack on me (or anyone else), but I do have a personal stake in this. It wasn't too long ago when the discomfort of the majority around people like me (gay) was used as an excuse to put us in prison, insane asylums, etc. We still have that policy in the military: no gays because we might make other soldiers uncomfortable. Nobody even bothers to argue any more that gays make inferior soldiers.)
Ok, you have a valid point, but ignore your personal bias for a second and hear me out.
The discomfort you're describing above is WAY more about that person than it is anything you have done to deserve it. We have grown leaps and bounds since those witch hunts and pathetic excuses for discrimination.
What I'm talking about is a group of people who have publicly stated that it is their goal to convert the entire world to their backwards religion and kill the hold outs. Now, it's bad enough that they're saying this out loud, but they've started implementing this goal in the other parts of the world (Sudan, Thailand, etc). You can clearly see what their intentions are and they're willing to implement what they need to, to reach this goal.
I'm a woman working in a corporate environment (we've discussed this before) and I've been the subject of bias and prejudice, so I do know where you're coming from.
This is not the same thing.
Please God, don't make me have to respond to this with the "I'm not talking about all Muslims" disclaimer, if you know how to read, you should understand that (not directed at you, Nova).