NY Mom Hires Strippers for 16yo Birthday Party

[rossva]

BBM Please, can you explain where you got that definition of a lap dance?

I don't think those male dancers have physical comtact with the audience. I don't think the 13 yr old would be permitted to enter. The club owners have better sense and know the law.
Do you know what a lap dance is? The woman gyrates on the man's lap until he orgasms. It's sex with your clothes on. If a Chip dancer did that to a 13 yr old girl do you think a judge is going to say " Well it's tacky, but you're free to go"?

 

[TrackerSam]

BBM Please, can you explain where you got that definition of a lap dance?

From a guy I used to work with who paid for lap dances. He said the dancer would give him a condom to put on so he wouldn't mess his trousers.
What did you think a lap dance was? And how much does your version of a lap dance cost? I have no idea what it costs, but I ask as a way of saying real lap dances are a business, usually preformed in a private room.

 

[rossva]

I am not sure if you realize this or not, but what the guy you used to work with is not the norm for lap dances. If the club owner/management knew that the dancer offered him a condom, and he accepted it, with the express purpose of containing his orgasm, more than likely he would have been ejected from the club, and the dancer ould be fied. Not only that, but if a law enforcement official witnessed it, criminal charges could be brought forth. The discription you got from him is a form of prostitution, plain and simple, and is illegal.

As far as the cost of my version of a lapdance, I didn't list one. But if you google "average cost of a lap dance" you will find they run anywhere from $5 to $25 per song, depending on the location and type of club (bikini, topless, full nude, non alcoholic, beer, full bar). And most lap dances are not performed in private rooms, most are done in the open area's of the clubs; the private rooms are more of vip areas; totally different than a "lap dance".

If you want more info stripperweb.com gives the dancers version of how things work, tuscl.com gives the customers version.

From a guy I used to work with who paid for lap dances. He said the dancer would give him a condom to put on so he wouldn't mess his trousers.
What did you think a lap dance was? And how much does your version of a lap dance cost? I have no idea what it costs, but I ask as a way of saying real lap dances are a business, usually preformed in a private room.

 

[TrackerSam]

A lap dance is a type of sex work[1] performed in some strip clubs in which a dancer performs an erotic dance either in immediate contact (contact dancing) with a seated patron, or within a very short distance. The dancer may be nude, topless, or dressed in a bikini, depending on the laws in the jurisdiction and the club's policies. With full-contact lap dances, the stripper may engage in non-penetrative sexual contact with the patron, such as "grinding" her body against his.

[ame="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lap_dance"]Lap dance - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia[/ame]

Mom was arrested.
But it's no big deal right?

 

[LolaMoon08]

I don't agree with what this mother did. She should have waited until he was 18 and maybe let dad or an uncle take him to the actual strip club. I'm all for strip clubs. I took my niece to a male strip club as soon as she turned 18. Hell... I've taken my mother. It's all in good fun. But not for anyone under 18.