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Thank you Amanda. All that painstaking work was to benefit AH and her being found - alive. Thank you for removing the fruits of your labors now that she has. You rock.
I haven't seen anyone here even close to imply that Kibby's pot charges in any way shape or form makes AH complicit or responsible for what happened to her or any less a victim of a monster. Until someone pointed out the charges were for Kibby's county not AH's I thought it was possible that it had somehow been used as a lure. If it had been she would have been no less the victim of a horrific crime and captivity. I know many (me included) feel very protective of this young lady but no one has posted anything even close to victim blaming regarding the pot charges against Kibby IMO.
And quite frankly, if smoking pot when "offered" some by her captor assisted her in building a rapport with her abductor then so much the better. It may well be a part of what kept her alive and saw her eventually released alive.
I have always thought the opposite of many here, namely, that by shutting down conversations about the actions of a victim, that we indeed make things less "victim-friendly" and not more so. It makes it seem like the only actual victims are people who were not at all "complicit" (hate that word in this case) in what happened to them. I do not think A was buying weed off this guy, but even if she were, it would change absolutely nothing about the case or her status as a victim.
Anyway, I find it far more "victim friendly" to have an open and honest dialogue about any and all facts or theories that may help bring a criminal to justice.
I would normally agree, but in this case it is a young teen. Plus there were ugly implications in posts about her and all that crap on SM. Dialogue might not have been positive. This girl needs positive. I wish I could wipe all that garbage off the internet.
The next step will probably be dispositional conference orders by the judges in each county.
"These orders will likely include, but not be limited to, dates for depositions, major motions, jury selection and trial; notices of defense, discovery deadlines; disclosure of experts; witness lists and general voir dire questions for potential jurors,"
CONCORD, NH - The Superior Courts in Coos and Carroll Counties announced today that the video arraignments scheduled for Thursday, January 8 and Friday, January 9 in the above-captioned cases have been waived by the defendant.
When I read the list of charges I must admit I was glad this took place in the USA and not here in Canada. Here, sentences for crimes run concurrently, not consecutively.