GUILTY NY - Jeanine Cammarata, 37, teacher, didn’t show up at work, Staten Island, 30 Mar 2019 *ARRESTS*

[Jmoose]

gaslighting. honey moon phase. manipulation.

Let me just say that when I said I didn’t know any violent control freaks, that I understand I have been remarkably lucky, and not super smart!

 

[cvaldez1975]

Let me just say that when I said I didn’t know any violent control freaks, that I understand I have been remarkably lucky, and not super smart!

probably both! don't underestimate yourself!

 

[cybervampira]

NYPD Investigating Whether Body Found in Storage Facility Is Missing Teacher



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Investigators were continuing to search the storage facility for clues and to question Ms. Cammarata’s estranged husband, Michael Cammarata, the officials said. Mr. Cammarata couldn’t be reached for comment and his attorney wasn’t immediately identified.

The medical examiner’s office is conducting an autopsy to identify the victim and determine the cause of death.

Mr. Cammarata was taken into custody Tuesday for an assault and stalking charge involving Ms. Cammarata before her disappearance, police said. He is the primary suspect in the missing-person case involving his wife, police officials said.

“With the discovery of these human remains, the investigation has taken a turn into a murder investigation,” said William Aubry, of the NYPD’s citywide investigations division.

Although the body hasn’t been identified, Mr. Aubry said the NYPD is working with the Staten Island district attorney’s office to establish probable cause and justification to charge Mr. Cammarata with murder.

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[Criminal Justice mom]

They found that storage facility pretty quickly. Maybe gf is the one who spilled the beans?

I thought they had him on video going there?

 

[zecats]

I thought they had him on video going there?

Yep. I read that too. Seen leaving his home with bag and arriving at storage area with bag. Smoking gun much?

 

[Criminal Justice mom]

Yep. I read that too. Seen leaving his home with bag and arriving at storage area with bag. Smoking gun much?

Not very smart or just very narcissistic to think he's above getting caught. There aren't many places if any in NYC or it's bridges going in and out that arent on video.

 

[crhedBngr]

Came here after MSNBC covered this. Doesn't look good.

 

[DissociativeFugue]

For many abusive relationships, they don't start out this way. There are often "warning signs" but usually the women (or men) experience a protective person, attentive person, and are groomed to think that the person has their best interests at heart. As the relationship develops, little things begin to create more and more controlling behaviors on the part of the abusers. Concurrently, there is often strategies for isolation (your friends are trying to break us up, you are making bad choices with them, I love you more than your family) and a systematic breaking down of the abused/survivor's sense of self/ self-worth, leading to getting the abused to hand over decision-making or creates a situation where they take control decision-making based on the "poor track record" of the abused. The abuser also often feels like the victim and wants the abused to see them as a victim. Usually, it is easy to see the progression in retrospect. By then, it is hard to extricate oneself from the relationship. The abuse may then move from emotional to physical abuse and escalate.

Excellent post. I couldn’t have said it better myself!

 

[Isabelle]

I thought they had him on video going there?

I believe I read that a tip was called in about the storage facility. Could have been the girlfriend, anonymously.

 

[Criminal Justice mom]

I wonder what the kids, especially the 7 year old will be able to tell them about all of this as well as past couple of months. So sad for the poor kids.

 

[cybervampira]

Friends of missing S.I. teacher set up memorial outside of New Brighton home

Jeanine Cammarata, the missing Staten Island teacher who is now believed to be murdered, set up a memorial outside of her Cassidy Place home in New Brighton Thursday evening.

Jasmine Terrone, a longtime friend of Jeanine Cammarata’s, said that friends of the missing woman were “compelled” to set flowers outside of her home after hearing that a body believed to be Jeanine Cammarata was recovered from a Staten Island storage unit Thursday morning.

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“We lost a good person, a good community member, a good teacher and a good neighbor," Perez said outside of his home on the 100 block of Cassidy Place in New Brighton.

Perez previously told the Advance that his only hope was that Cammarata would turn up safe.

“She’s a very nice person, and an excellent teacher, too,” he said.

Perez said Cammarata’s two children with Michael Cammarata, ages 7 and 3, who are currently in custody of Child Protective Services, will also be “devastated” because of the most recent developments.

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[KatzEye]

Friends of missing S.I. teacher set up memorial outside of New Brighton home

Jeanine Cammarata, the missing Staten Island teacher who is now believed to be murdered, set up a memorial outside of her Cassidy Place home in New Brighton Thursday evening.

Jasmine Terrone, a longtime friend of Jeanine Cammarata’s, said that friends of the missing woman were “compelled” to set flowers outside of her home after hearing that a body believed to be Jeanine Cammarata was recovered from a Staten Island storage unit Thursday morning.

[...]

“We lost a good person, a good community member, a good teacher and a good neighbor," Perez said outside of his home on the 100 block of Cassidy Place in New Brighton.

Perez previously told the Advance that his only hope was that Cammarata would turn up safe.

