Nancy Cooper, 34, of Cary, N.C. #20

[momto3kids]

With his HUGE bonus, you'd think he'd offer a reward of sumpin'. :waitasec: Or is he waiting for someone else to pick up the tab,........like for Nancy's funeral?

JMHO
fran

Just any amount for a reward is better than nothing! IMO if Cisco believed in their employee they would make an attempt help with a reward.

Again, ~actions speak louder than words~ BC has NOT done 1 thing to show he cares at all about NC and what happened to her. Just wait until the girls are old enough to understand all of this and they know their father didn't attend one service for their mother.

Blum called Cooper a "very private man" who does not want to mourn his wife in front of reporters. If BC had not been invited to attend Blum would have been the 1st to throw that out in everyones face.

Reporters? Does BC not realize there would be no reporters if a crime like this hadn't occured?:waitasec:

 

[momto3kids]

You know Fran....I wonder how any human can be so cold, sit back and do absolutely NOTHING when this is someone they supposedly loved has been murdered? Reward would at least give us a glimmer of hope he is doing something other than trying to cover his tracks and story.

I wonder how many calls have been placed to get updates from the CPD about his wife's murder?

 

[raisincharlie]

I am shocked :

http://www.newsobserver.com/news/crime_safety/story/1179551.html

In a motion filed late Friday, Amy Fitzhugh, Wake County Assistant District Attorney, said she will ask for another 30-day seal on the warrants, saying that their release could impact a possible defendant’s right to a fair trial.

 

[Roy23]

I am shocked :

http://www.newsobserver.com/news/crime_safety/story/1179551.html

In a motion filed late Friday, Amy Fitzhugh, Wake County Assistant District Attorney, said she will ask for another 30-day seal on the warrants, saying that their release could impact a possible defendant’s right to a fair trial.

I wonder what the deal is here. How does this help a defendant's right to a fair trial? I actually know the answer but I am ready to see what they got.

 

[momto3kids]

i am shocked :

http://www.newsobserver.com/news/crime_safety/story/1179551.html

in a motion filed late friday, amy fitzhugh, wake county assistant district attorney, said she will ask for another 30-day seal on the warrants, saying that their release could impact a possible defendant’s right to a fair trial.

wonderful
Now the suspense rises for Cooper!

 

[raisincharlie]

wonderful
Now the suspense rises for Cooper!

I am surprised by this wording relating to search warrants of the house, the cars and for Brad. Possible defendant - is this the new buzz word now?

 

[Anderson]

I'll never understand how a man could remain friends with a guy who slept with his wife. I don't care that she's now 'ex' Mrs. Heider NO HYPHEN!

Betrayal of trust is a powerful thing. UNLESS they're two of a kind?:waitasec:

Nahhhh...........nothing to indicate Mr Heider is ANYTHING like Brad.......well, other than being allegedly friends.

From Mr. Heider's affidavit, it seems he may have blamed Nancy for HIS WIFE'S infidelity.......he seems pretty angry at Nancy and NOT Brad. Pretty messed up if you ask me. Wonder if there's something we don't know?:crazy:

JMHO
fran

I really wonder too. JA also thought it was strange that this is where he chose to bring the kids while the investigation was taking place.

Scott may just be a very supportive friend of course, but his comments on the affidavit indicate that he is not quite so supportive of Nancy. Some of the examples seem ridiculous to me. Scott gives one example where Nancy describes a small pool as an olympic sized pool. Perhaps she was just being sarcastic!! It is very difficult to know without hearing the context and her tone when she made the comment. Some people don't get sarcasm.

Just my opinions and thoughts.

 

[Roy23]

I am surprised by this wording relating to search warrants of the house, the cars and for Brad. Possible defendant - is this the new buzz word now?

Is the word possible defendant a new term that will be used instead of person of interest?

 

[raisincharlie]

Is the word possible defendant a new term that will be used instead of person of interest?

Seems like it to me Roy. Possible defendant - certainly implies he has not been ruled out at this point.

 

[DogWood]

I am shocked :

http://www.newsobserver.com/news/crime_safety/story/1179551.html

In a motion filed late Friday, Amy Fitzhugh, Wake County Assistant District Attorney, said she will ask for another 30-day seal on the warrants, saying that their release could impact a possible defendant’s right to a fair trial.

Talk about walking around with a bullseye on your forehead...

Thanks for the link!

 

[carolinalady]

Just any amount for a reward is better than nothing! IMO if Cisco believed in their employee they would make an attempt help with a reward.

Again, ~actions speak louder than words~ BC has NOT done 1 thing to show he cares at all about NC and what happened to her. Just wait until the girls are old enough to understand all of this and they know their father didn't attend one service for their mother.

Blum called Cooper a "very private man" who does not want to mourn his wife in front of reporters. If BC had not been invited to attend Blum would have been the 1st to throw that out in everyones face.

Reporters? Does BC not realize there would be no reporters if a crime like this hadn't occured?:waitasec:

Bolding is mine. Many on this board have said if he made an offer of a reward it would be straight out of the "OJ Playbook."

 

[raisincharlie]

Talk about walking around with a bullseye on your forehead...

Thanks for the link!

Yep - and you are welcome.

 

[Roy23]

Seems like it to me Roy. Possible defendant - certainly implies he has not been ruled out at this point.

Of course they say "a possible defendant" which implies nothing to Brad. It could be an acquiantance of Brad and Nancy. LE in Cary really knows how to keep secrets. They are not giving in to the media. It makes them seem competent in my eyes. I have a feeling Brad planned pretty well.

 

[citygirl]

Seems like it to me Roy. Possible defendant - certainly implies he has not been ruled out at this point.

Could not be any plainer. Why are you surprised? I'm a neophyte but seems like common sense to me. What am I missing, RC?

 

[carolinalady]

I am shocked :

http://www.newsobserver.com/news/crime_safety/story/1179551.html

In a motion filed late Friday, Amy Fitzhugh, Wake County Assistant District Attorney, said she will ask for another 30-day seal on the warrants, saying that their release could impact a possible defendant’s right to a fair trial.

Please look at the document: http://www.wral.com/asset/news/local/2008/08/15/3387954/willoughbymotions.pdf.

The paperworks still states that it could hamper/impede an ongoing investigation and/or etc. etc. etc.

The media seems to cherry pick portions of the motion.

 

[ncnative]

Earlier I made a comment about Brad's narcissism. Typical narcissist behavior is that of not caring about anything except for themselves, or what they can get out of other people that benefits the narcissist. They especially care about what others think about them, for example, looks, possessions, their public persona. Behind closed doors they usually are a whole different person. Raging bulls. Belittlers, abusers, Jeckyl and Hyde.

Scott Peterson, Michael Petersen, and many of our wife killers had narcissism in their blood. Brad's got plenty of that, according to descriptions by others. I think his ex-girlfriend from Canada told it well. (I've known a few women narcissists too.)

Behind narcissism many times is some sort of abuse or neglect in early years. That's not all, but a big part. Our early childhood years are so important. Wonder what his were like? Especially with that cold, controlling mother of his.

When he didn't want Jessica to stay with his girls while he "looked for Nancy" in the car, he probably did not want Jessica asking them questions, or possibly seeing something in the house, or having her check the phones, computers or anything else she could have. Not that she would have. Just supposing.

 

[MoonFlwr]

Bolding is mine. Many on this board have said if he made an offer of a reward it would be straight out of the "OJ Playbook."

Yep, I remember some of those posts. Thanks for the reminder!

 

[EntreNous]

I'll never understand how a man could remain friends with a guy who slept with his wife. I don't care that she's now 'ex' Mrs. Heider NO HYPHEN!

Betrayal of trust is a powerful thing. UNLESS they're two of a kind?:waitasec:

Nahhhh...........nothing to indicate Mr Heider is ANYTHING like Brad.......well, other than being allegedly friends.

From Mr. Heider's affidavit, it seems he may have blamed Nancy for HIS WIFE'S infidelity.......he seems pretty angry at Nancy and NOT Brad. Pretty messed up if you ask me. Wonder if there's something we don't know?:crazy:

JMHO
fran

I just went back and re-read that. He was really harsh! All he had to do was pump Brad up. He didn't have to trash Nancy like that to make his point. Odd.

 

[raisincharlie]

Could not be any plainer. Why are you surprised? I'm a neophyte but seems like common sense to me. What am I missing, RC?

I'm not surprised that Brad would be a suspect - in fact I believe he is the suspect.

I am surprised the Assistant DA acutally worded it that way - there are only three people that could be affected by the search warrants of the house Brad, Bella, and Katie. I'm pretty confident in ruling Bella and Katie out as the "possible defendant" - leaving only Brad - I just find it odd wording.

 

[carolinalady]

I'll never understand how a man could remain friends with a guy who slept with his wife. I don't care that she's now 'ex' Mrs. Heider NO HYPHEN!

Betrayal of trust is a powerful thing. UNLESS they're two of a kind?:waitasec:

Nahhhh...........nothing to indicate Mr Heider is ANYTHING like Brad.......well, other than being allegedly friends.

From Mr. Heider's affidavit, it seems he may have blamed Nancy for HIS WIFE'S infidelity.......he seems pretty angry at Nancy and NOT Brad. Pretty messed up if you ask me. Wonder if there's something we don't know?:crazy:

JMHO
fran

Again, bolding is mine. Which statement of his makes you think he blamed Nancy for his wife's infidelity?