Jilllian
Verified Insider - Jennifer Ramsaran Case
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Bit OT, but wonder how many women are really into the "lifestyle" versus simply doing so, going along with it to please their dopey husbands...
I think many women are into the lifestyle because it's just who they are; a part of who they are, I should say. But I do think that many wives play around with it just because their husbands want them to. The same goes for husbands playing around with it to please their wives. But if they're just playing or fooling around with it, they're not really living the lifestyle. If they're serious, and accept it for who they are, then they either stay in their "vanilla" relationships, or go off to be true to themselves, while they still can. Can't tell you how often I've seen this happen, otherwise, I wouldn't have brought it up as a plausible theory.
Given the negative stigma the lifestyle has, the secrecy surrounding it, and the intense pull it has on women (and men) who don't act on these innate desires, I still think it's worth thinking about, since there are clues there.
I'm a lifestyler, and it raised my eyebrows. It takes a lot for that to happen.
I pray for her safe return. Her children must be so afraid.