Are you repsonding to me or to cyberlaw?Masterj said:. . .So here goes - doc, you posted a link to where Sharon was reading Maura's February cell phone bill. NO WHERE in that link does it say that the bill went to Sharon as Cyberlaw has consistently argued. Yes, it says she reviewed the Feb. bill, but it doesn't say where she got it. For all we know the bill went to Maura's mailing address and was then forwarded to her father upon her disappearance. . . .
I said that the potential mother-in-law did get the records and looked at them and proved it with that link. It happened. How she got them is not important to me at this point. I also said that although I believed she got the bills before, I could not truly remember and pointed out that it was not all that important as long as Maura could and would know her cell records would be viewed once she left, and that is in fact just what happened. The records were viewed and were viewed by the potential mother-in-law in point of fact.
I said that the bill having been viewed did not mean she was "being watched." I also said that she could easily know that the cell records would be viewed once she left.Masterj said:. . .There seems to be a lot of speculation that Maura wasn't in control of her life, that her every decision was being watched by her father/boyfriend/boyfriend's mother. . .
As to possible controling behavior by her relatives and/or potential relatives:
I think that is a fair point to consider if it helps us understand what happened and thus get closer to a case resolution but I don't personally care if it was motive or not. Motive is such a subjective and personal thing. Maura may well have felt watched even if she was not watched. She may well have felt held down and abused even if that was not the case. "Just cause" does not have to exist for someone to decide to run away. People don't have to have a reason that sounds logical to us to make them decide to run away. I am not out to blame the family. Whether or not it was their fault is unimportant because if Maura is a runaway then the case stops there as far as I am concerned. She evidently has the legal right to become an adult missing person. I make note that even if she is a runaway it is my hope that someday there can be a healing of the relationship of the whole family to one another, it is sad to see a broken family and the hurt that can go with it.
There is no need to be oversensitive about the family reputation as far as I am concerned. I once asked the hard questions about the dads alibi because news reports had placed him in the vicinity within 24 hours or so prior to Maura's disappearance and it is known that in cases where a missing person has met foul play the family and/or acquaintances are often involved. A stranger is seldom the culprit. The question of his alibi was answered and for now I see no evidence to the contrary. Before jumping to defend a perceived slight to the family honor you might do better to allow people to think and ask questions and just calmly and reasonably contribute answers when it is helpful because that does more for the family honor than any defense and it serves to highlight nasty posters in the minds of the readers just because you show restraint. When the family and supporters are open and transparent and only interested in finding the missing daughter in spite of answering hard questions it makes them look much better, in my opinion.