If the car had tinted windows... how did Spiky-Hair see in to know it was a mom and daughter? Not like your average logical person would roll their window down to see what the deranged road-rage-guy wanted...
And if the windows were tinted... what? 8 months ago maybe? Why would EN not be able to recognize it? Has he not been around? I think Bob just kind of makes excuses for anything that does not fit...
That seems to be the pattern. Whenever new information comes out, or is about to come out, BM's story changes to accommodate the new information. That's why we've seen so many variations of the story.
I think the original story was closer to the truth: The Meyers car encountered the silver car, there was an altercation, the silver car followed the Meyers car back to the Meyers house, where both sides fired guns, and TM ended up dead.
But I think that original story was told incorrectly, in that I think Brandon and sis were in the Meyers car the whole time and that they deliberately went out that night looking for EN and instigated the original altercation and encounter.
They (the Meyerses) very quickly decided they were going to lie about Brandon being in the car. Hence, the original story about mom & the driving lessons.
That would also be why the Meyerses failed to mention the first shooting incident. Brandon was out there pointing his gun out of the car at the silver car, and that's what instigated EN to begin firing at the Meyers car. But since the Meyers had decided their story was that Brandon wasn't in the car for the original road rage altercation, they had to leave out the part where shots were fired. They wanted to paint TM and the daughter as total innocents who were wrongly victimized, so the whole driving lessons and road rage lie got started.
Then they realized they were going to have to put Brandon in the car with his gun. So the story changed to accommodate that, with mom getting away from the silver car, going home, dropping off the daughter, getting the son with his gun, and going back out to "look for" the silver car.
Then that story wasn't playing very well with the public. People were asking why didn't Tammy call 911? Why didn't Brandon call 911? She had gotten and made it home safely. So the story evolved to say that Brandon had wanted to call 911 but his mom responded that she was going back out with or without him. Brandon still gets to be "innocent" here, and the story paints him as the law-abiding guy who wanted to call 911. (Nevermind that his FB page clearly shows that he's a hothead and likely to start road raging over any little thing. The Meyers story shows that he's an innocent.)
Then the Meyers realized that arming up and going back out to "look for" a car that you had just been in a road rage incident with was stupid and wasn't playing well with the public either. So then the story changed to TM "luring" EN away from the house -- in some weird attempt to keep her children safe.
And of course, the whole question of knowing vs. not knowing EN. Since they originally decided their story was that it was road rage, and most people don't get in road rage incidents with neighbors that they know and have befriended, they had to pretend that they didn't know it was EN. But then it became apparent that it was going to become public knowledge that they did know EN, and the story evolved to include the Meyerses claiming that they knew it was EN but had to refrain from saying so because it would somehow interfere with the police investigation.
If what I think is correct about how it actually happened, that would also explain the overly aggressive depiction of Brandon as a "hero" and the comments that he "did what he had to do" and would do for anyone he loved. The comments by the various Meyerses about Brandon's involvement was too defensive, IMO. Since the Meyerses knew the truth, they knew that Brandon played a pretty significant role in the events that led to his mother's death, and their defense of his actions betray that knowledge. IMO. If things had happened the way they originally told the story, with the road rage and the silver car following TM home and Brandon coming out of the house to return fire, Brandon would have been totally, completely, 100% blameless, so why would they have been so defensive about his actions that night? They wouldn't have been, unless they knew that he in fact wasn't blameless.