Found Deceased NC - Tristan Blue, 2, Raleigh, 22 Dec 2014 *Arrests*

[teedie2]

And if the title of thread says "Moved" and you click on the link, it takes you to the thread in its new location. That's what I did. and expected to be in Missing-Located, but instead, had the uncanny feeling that I woke up in Oz.

It wasn't the usual route, and we do tend to get set in our ways.

However, I am sooooo glad they are both arrested! Hope this moves on quickly.

 

[MIKAYOYO]

So then it has been confirmed it was sweet little Tristan found in the lake?

 

[Curious Me]

I wish in every state that a parent could relinquish their child at any time, any age and not be held liable for them. Like the safe haven act, only no age limit.
I know foster parents are in high demand with not enough of them and orphanages don't seem like the answer either but for the love of all children, I wish this would happen. Give those children a chance. Give them a hopefully better life than they have. Give them hope and a future. Give them a real family full of love and laughter.
Then maybe our world will become a better place.

JMO

ETA: (Don't throw stones at me) I also would like to see Medicaid (what we call it in my state) start paying to have males that want it within a certain income to be snipped. They used to give (and probably still do) tubal ligations to women on it.

I don't think offering to take Tristan into a Safe Haven would've helped. Many of these cases are often in the midst of ugly separations/divorces and custody battles; or messed up, impatient parents who lash out in anger at the child. Sometimes, it is about revenge, or the money one parent wants to avoid paying for child support, but IMO, parents should still have to pay child support. If both parents had jobs then they probably wouldn't qualify for Medicaid. MOO, I don't think this always happens just because of low income, but I do see a trend in these cases of selfish irresponsible parents including people who leave their children in hot cars to go shop. Selfishness, and raising children is more about sacrifice.

 

[menmo]

I don't think offering to take Tristan into a Safe Haven would've helped. Many of these cases are often in the midst of ugly separations/divorces and custody battles; or messed up, impatient parents who lash out in anger at the child. Sometimes, it is about revenge, or the money one parent wants to avoid paying for child support, but IMO, parents should still have to pay child support. If both parents had jobs then they probably wouldn't qualify for Medicaid. MOO, I don't think this always happens just because of low income, but I do see a trend in these cases of selfish irresponsible parents including people who leave their children in hot cars to go shop. Selfishness, and raising children is more about sacrifice.

You're right about it often times being in the middle of a separation of parents or child support issue. I just want something to change for all of the innocent kids. To many grow up behaving the same way as those who raised them. Not all by any means, but to many for me. That is if they make it to be an adult.

JMO

 

[Curious Me]

You're right about it often times being in the middle of a separation of parents or child support issue. I just want something to change for all of the innocent kids. To many grow up behaving the same way as those who raised them. Not all by any means, but to many for me. That is if they make it to be an adult.

JMO

I'm with you in wanting change for all these innocent children either living in hell or not even being kept alive. Any fool knows you can't leave a toddler in a hot car or home alone and yet it happens constantly. Mandatory parent classes in high school before anybody even has a baby might make some of these potential bad parents decide not to even try parenthood for awhile. Stressing that parenthood is all about sacrifice for eighteen years or more. Maybe have all freshman high schoolers carry around a raw egg for nine months without cracking it. Something to get through to the sometimes still too immature, and then later selfish people who decide to try having a kid.

Oh, and another course in learning to handle rejection without killing your wife/husband/gf/bf or family.

 

[carbuff]

So then it has been confirmed it was sweet little Tristan found in the lake?

No. Not as far as we know.

 

[MIKAYOYO]

No. Not as far as we know.

Thanks Carbuff. I think we all pretty much know but I'm just having hard times seeing his name with deceased and moved to awaiting trial. Seems so sudden.

 

[mrsobrien]

I wish in every state that a parent could relinquish their child at any time, any age and not be held liable for them. Like the safe haven act, only no age limit.
I know foster parents are in high demand with not enough of them and orphanages don't seem like the answer either but for the love of all children, I wish this would happen. Give those children a chance. Give them a hopefully better life than they have. Give them hope and a future. Give them a real family full of love and laughter.
Then maybe our world will become a better place.

JMO

ETA: (Don't throw stones at me) I also would like to see Medicaid (what we call it in my state) start paying to have males that want it within a certain income to be snipped. They used to give (and probably still do) tubal ligations to women on it.

I can only speak for California, but here state medical will pay for sterilization for low income folks. Planned Parenthood also has a sliding scale deal.

 

[Curious Me]

I can only speak for California, but here state medical will pay for sterilization for low income folks. Planned Parenthood also has a sliding scale deal.

States having low cost daycare programs for toddlers is another thing that helps. That way there's no reason to leave a child home alone to go to work.

 

[carbuff]

Thanks Carbuff. I think we all pretty much know but I'm just having hard times seeing his name with deceased and moved to awaiting trial. Seems so sudden.

I think somebody jumped the gun.

 

[CarmelEyesD]

Poor Baby...

 

[Tssiemer]

States having low cost daycare programs for toddlers is another thing that helps. That way there's no reason to leave a child home alone to go to work.

I think is where a lot of problems lie. Parents do what they have to make it work. Low cost quality daycare would relieve stress and allow some people to not have to work night shifts so the family can spend time together as a unit.

Along with that, finding low cost daycare despite the quality has harmed a lot of children as well. There was a case here many years ago where a woman was watching something like 13 kids in her home and she would lock them in her basement while she worked.


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[Tricia]

Good Morning,

I found this news link http://www.wspa.com/story/27713687/mother-of-tristan-blue-facing-3-new-charges-increased-bond

In it the reporter states that the father has been charged with, "killing his son" and the mom has been charged as an accessory .

 

[Hraefn]

I think somebody jumped the gun.

I don't see him listed as found or deceased, just "crimes and trials" and "currently awaiting trial" which would be accurate. Still no positive ID that I have seen.

 

[kimi_SFC]

Good Morning,

I found this news link http://www.wspa.com/story/27713687/mother-of-tristan-blue-facing-3-new-charges-increased-bond

In it the reporter states that the father has been charged with, "killing his son" and the mom has been charged as an accessory .

Here are new images of Tristan from the embedded video:

:rose:




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[GigTu]

Re: the mother's involvement from the link provided above
http://www.wspa.com/story/27713687/mother-of-tristan-blue-facing-3-new-charges-increased-bond

Briana Dangerfield, 25, is charged with accessory after the fact, altering and destroying evidence and attempting to conceal the death of her son in addition to her original charge for misdemeanor child abuse.

Rot in hell!

 

[MsMarple]

According to a neighbor, Tristan was seen on Friday, Dec. 19:

Thomas said she would often see Tristan and his father at the neighborhood convenience store.

“We all know each other. We see each other at the store…we say hi,” Thomas said. “The little boy has been seen around several times. It's sad and sickening to know [what happened].”

Steven Blue and his 2-year-old stopped by the store just a few days before Blue allegedly killed his son.

“He was seen at the convenience store on Friday. It wasn't a pretty sight to see,” Thomas said. “[Blue] shut the door on the baby's head [and] wasn't very attentive to a child, more than what I thought a parent should be.

http://www.wncn.com/story/27717111/neighbor-sets-up-memorial-to-remember-tristan-blue

 

[kimi_SFC]

According to a neighbor, Tristan was seen on Friday, Dec. 19:

Thomas said she would often see Tristan and his father at the neighborhood convenience store.

“We all know each other. We see each other at the store…we say hi,” Thomas said. “The little boy has been seen around several times. It's sad and sickening to know [what happened].”

Steven Blue and his 2-year-old stopped by the store just a few days before Blue allegedly killed his son.

“He was seen at the convenience store on Friday. It wasn't a pretty sight to see,” Thomas said. “[Blue] shut the door on the baby's head [and] wasn't very attentive to a child, more than what I thought a parent should be.

http://www.wncn.com/story/27717111/neighbor-sets-up-memorial-to-remember-tristan-blue

(Snip)

“He was seen at the convenience store on Friday. It wasn't a pretty sight to see,” Thomas said. “[Blue] shut the door on the baby's head [and] wasn't very attentive to a child, more than what I thought a parent should be.



“I was angered….disgusted angry, hurt…it kind of puts an empty feeling inside of you,” Thomas said.

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Ugh this quote brings me to tears! Not a pretty sight indeed. It is UGLY! SB wasn't afraid to be abusive to precious Tristan in PUBLIC! The signs were there. I hope LE pulls the video. It shows a pattern of behavior.

I am disgusted. Did this little boy even know what it was like to be loved? Or did he have to brutally gain his angel wings to do so?

:cow:

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[carbuff]

While poverty and its attendant social ills are often a factor, it's a mistake to think only poor people commit these kinds of crimes. We've had at least two recent cases where a nanny was charged in the death or injury, and in both cases it was strongly rumored that the nanny was the scapegoat for parental neglect.

And there was the Gigi Jordan case. Christian Longo. Clark Rockefeller. The list goes on and on.

Greed and heartlessness don't know class or race boundaries, unfortunately.

 

[Curious Me]

According to a neighbor, Tristan was seen on Friday, Dec. 19:

Thomas said she would often see Tristan and his father at the neighborhood convenience store.

“We all know each other. We see each other at the store…we say hi,” Thomas said. “The little boy has been seen around several times. It's sad and sickening to know [what happened].”

Steven Blue and his 2-year-old stopped by the store just a few days before Blue allegedly killed his son.

“He was seen at the convenience store on Friday. It wasn't a pretty sight to see,” Thomas said. “[Blue] shut the door on the baby's head [and] wasn't very attentive to a child, more than what I thought a parent should be.

http://www.wncn.com/story/27717111/neighbor-sets-up-memorial-to-remember-tristan-blue

Sick feeling reading what neighbor noticed.

It appears the father obviously had abusive qualities, but what about Tristan's mother leaving him so much with the father to the point he ends up dead and she helps cover it up. Was she afraid for her own life? Why'd she have to leave that little boy with the father so much if she knew he had violent tendencies? Lots of reports that he was seen most often with his father, and I'm interested in how involved the mother was in what eventually happened. She could've protected Tristan from this happening, you'd think.

She's being charged with things after the fact, but I can't help but wonder why she didn't protect Tristan more before, and why she left him alone to go to work. How caring and involved was she in her boy's life? Why'd she try to cover up what her man supposedly did to her child?