Beautifully expressed, OldCop
When it comes to how LD could be such a mess when he had loving parents, well, we’ve all seen this all over Websleuths and in the news.
As a NYC teacher of 8th graders for 25 years, I truly appreciate this post.
Although I didn’t enter their homes, I did meet with parents constantly.
Some of the most obstreperous kids had the most loving and well-off parents, with excellent careers.
Conversely, some of the students who most prized their education came from homes of full neglect.
That’s when the school would send men or women like you to their homes.
One of my favorite students at 13 years old was an awesome child, but in his 20s was involved in the George Smith murder on a cruise ship.
You just never know.
JMO and experience.