Nancy Cooper, 34, of Cary, N.C. #5

[jilly]

Everything is moving so fast I'm having trouble keeping up, LOL

To NancyFriend:

We realize this is a trying time for Nancy's friends, as well as her family. It's good to see there are therapists and counselors available to those that are in need. This must be a terrible burden to deal with. Especially when there are children involved.

It's nice there are going to be vigils and rememberances of Nancy. She deserves that. This will also help the local residents to grieve, celebrate Nancy's life, and heal. The fund to help Nancy's two precious babies sounds like a wonderful idea as well. I'm sure it will be sincerely appreciated.

Please know, that although we never knew Nancy or anyone involved, we each care about the victims, the families, and the friends. Each horrifying crime such as this, brings us together, again and again and again. Some may not believe me when I say, that although I enjoy chatting with posters here, I am sick of these same cases appearing on our nightly news, over and over and over. It's heartbreaking, truly it is.

So often we all know the 'end,' before we get to the final chapter. But each time we pray we're wrong this time. Each time we find out we're NOT wrong, many of us weep. Tears for the victims, the many lost souls and their precious little ones left behind, as well as their families and friends, that quite often are shell shocked at the monster that was hiding behind that closed door. They never knew, the victim didn't know, maybe even the eventual person arrested didn't know he had this evil within himself.

Bless you and take care. I'll pray to give you strength and wisdom to make it through these next couple of days of heartache. Hold your family close and give your little ones an extra hug and kiss. I'm sure they'll appreciate it at this time.

fran

Well said Fran!:clap:It bears repeating.

Nancyfriend - My thoughts and prayers are with all of you now too!:blowkiss:

 

[Busylady]

IIRC Nancys friend Adams said she knew of Carrie but didnt know her phone number. when BC called her asking about Carrie.

Does this Carrie exist?? I will explain. I am not sure what the verdict was on this.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Does this Carrie exist?? I will explain. I am not sure what the verdict was on this.

If I recall correctly, Brad threw the name out there to Jessica. She did recognize the name, but only in passing from Nancy and had no contact information for her.

I believe it was a name that Brad pulled out of his @ss under the circumstances. He probably knew that Jessica did not know her. (Never ask a question you don't already know the answer to when you are trying to cover up a murder kind of thing.)

 

[Blink34]

If I recall correctly, Brad threw the name out there to Jessica. She did recognize the name, but only in passing from Nancy and had no contact information for her.

I believe it was a name that Brad pulled out of his @ss under the circumstances. He probably knew that Jessica did not know her. (Never ask a question you don't already know the answer to when you are trying to cover up a murder kind of thing.)

SS, know you just got on, Jessica has acknowledged knowing of her previously, just not meeting her. I think/we discussed that when Jessica asked Brad for the contact info is when that unspoken moment of "YOur full of sh*t, I know what your up to what did you do to her, you SOB-
thus why she called the police.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

There's our girl, long day without your voice of reason.

Awww, thanks! I missed being here, but real life had to steal me away yet again from my life of being a WSer. (Good thing this site isn't called Blogsleuths or BSers for short!)

 

[Blink34]

Awww, thanks! I missed being here, but real life had to steal me away yet again from my life of being a WSer. (Good thing this site isn't called Blogsleuths or BSers for short!)

right, I tell my kids to schedule their needs more appropriately for Mommy's diligence but they wont budge!!

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Yes, I agree, Blink! She saw right through him, didn't she? Good for Jessica being intelligent and as intuitive as she is. While it was too late for Nancy, it wasn't too late to get things started and not give him more time to cover his tracks. Bravo!

 

[cinsbythesea]

I heard from my friend who lives 1 mile from where Nancy lived in Cary. She said she has spoken to friends of Nancy's friends (so still heresay) and they have pretty much confirmed Brad was definitely having an affair, that her friends knew about it. She says everyone in their community thinks the husband killed her. She did say police there are being very careful about info they let out and everyone feels it's because they are building a case against BC.

Not anything earth-shattering or new info, but just interesting to hear someone's take on it that is right there.

This is so sad. I get so tired of reading about these men who so callously decide to get rid of their wives/girlfriends because of pending money because of potential divorce or pregnancy issues. Sickening. Just sickening. My heart is heavy over the loss of Nancy and for her two beautiful daughters who will not know their mother's love.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

It's quite possible that he took someone else with him to act as her when the papers needed signing. That certainly wouldn't be a first.

True. He could also pay a hefty amount to a crooked notary to verify that signature without anyone, too. I am sure that LE will have handwriting experts look at anything she could have signed regarding finances in the past few months.

 

[cheko1]

You must also realize these are the feelings of the family. It's time now for LE to substantiate what "information" this is based on. In-laws never take too kindly to the man/woman that are causing their child pain in a divorce. Couple that with the fact that their daughter has been killed, I can't even imagine what they must be feeling towards this man. My prayers are with Nancy and her family.

Very true RR!
I'm so proud of Nancy's family for standing up to this creep! The first time I seen her family on TV I thought they look like such sweet, nice people how will they be able to cope???

For them to know what a hateful scum he was to Nancy & the girls must of been very hard on them. I am so glad they have got custody of the girls for now. By the time the court date comes around maybe BC will be under arrest.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Has anyone checked out the dating sites for Brad yet?

 

[pjop]

Good Luck for Mr. Certified Cisco wizard, Triathlete, Lance Armstrong wannabe financial forensic planner mounting an insanity defense.

Ha! His MBA will come in handy....Murderous B@stard.....Allegedly.
IMOO.

 

[Taximom]

Has anyone checked out the dating sites for Brad yet?

I said a few threads back that I just couldn't do it this time. I bet he's out there though!

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Ha! His MBA will come in handy....Murderous B@stard.....Allegedly.
IMOO.

LOL I have a feeling before this case is over...we will have called him every name in the book...and even made a few up of our own! (COB, for instance!)

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I said a few threads back that I just couldn't do it this time. I bet he's out there though!

With his ego, it wouldn't surprise me. Think Bobby Cutts, Jr. in the (gag me) towel.

 

[Blink34]

Yes, I agree, Blink! She saw right through him, didn't she? Good for Jessica being intelligent and as intuitive as she is. While it was too late for Nancy, it wasn't too late to get things started and not give him more time to cover his tracks. Bravo!

True dat y'all- She may be responsible for insuring his prosecution. She definately was responsible for them finding her body as quickly as they did. I want her to be my friend.

 

[jilly]

I think the TN laws concerning grandparents' rights are very similar to NC. Grandparents have NO rights - but (O/T) I petitioned the court for emergency temporary custody of my grandson and was awarded custody after a three-day waiting period to allow the biological parents to appear in court (and they DID have notice) to dispute. They did not appear for the court hearing and therefore waived their rights. I think this husband had the same opportunity and did not fight it (although I am not sure about this fact), but it seems to me tha the could have fought it if he wanted to.

He does already have an attorney, right?

And btw, we were never pressed for a full custody hearing, by anyone, and adopted several years later.

SO I have to wonder, why he didn't (apparently) fight this?

We only know about the criminal attorney he has, happy.

So did you end up with a Temporary custody order or (Permanent) Order for custody after those 3 days?

If I understand this correctly, It sounds to me like you did make an ex parte application for temporary custody and he granted that with the provision that the parents be served giving them 3 days notice to respond. Since they did not respond, maybe he made it into a permanent custody order? If it was a Temporary Order that you ended up with, perhaps it was stated on the Order that it would remain in force & effect unless otherwise ordered by the Court which eliminated the need for you to return to Court.

In any event, Blink has stated that the procedure differs State to State.
As I understand it, in the Cooper case, the date of July 25th has been set for Brad to contest this.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

True dat y'all- She may be responsible for insuring his prosecution. She definately was responsible for them finding her body as quickly as they did. I want her to be my friend.

We all should have friends like her!

 

[Taximom]

With his ego, it wouldn't surprise me. Think Bobby Cutts, Jr. in the (gag me) towel.

:doh: You had to remind me, didn't you?!

I have to apologize for my earlier comments suggesting Jessica Adams may have been having an affair with Brad. I am so happy Nancy had a good friend like her that was on top of things like she was. Her reaction to Nancy "missing" was exactly that of Stacy Peterson's sister when she couldn't reach her by cellphone. Lord knows how long Brad was going to keep it secret that Nancy was "missing". So anyway, my heartfelt apologies to Jessica Adams. :blowkiss:

 

[jilly]

Dear Canadian friend of mine, and mother of that cute little PEPPURR!

I know what you mean. I live on the border, as you know, in Niagara Falls Ontario and I often go over the river. I DID get a passport when we thought it was coming down to the deadline, but they keep extending it. Now I have a passport and NO PLACE TO GO, of course, unless you consider a trip over the river (to Niagara Falls NY) a vacation.

So...you can still cross with a birth certificate and other photo ID, as it stands now. :thumb:

Yes! Fellow Canadian friend! :hug::canada:

Tell me about it....no place to go!! I went to Mexico in March and thought Oh Good - I can get a stamp in my new passport! They didn't even look at it!:cursing: