Hi Guys,
I've watched this trial on Court TV and it is so sad and I always turn it off right away. He was tortured beyond reason, and so I think he took on somewhat of a syndrome, like those who suffer from domestic violence. It is so awful, because you love the person who is doing this to you and always have hope it will end because the agressor will change, but escape from it is almost impossible.
It is something you just bear until you are taught how to find an escape. I don't think he was ever taught nor did he have the life exzperiences to draw from to give him the correct signals.
Tybee, I think it took him a long time, and constant abuse that was really torture at times, before he cracked and suddenly could tolerate it no more.
That is also when the domestic violence victim changes, and something is done overtly on the victims part to stop it short, knowing that this is the point where you can not turn back and ever experience it again.
I lived this out myself, and after such incredible damage to me as having 2 operations so I could see again, after I was kicked so hard in the eye, I was hurt and wanting to feel anguish on his part. When about 3 months later I had a half full beer can flung straight and dead-eye for my good eye, something sparked inside my soal and I changed. I walked into the kitchen and picked up the new Henckels fillet knife I had bought that day and walked over, kneeling in front of him. I put the tip of the knife up to his shin and told him he did not have the power or the right to make me blind.
The next thing I knew he was gushing blood from his leg, and after putting on a tournaquit which didn't stop it, I called 911. We were both arrested, but I was released within hours because they could not find a reason to charge me. I had acted in defense of my life - my eyesight. And no one ever was going to take that away from me on purpose. I am an artist! I had no idea at the time that the knife had actually pierced a blood vessel in his leg. It was so new and sharp it slid into his leg like butter. That was not my intent. I wanted to scare him and make a statement.
I don't think Cody had the background and education or savvy to react like most of us do. I had the best, and look what I did! It was an instinct that desperation led me to pull out of my hat for survival's sake. I don't think Cody had ever been exposed to real living to where he could develop this instinct.
So I think he was at a point of desperation and the only thing he knew was to get rid of the people who were hurting him so badly. My natural instinct was to show power to defeat a foe. His was to get rid of the foe. And I think the difference only came from what he had not learned and been exposed to in regular living, which he did not have.
So I feel so sad about what he did, but understand why.
And as to what should be done with Cody now because of these murders, I have to admit I am worriied that all of this suffering he went through might have turned him into someone we can no longer trust. I know people in similar situations have been rehabilitated and come back to lead progressive lives.
There are things that bother me about him. He was getting into other sexual relationships that were not the average for a normal kid. In other words I think he was becoming a bit too saavy about the repurcussions of what he was made to do and enjoyed it. So sad, as he went about finding pleasure in the wrong way because he had never learned how to exspress it in the right way.
Sorry this got so long, but even though Cory did not have the benefit of life-learning to help him out, that would have told him murder was not the answer, I would want to confine him until every possible test that could be given would say that the answer to his cunnundrum would not be to kill those who hurt him, but rather to escape, and in doing that show them they did not hold the power to victimize him anymore. It might take 2 years, or 5, or who knows. It all depends where Cory's brain has ended up now, and if there is a coming back from this or there isn't. There might not be, but I do hope there is.
Scandi