GUILTY NC - Frank Lombard for sexually exploiting 5yo son, Durham, 2009

[VespaElf]

Everytime I read stories like this, I am struck by how incredibly sick and twisted the behavior is.....yet the perp was apparently living what appeared to be a normal life to the outside world - even to his partner. How can someone have such evil horrible behavior and still act 'normal'? Isn't there something about these people that would raise an alarm??:waitasec:

You would think so but time & time again we hear that the partner/wife/other family members had "no clue"there was a monster in their midst.I think with most of these pedophiles they are also sociopaths so they are able to "keep their mask on".Obviously this guy is very learned,is in a pretty high income bracket etc so on the face of things he looks 'better' than a pedophile like ,say,John Couey who was a homeless,criminal drug addict with little to no education.If John Couey wanted to adopt-no way.But a successful ,professional?Of course. I also dont think basic psych testing could "out"someone like this guy.Look at someone like Bundy.........they are intelligent & very good at outward appearances!!!!!!

I worked with a VERY successful,intelligent & wonderful woman.She confided how she found out she had been married to a pedophile.She said he was a great Father,they had a great sex life........she had no clue he was,for years,molesting family members.She said wives are usually the last to know & I think in alot of cases its true .Yes there are some p.o.s or ignorant women who know & ignore but there also very,very,very many who do not know & are just as shocked & betrayed as everybody else.

 

[Openmind]

I worry that this was not the first time this creep had offered the child to a stranger for sex. Not only did this "father" abuse his own child but he was making him available to any pervert that was willing to fly down and abuse the child.

In addition, a confidential source told an FBI Task Force member that, on number of occasions, he or she had witnessed someone thought to be Lombard performing oral sex and other sex acts on a child believed to be under the age of 10.

http://www.huliq.com/6168/82786/duke-university-official-offers-son-sex

So has he been posting his perverted acts on the Internet?

All the while under the guise of being an adopted father in a job or trust and responsibility.

 

[IWannaKnow]

:curses::curses::curses::curses::curses:

I cannot stand these stories!!!!! Yet I am compelled to witness for the poor child......... There is no emoticon to capture how I feel :whip:.

I am at a loss for words, what I feel is not something I can say on this forum. If I could wiggle my nose like Samantha and get anything I wanted, it would be a full castration/LorenaBobbitt for this - then I would serve it to him for dinner - crispy brown on Ritz crackers.........all before he serves his full 200 years consecutive sentences.......

Did anyone else notice that he told the investigator there would be no limit to what sexual activity he could engage in? :steamed: Where is the puking emoticon when you need it??

 

[believe09]

:curses::curses::curses::curses::curses:

I cannot stand these stories!!!!! Yet I am compelled to witness for the poor child......... There is no emoticon to capture how I feel :whip:.

I am at a loss for words, what I feel is not something I can say on this forum. If I could wiggle my nose like Samantha and get anything I wanted, it would be a full castration/LorenaBobbitt for this - then I would serve it to him for dinner - crispy brown on Ritz crackers.........all before he serves his full 200 years consecutive sentences.......

Did anyone else notice that he told the investigator there would be no limit to what sexual activity he could engage in? :steamed: Where is the puking emoticon when you need it??

At the risk of whipping everyone else up into a further frenzy, I suspect he will find those limits when he hits the GP in prison.

(That was not nice of me, I know.)

 

[Reannan]

At the risk of whipping everyone else up into a further frenzy, I suspect he will find those limits when he hits the GP in prison.

(That was not nice of me, I know.)

But I loved your post!!! :woohoo:

 

[LadyLuck]

I am just so sad at what is going on in our country. I do not have words for what I feel right now, I wish I knew what is causing all of this. Some say it has always been like this we just have better coverage. I do not believe that. I grew up and my sons grew up able to play in the neighbor without worrying about someone grabbing us. My boys would take off on their bikes and stay gone for hours having fun. if I had children now they would not be able to play outside without be standing right that.

Is it tv, movies, video games, internet, what the h---- is going on?

 

[IWannaKnow]

At the risk of whipping everyone else up into a further frenzy, I suspect he will find those limits when he hits the GP in prison.

(That was not nice of me, I know.)

believe - I hope and pray you are correct and this a-hole doesn't get a slap on the wrist. :banghead:

 

[yanknrebel]

You would think so but time & time again we hear that the partner/wife/other family members had "no clue"there was a monster in their midst.I think with most of these pedophiles they are also sociopaths so they are able to "keep their mask on".Obviously this guy is very learned,is in a pretty high income bracket etc so on the face of things he looks 'better' than a pedophile like ,say,John Couey who was a homeless,criminal drug addict with little to no education.If John Couey wanted to adopt-no way.But a successful ,professional?Of course. I also dont think basic psych testing could "out"someone like this guy.Look at someone like Bundy.........they are intelligent & very good at outward appearances!!!!!!

I worked with a VERY successful,intelligent & wonderful woman.She confided how she found out she had been married to a pedophile.She said he was a great Father,they had a great sex life........she had no clue he was,for years,molesting family members.She said wives are usually the last to know & I think in alot of cases its true .Yes there are some p.o.s or ignorant women who know & ignore but there also very,very,very many who do not know & are just as shocked & betrayed as everybody else.

I am SOOO sick of this. I am ready to start SHOOTING ANY man or woman that is caught in the act or found (without a reasonable doubt) of molesting a child in the head at point blank. I have had it with our judicial system letting these pedophiles out to re offend again. If they do it once and are caught, then kill them. They won;t hurt anyone again. At the very least we should I think these pedophiles should have a mark across their forehead marking them as pedophiles. I just know this has GOT TO STOP !!!

 

[IWannaKnow]

I am SOOO sick of this. I am ready to start SHOOTING ANY man or woman that is caught in the act or found (without a reasonable doubt) of molesting a child in the head at point blank. I have had it with our judicial system letting these pedophiles out to re offend again. If they do it once and are caught, then kill them. They won;t hurt anyone again. At the very least we should I think these pedophiles should have a mark across their forehead marking them as pedophiles. I just know this has GOT TO STOP !!!

Amen yank!! Can I be your wing (wo)man? I will make sure we don't run out of ammo :blowkiss:

On a more serious note, do you think if part of being convicted of pedophilia was a mandatory for alltattoo on the forehead it would slow them down?? I am serious, because at least children could be taught that if you see this mark, RUN!!! That might be our only hope 'cause you know the justice system isn't gonna let us just do away with them. That violates their *rights* to abuse our innocent children

 

[WhyaDuck?]

So glad this was discovered. Way to go for undercover net cops! They are working so hard to protect kids online - even in cases when it isn't the child himself actually doing the typing.

Bring all the sickos down! (For every one caught, there's a dozen more )

 

[WhyaDuck?]

If this comment is to be believed, the older child in the family was also a boy. I would be surprized if he wasn't harmed, as well.

Comment:

khubeyah
6/26/09 4:19 PM EDT
I know this guy. I always thought he was creepy and now I know my feelings were justified. He won't last long inside. They don't like his kind there--people who do bad things to children. Twenty years is not enough time to give him for this. I feel so sorry for that little boy and his older brother. It makes you wonder about the things we don't know yet. Dawn, this has nothing to do with him being gay, he's just sick. I know lots of great gay parents. We read about things like this all the time, and, more often than ... Mark As Violation

From:
http://abclocal.go.com/wtvd/story?section=news/local&id=6886092

 

[VespaElf]

If this comment is to be believed, the older child in the family was also a boy. I would be surprized if he wasn't harmed, as well.

Comment:



From:
http://abclocal.go.com/wtvd/story?section=news/local&id=6886092

Ive been wondering about the other child's gender.If the older child is indeed male I fear that he was molested too & that was likely why they were adopted in the first place.......:furious:

 

[lonetraveler]

Amen yank!! Can I be your wing (wo)man? I will make sure we don't run out of ammo :blowkiss:

On a more serious note, do you think if part of being convicted of pedophilia was a mandatory for alltattoo on the forehead it would slow them down?? I am serious, because at least children could be taught that if you see this mark, RUN!!! That might be our only hope 'cause you know the justice system isn't gonna let us just do away with them. That violates their *rights* to abuse our innocent children

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I like the idea of the permanent tattoo or maybe even cut the tip of the nose off, that way they can't hide the area with a hat or cap. What I totally support is life without parole or even mandatory death.

 

[WhyaDuck?]

Ive been wondering about the other child's gender.If the older child is indeed male I fear that he was molested too & that was likely why they were adopted in the first place.......:furious:

Maybe on the part of this guy, but there is no evidence that his partner's intention in adopting stemmed from any motive aside from the desire to be a father and build a family.

I really hope that is the case, so the kids aren't shuffled off into an impersonal foster care system, and the three remaining family members can heal.

 

[WhyaDuck?]

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I like the idea of the permanent tattoo or maybe even cut the tip of the nose off, that way they can't hide the area with a hat or cap. What I totally support is life without parole or even mandatory death.

BBM

That would suck if you got your nose cut off in an accident, though, and was not a sex offender.

 

[VespaElf]

Maybe on the part of this guy, but there is no evidence that his partner's intention in adopting stemmed from any motive aside from the desire to be a father and build a family.

I really hope that is the case, so the kids aren't shuffled off into an impersonal foster care system, and the three remaining family members can heal.

I dont believe the partner is involved either but my fear is this:

"Bad Partner" wanted to adopt for his nefarious purposes."Good Partner" wasnt adverse to adopting but wasnt 100% on-board & was semi coerced into by "Bad Partner"who probably cried about how bad he wanted to be a father or played a "political" card.
I bet "Bad Partner" portrayed himself as "Father of the Year" & had alot of people fooled,his partner included but his seeming "burning desire"to be a father was because hes a pedophile.
I hope "Good Partner"really considers himself a father & is invested these kids & is found to be a fit so these kids are reunited with him.
I guess I remember a similar case involving a husband & wife a few years back that didnt have such a nice outcome.

 

[kittenish]

BBM

That would suck if you got your nose cut off in an accident, though, and was not a sex offender.

I agree.

I'm trying to imagine an accident where your nose was cut off though. All of the mental images I'm getting are really ridiculous looking (like getting it suck in a rolled up car window)!

 

[WhyaDuck?]

I agree.

I'm trying to imagine an accident where your nose was cut off though. All of the mental images I'm getting are really ridiculous looking (like getting it suck in a rolled up car window)!

You'd be surprised. People manage to do some wild things to themselves.

 

[kittenish]

You'd be surprised. People manage to do some wild things to themselves.

I think I've heard it all. My mom works in the ER of a very busy hospital in the city. They're called the "poor man's hospital" because they have discounted/free health insurance there.

Oh the stories... /shakes head
Much worse than noses chopped off in car windows

 

[WhyaDuck?]

I think I've heard it all. My mom works in the ER of a very busy hospital in the city. They're called the "poor man's hospital" because they have discounted/free health insurance there.

Oh the stories... /shakes head
Much worse than noses chopped off in car windows

I would suggest industrial accident, but not much chance of that in North America any more...

(We'd have to still make stuff here for that.)