ExpectingUnicorns
. . . only the pure of heart can see.
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So far the only indication that we have concerning medical care being provided to Zarha since leaving Australia seems to be the pictures of her with her new hearing aids. Many have questioned how much follow-up care she was receiving.
I'm am feeling more and more uncomfortable with the possibility that, other than her hearing, her health problems were unattended and ignored. In spite of Zarha's infectious smile and dancing eyes ~ I believe she was still a pretty sick girl. The fact that the bone cancer had already metastasized to her lungs is a pretty important and poor prognosticator. From all accounts (and photos, too) it seems like Zarha was an exceptionally brave and wise child and probably didn't complain too much. This would make it very easy for SM and her father to delay or even ignore what should have been a very active program of medical care. I'm wondering if she had any at all. (Did they get her the hearing aid because they thought it might make their lives easier by not having to repeat themselves to her?)
I'm wondering if they might have so neglected her care that she didn't appear in public anymore towards the end because she was too sick. . . Maybe that's why no one had seen her for so long. My anxiety is further fueled by the father's statement about not having seen her because of the "virus" she had. Ha! As many here have pointed out, that should make a parent more likely to check on their child than "not want to disturb her."
I'm beginning to wonder if she died of unadulterated neglect ~ right in front of everyone. Could the SM and father have cared so little that it didn't matter to them until she died and then they realized that they would be in trouble? And what we see now is the result of their panic to try to hide their blame?
The claim of her having a virus is what sets me off most because liars so often have that one tiny grain of truth in their lies. This sweet, innocent angel could have been really, really sick and no one cared. . . :cry:
I'm am feeling more and more uncomfortable with the possibility that, other than her hearing, her health problems were unattended and ignored. In spite of Zarha's infectious smile and dancing eyes ~ I believe she was still a pretty sick girl. The fact that the bone cancer had already metastasized to her lungs is a pretty important and poor prognosticator. From all accounts (and photos, too) it seems like Zarha was an exceptionally brave and wise child and probably didn't complain too much. This would make it very easy for SM and her father to delay or even ignore what should have been a very active program of medical care. I'm wondering if she had any at all. (Did they get her the hearing aid because they thought it might make their lives easier by not having to repeat themselves to her?)
I'm wondering if they might have so neglected her care that she didn't appear in public anymore towards the end because she was too sick. . . Maybe that's why no one had seen her for so long. My anxiety is further fueled by the father's statement about not having seen her because of the "virus" she had. Ha! As many here have pointed out, that should make a parent more likely to check on their child than "not want to disturb her."
I'm beginning to wonder if she died of unadulterated neglect ~ right in front of everyone. Could the SM and father have cared so little that it didn't matter to them until she died and then they realized that they would be in trouble? And what we see now is the result of their panic to try to hide their blame?
The claim of her having a virus is what sets me off most because liars so often have that one tiny grain of truth in their lies. This sweet, innocent angel could have been really, really sick and no one cared. . . :cry: