ND - Dru Sjodin, 22, Grand Forks, 22 Nov 2003 - #3

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I guess its a little bit of consolation that the family had 5 months to at least prepare for this- the dad is speaking and he seemed relieved and resigned-it isnt much consolation but maybe not as shocking as it could have been had she been found right away and been murdererd..god I feel sick.

I wonder if they pulled anything out of the perp about her location or if they just went back to where they found an article of her clothing - I know they found something there awhile back-
 
mindys said:
Yakwoman, I remember you as the first to bring us info at all about Dru, who she was and what was going on there. Thanks for sticking with this.

Thanks, Mindys. The communities of GF/EGF never stopped thinking about Dru. You couldn't go into a store without seeing a "missing" flyer posted in a prominent location. I was out running errands when I first heard they'd found Dru - a clerk at a discount store told me at the check-out counter. I can't speak for everyone, but when I heard the news that she'd been found, I felt an awful chill up my spine and almost threw up - followed by a slight sense of relief that her family's lives are no longer in limbo. They have Dru back, they know who took her form them, and they can begin the process of healing. God bless Dru and her family.

Yakwoman
 
It has been a long 5 months for Dru's family. They have been so strong -may they find some peace now.
 
I am new here and I have been watching this story as well......I so wish that they would have had a happy eneding.....
 
Hi everyone,

I heard this this morning on Fox, and looked for a thread here to find out more and there was nothing.

So many women are brutalized out of the blue, gone, families in torment wondering where they could be and what could have happened. It has to become personal every time it happens. Each life lost is as precious as the next one. They are not all beauties, and probably most often are just like you and me. The media just doesn't normally pick up on these abduction/murders.

But to me Dru was especially personal. A fellow Scandanavian, her tragic kidnapping grabbed my heart. I can imagine she fought with every breath of life she had to keep this gnarly bas*🤬🤬d away from her body. God bless her for being what she was to her family and friends, and what she symbolizes as the victim of a sick pervert who never should have been let out to live in the public world. Out of this will come a firey revenge and reworking of the penal system, maybe nationwide, where sexual predators, who can never be cured acc. to the experts, will always stay behind bars.

And tonight my heart is right there with her family. Dru's father is such a light for her life. We don't hear from her mom - she is probably just like Dru's dad, but not a spokesman for the family. Dru was dearly adored, a very hard working, special spirit among us. I know tonight is so hard for the whole family. They now have their worst fears confirmed. She really is dead after all this time. 5 months of grueling searches and constant positive thoughts that just maybe she could come back home to them.

Well, we all feel the same here, the passion for justice and love of life due to all of us. May the family finally start healing, and please let her life not have been taken in vain. I hope something positive with a great goodness evolves from her tragic death.



:blowkiss: To all Scandi
 
its so sad i was watching tv and i duno what channel was on they did a little blurb on how they found her body my dad was sittin on the other end of the couch and i was like omg its so sad, i told him about another girl who is missing from tx and is still missing, its just so sad then he switched to the local news and they did a lil bigger info on finding her at least her family is at some peace i hope that basterd who killed her roots in hell and in jail
 
I only just read this in our paper this morning. I just broke into tears and I don't do that very often. I'm thinking of that poor family of her's and all of her friends........Now they know. It's must be awful because I know that people in this kind of situation must alway's keep some hope.

God Bless them all.....
xxxxxxxxxxooo
mama
 
Rest in peace, Dru, you're one of God's angels.

May her family find some measure of peace in having her back . God bless them.
 
Sadness fills the air for me today for we lost my father just 5 years ago & in hearing the news of Dru...My heart breaks for her family & friends. Their beautiful Dru has been brought home yet forever taken from them. With details of the story I am reminded too of the neverending nightmare of feeling that we have looked where Audrey may be just as Dru was... "Volunteers had been near the spot probably a dozen times," but the area had been covered with snow, he said."
My heart remains hopeful & deters those thoughts yet I cannot help to now be angered that we can not get a new search of the area & why we do not have a dozen searches under our belt for Aud... **** the fate that has taken you Audrey! **** those responsible & **** those incapable of coming forward to help us find you!

May God give Dru's family the strength to endure the days ahead & may the memories of Dru guide them through this, what must be a terrible time & justice be swiftly served on the monster responsible.

Searching for Audrey...Marie
 
I thought it was so powerful when the searchers said they somehow knew they were going to find Dru yesterday. Bless them all.

At least we know the piece of crap didnt give them any information about Dru's whereabouts, she was recovered only because they never gave up.

Rest in peace Dru.........you are in a much better place than you were in life on earth. No one can harm you now.

Ocean
 
http://www.startribune.com/stories/467/4728209.html

"About three hours after Sjodin's body was found, Allan Sjodin said he had "always held out the hope that she could be out there somewhere, alive."

