NC NC - Helen Lundgren Dalton, 52, Greensboro, 3 April 1963

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Helen Dalton was 52 years old on April 3 of 1963. It was sunny and warm when Helen and her 14-year-old daughter, Bonnie, got in the car that day. “She took her daughter to Grimsley High School that morning, and when the daughter got out of the car, the mother said, ‘Now, don’t forget you have a dental appointment today and I’ll be back to pick you up.’”

Helen didn’t return to the high school, didn’t return home – she hasn’t been seen nor heard from since. Fifty-six years, the oldest missing persons case in North Carolina.

“We know that Ms. Dalton’s sister became suspicious back in 1963,” Holliday said. “She wasn’t hearing from her sister in the normal way – phone calls – she was receiving letters that were signed by typewriter, not by hand-written signature. She came down to Greensboro to inquire, she didn’t really get any straight answers from Mr. Dalton and so she contacted the police.”

In fact, Don Dalton’s stories about what happened to Helen kept changing.

‘The Day Helen Disappeared’ – FOX8 original series investigates North Carolina’s oldest missing person case
 
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Helen Lundgren Dalton – The Charley Project
Helen Lundgren Dalton
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Dalton, circa 1963

  • Missing Since04/03/1963
  • Missing FromGreensboro, North Carolina
  • ClassificationEndangered Missing
  • SexFemale
  • RaceWhite
  • Age52 years old
  • Height and Weight5'7, 150 pounds
  • Distinguishing CharacteristicsCaucasian female. Helen wears eyeglasses and dentures, but had neither with her when she went missing.
Details of Disappearance
Helen was last seen in Greensboro, North Carolina on April 3, 1963. She dropped her daughter off at high school that morning and reminded her that she had a dental appointment in a few hours. Helen was going to pick her daughter up for the appointment at noon, but she never did; instead, her son picked his sister up.

When the couple's son picked his sister up at school that day, he said his father had told him Helen had gone to a Women's Christian Association conference in Winston-Salem, North Carolina and this was why she was unavailable to get her daughter from school. The children never saw their mother again.

At the time of her disappearance, Helen lived in the 100 block of Muir's Chapel Road with her husband of nineteen years, Donald, and their two teenage children. Donald operated a heating and air conditioning repair business behind their home, and Helen ran her own business, Bonnie's Beauty Shop.

Helen's sister in Dearborn, Michigan received two letters, supposedly from Helen, in April and May 1963, but didn't believe the letters were actually written by her. They were typewritten, and Helen normally hand-wrote her letters; the letters also used phrasing she didn't normally use.

Helen's sister tried to call her at home several times, but each time Donald would say she was not at home. At one point he claimed she had gone off to live by herself and was staying in a motel in Roanoke, Virginia. Helen's sister tried to contact the motel to verify this story, but learned no such place existed.

Helen's sister then went to North Carolina to investigate, and couldn't find Helen. Donald wouldn't let her into the house and wasn't helpful as to her whereabouts. He said she had simply left him, taking a large sum of money with her, and seemed unconcerned about it, but Helen's sister suspected foul play. On August 22, over four months after she disappeared, her sister reported her missing.

When interviewed, Donald said Helen had left him and taken about $20,000 in cash with her, and that he thought she left to have a lesbian relationship with a woman named Wanda Flemming. He said he hadn't seen Helen since she left, but that she did call him sometime in July. When asked why he hadn't reported Helen missing, Donald said he didn't know. He was seeing another woman by this time, and he said he didn't care about the missing money but hoped Helen returned, for the sake of their children.

Police checked on Donald's initial story, that Helen had gone to a Christian women's conference and that's why she didn't pick her daughter up from school, but there was no such conference in Winston-Salem at the time. When police checked on the Wanda Flemming story, they found only one person with that name in the entire state of North Carolina. She said she'd never heard of Helen Dalton, and no one else in Helen's family had heard of her.

The police were suspicious of Donald and his constantly changing stories and asked him to take a lie detector test, but he refused. Investigators searched the Daltons' home and noted Helen's closet was full of clothes, and they found her luggage, her only denture set and only pair of eyeglasses. There was a typewriter in the house, and analysis of the letters sent to Helen's sister showed they were composed on that machine.

There was no evidence of foul play, however, and although authorities thought Donald knew Helen's whereabouts and was lying about the circumstances of her disappearance, they couldn't find any proof of this. The case was reactivated in 1993 and authorities excavated an old well on the Daltons' former property, but couldn't find anything of interest, and the search had to be stopped prematurely because of safety issues.

Donald, who had remarried and divorced twice in the intervening years, was interviewed by the press at the time of the dig and said Helen had left him in 1963. He said she was tired of raising their children and that the beauty shop she ran was a drop point for money from drug sales and sports racketeering. Helen's loved ones disagreed with Donald's description of her and said she was a devoted mother.

Helen's disappearance is the oldest unsolved case in North Carolina history.
Investigating Agency
  • Greensboro Police Department
Source Information
Updated 1 time since October 12, 2004. Last updated September 12, 2019; casefile added.
 
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30 YEARS, AND NO BODY: DIG FOR WOMAN CALLED OFF
ETA - By JASON WILLIAMS and BERNIE WOODALL Staff Writers Dec 3, 1993
Greensboro police give up a dig for a body missing for 30 years, and the woman's former husband says they wouldn't have found anything anyway.@

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Police investigators in 1963 thought Helen Dalton might have been murdered, and her body dumped into a 100-foot-deep well behind 112 Muirs Chapel Road in west Greensboro. The dig was stopped Friday at a depth of 75 feet.

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Don Dalton predicted on Friday morning that police wouldn't find his first wife's body in the dig.

``Go to it,' Dalton said when asked about the excavation. ``I say dig, dig with all your heart. They're not going to find anything because she walked out the door and never looked back.'

Don Dalton, now 75 and living in Lewisville, said his wife left him on April 3, 1963, because she was involved in drug dealing and had grown weary of raising the couple's two children. Helen Dalton, if she is alive, would now be 81.
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Bumping up for innocent victim Helen.
 
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59 years missing :(
 
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So sad for Helen's loved ones, It's completely obvious her husband "disappeared" her. I wonder if the police checked with the bank to see if anyone withdrew $20,000.
 
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I don't get why Charley Project says this is the oldest unsolved case in North Carolina history. Leila Lewis and her daughter (1941), Betty Roberts (1959), the Yoli siblings (1962) or Phyllis Powell (1963) disappeared before Helen. Maybe it's the oldest case with an active investigation.
 
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20k back then was an awful lot of money
 
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What are the chances that the date last seen is wrong here? If she wasn’t reported missing until August 1963, and by her sister, is her date accurate or estimated? I was unable to find any statements from her children and am wondering if they provided any info to LE?
 

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