“She’s a very nice person, and an excellent teacher, too,” he said.

Perez said Cammarata’s two children with Michael Cammarata, ages 7 and 3, who are currently in custody of Child Protective Services, will also be “devastated” because of the most recent developments.

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While her disappearance was initially considered to be a missing person’s case, Aubry said, “With the discovery of these human remains, the investigation has taken a turn into a murder investigation.”

The Staten Island district attorney’s office will be prosecuting the case, Aubry said.

 

[KatzEye]

Given the state of the remains found in the storage building, I'm wondering what the chances of her white Chevy Cruze turning up burned somewhere are. Whoever put that body in storage seems to like to dispose of evidence. Let's hope they failed miserably. JMOO

 

[GraceG]

Not a surprising outcome. Statistically, we know the most dangerous time in a domestic violence relationship is when the victim leaves (Most dangerous time for battered women? When they leave. and Domestic Abuse Shelter - A New Beginning). I think it is important to note that her friend who continued to text her to call and prove it was her was doing the right thing to get assurances that it was her.

Now, it is time for more investigation and possible arrests. The girlfriend who says JC was there and left has to be the next focus of this murder investigation.

I hope the children are with someone who really can provide support and get them counseling. They had to have seen a lot in their short lifespans.

I understand, my former husband was abusive. The first time I tried to leave he set fire to the home I was in. He always threatened to kill me or himself (he was bipolar an

For many abusive relationships, they don't start out this way. There are often "warning signs" but usually the women (or men) experience a protective person, attentive person, and are groomed to think that the person has their best interests at heart. As the relationship develops, little things begin to create more and more controlling behaviors on the part of the abusers. Concurrently, there is often strategies for isolation (your friends are trying to break us up, you are making bad choices with them, I love you more than your family) and a systematic breaking down of the abused/survivor's sense of self/ self-worth, leading to getting the abused to hand over decision-making or creates a situation where they take control decision-making based on the "poor track record" of the abused. The abuser also often feels like the victim and wants the abused to see them as a victim. Usually, it is easy to see the progression in retrospect. By then, it is hard to extricate oneself from the relationship. The abuse may then move from emotional to physical abuse and escalate.

Thank you for this. My former husband (20 years ago, I didn't want to repeat the experience any time soon) was that way. Charismatic, an airline pilot, and totally fine until he went off his psych meds (not reported to the FAA). He'd been ousted from the military for psych issues but that was all covered up - seriously wealthy and connected parents. I knew within months of the marriage I was married to someone seriously mentally ill and deliberately did not have children with him because I also found out he was a pedophile. I walked away, with all the bills, which he put on my credit cards, and without the house (which I paid for but was in his name). I walked away, literally in a $600 car, and went into hiding. I had a graduate degree and was raised by two LEO's. Sometimes you don't see it until it's too late. Don't blame the women, some abusers are really good at covering their true nature until you are broke and powerless or there are children involved.

 

[airportwoman]

its typical in high conflict cases, in CA anyways. they either do police station (a la aremazzd andressian) paid supervised exchange or some non profits offer the service at certain times in a neutral area.

There's a church in my area that sets aside times for this; for example, the mother drops the kids off at 4:30 and the dad picks them up at 4:45 so they don't have see each other, and the kids are supervised in between times.

My experience is that men rarely sue for custody unless there's some very good reason why the kids should not be living primarily with their mother (most common) or he's using the kids to get back at her (which usually goes out the window when he realizes that he will have to actually take care of them).

 

[airportwoman]

I'm going with the idea that he's been terrorizing his own GF too - because that is literally the only thing I can come up with to explain her being around while her BF is stalking his wife, let alone potentially helping him murder her.

OR she's also a psychopath.

 

[airportwoman]

I wonder if there are any unsolved rapes, robberies, etc. along his mail route. If there are, authorities need to check into this guy a weeeeeee bit further.

 

[airportwoman]

I don’t actually know any violent control freaks, and am wondering how these guys manage to get women, who then can’t get away from them without something like this happening? To be clear, I am not judging Jeanine at all-I can’t imagine that a woman, especially one with a child would knowingly get into this kind of a jam-what is it that these predators do to hook these women, so that they cannot get away. This guy had a girlfriend, and still wouldn’t let his wife get away, and somehow managed to have physical custody of their children-I am struggling with the fact that this continues to go on, with no way to stop it.

You'd be surprised at how many women (usually) get involved with a guy like this, knowing he was that way before she ever agreed to go out with him, because they are that desperate for male companionship and/or "He wouldn't be that way with me."

Abusers also have very good radar for people who can't see through them.

 

[airportwoman]

Let me just say that when I said I didn’t know any violent control freaks, that I understand I have been remarkably lucky, and not super smart!

I have personally known a few, although not because they were dating me, or people who were certainly capable of it.

 

[LadyL]

Screen shots of the message exchange with her friend ...

View Chilling Texts Of Friend Reaching Out To Missing SI Woman

WOW!!!