But as time passed -- and as investigators collected ominous pieces of evidence, including traces of blood -- he came to accept the likelihood that she was dead, he said."

"The site is not far from where a shoe that was identified as Sjodin's was found early in the search effort last winter. The area had been combed several times, and Allan Sjodin, Dru's father, said that he had walked within a few feet of her body two weeks ago when the ravine was filled with snow"

editing. For some reason I was able to access the story without registration but now this link does not bypass the registration. ??

Here is some of the Grand Forks coverage

http://www.grandforks.com/mld/grandforks/news/special_packages/dru_sjodin/8458564.htm

"If prosecutors prove Rodriguez kidnapped Sjodin, how she died may be less important to the case, according to Grand Forks attorney Alex Reichert. "Once you start a crime in motion, you're responsible for what happens at the end of that crime," he said.

For example, if one person kidnaps another, takes the person across state lines and leaves the victim outside to die of exposure, the perpetrator technically didn't kill that person - but those actions did lead to a death, according to Reichert.

Rosenquist agreed: "It matters not under federal law if a victim is killed in one state and carried to another state and disposed of, or the victim was transported alive to another state and died there."

How Sjodin died may, however, prove important if Rodriguez is convicted. In the penalty phase, the cruelty with which someone kills another can determine how stiff the penalty is, according to Crookston attorney Wayne Swanson, who, as Polk County attorney, prosecuted Rodriguez 24 years ago for stabbing and attempting to abduct a Crookston woman"

http://www.grandforks.com/mld/grandforks/news/special_packages/dru_sjodin/8458555.htm

"Included in his relief was that a police reservist and retired deputy, not family or friends, found the body. Heales shook his head in disbelief about the recovery site.

"I can't begin to tell you how many times (father Allan Sjodin) and I went up and down that stretch of Highway 61," he said. "We literally passed right by her many, many times."


http://www.grandforks.com/mld/grandforks/news/special_packages/dru_sjodin/8458553.htm

"The women recalled their disbelief when they had first heard of Sjodin's abduction, the wondering whether Sjodin's abductor had been watching her before she was taken, and the subsequent fear and uneasiness they and other young women - and their parents - felt.

The abduction changed some behavior around campus, the women said. Women students pay closer attention to their personal safety than they did before, and UND men students, too, are more vigilant about the security of their female friends and girlfriends."

The students are holding a candlelight vigil tonight.

http://www.legacy.com/GrandForksHerald/Guestbook.asp?Page=Guestbook&PersonID=2144789

That's a place to leave messages for the family.
 
Thanks News for that. It is such a sad and exasperating case. They had searched so close to her body so many times, the perp never should have been let out in the public world and this perp was so self concerned, with no thoughts of feeling remorseful that he didn't help the police or family at all.

I think he was totally ticked off that Dru fought him so hard and did not give in to his sexual advances, that after she was dead, he not only cut her throat but stabbed her in the heart.

So very sad all the way around.





Scandi
 
scandi said:
I think he was totally ticked off that Dru fought him so hard and did not give in to his sexual advances, that after she was dead, he not only cut her throat but stabbed her in the heart.

Scandi... is there an autopsy report? I had not heard these details before
 
Hi Cass,

I doubt there is one so soon. I have only read here and at CTV, so I read this in a post somewhere. I can't imagine a poster saying something like this without knowing for sure.

I'm going to check out Dimensions to see if there is anything over there.





:blowkiss: Scandi

PS: Cass, every time I think of or read one of your posts now, I envision Distasio sitting in his office, relaxing back in his chair with his legs crossed at the ankle and his feet resting on that dern acchor! ;) Can't help it! LOL
 
scandi said:
PS: Cass, every time I think of or read one of your posts now, I envision Distasio sitting in his office, relaxing back in his chair with his legs crossed at the ankle and his feet resting on that dern anchor! ;) Can't help it! LOL

LOL... thats exactly how I picture him and Detective B.. sitting there having a coffee together with their feet up on anchors. :D

Let me know what you hear on that description of Dru's injuries.. how could anyone know that if nothing has been released?
 
Scandi, didn't that statement about her throat being cut come from Sandra's site??? I'm not sure, but Yakwoman might know more details; I think she lives somewhere up there....
 
Hi Peek,

Yes I just found it on this thread! :doh: I'm sorry Cass. If I had read the post carefully I would have known it was a prediction and not fact! :blushing: Sorry Sweetie. LOL


Scandi
 
scandi said:
Hi Peek,

Yes I just found it on this thread! :doh: I'm sorry Cass. If I had read the post carefully I would have known it was a prediction and not fact! :blushing: Sorry Sweetie. LOL


Scandi

Hi Scandi... no problem! will be interesting to see how the prediction holds up.

God Bless Dru and all who love and care for her :blowkiss:
 
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