NY NY - Robert Mayer, 46, Dix Hills, 14 Jun 2013 - # 6

[hot cawfeee]

I think this was why she reported him Missing so quickly because he left her.
I do not think she is the type to sit back and wait. she was a lawyer how do u get him back?
Report him missing!

JMO

I guess she thought she embarrass , guilt or shame him into coming back-----that is so sad-----this is something that should have been handled in house and went public!!

 

[VeryCleverGirl]

Some people don't think about their actions they just react in the emotional state they're in at the time. What do their actions say to me???? They don't care about finding him....only controlling the information
If it was my loved one I'd have every video snippet of the way he walked talked etc. Every pic that displayed who he was...what sports team...any and everything and when a reporter came calling why ....I'd put on my best Sunday go to meeting dress and meet him anywhere he wanted!!!!

 

[hot cawfeee]

Good point Tree------we need to get on topic and stay focused

 

[Jerry516]

I think this was why she reported him Missing so quickly because he left her.
I do not think she is the type to sit back and wait. she was a lawyer how do u get him back?
Report him missing!

JMO

So, in your theory, poor, under appreciated, RM, a seemingly nice down to earth man, that perhaps was thought of as Inferior to her, OUTFOXED HER?
:clap:

 

[Eileen730]

And the thing is......
it is now being talked about here again, even though nobody can read what they are saying.
You all are drinking the koolaid or wine, or whatever, and drunk off the fumes!
I hope that the thread is not going to be shut down because of talking about that page.
Yes, all high school or junior high, but I personally don't want to be a student in their class.
Can we move on and talk about Robert Mayer?
We wouldn't want it to be a waste of our time with all the time being spent on this thread....
And also, they Knew it would be discussed on websleuths is my take on it......esp. making it private.....
Is their goal to shut down the thread?
IMOO.

LOL we are not talking about what they are saying there just the fact that it gone and we are not talking about the forbidden one at all lol

I think we are safe!:rockon:

 

[Treelights]

So, in your theory, poor, under appreciated, RM, a seemingly nice down to earth man, that perhaps was thought of as Inferior to her, OUTFOXED HER?
:clap:

That's an interesting take.....
It seems like he did outfox her, if he indeed left of his own volition.
IMOO.

 

[Eileen730]

So, in your theory, poor, under appreciated, RM, a seemingly nice down to earth man, that perhaps was thought of as Inferior to her, OUTFOXED HER?
:clap:

Most DEFINATELY!
I hope he took some of her hidden cash with him!:blushing:

 

[CatFancier]

I believe anyone who joined the new page was removed and blocked from the old page and IMs and then the group was set to secret. I don't understand what good a secret search page, where questions and ideas can not be shared, does.

This is not a search page per the admins, it is a place for support and love. No ideas or questions allowed.

 

[Jerry516]

Most DEFINATELY!
I hope he took some of her hidden cash with him!:blushing:

Maybe he took the 3 safe fulls of green, and left her the "Minimal Amount" from the scrap yard. What a :slap: slap in the face! Good for him! :great:

But its the kids that really get me....it MUST be heart wrenching! Hard for me to believe he would leave them too.....I dunno.......maybe he does have some intentions of coming back, as this was his warning to her that if things dont change, he's DONE :saber:

 

[Momoffourboys]

Maybe he took the 3 safe fulls of green, and left her the "Minimal Amount" from the scrap yard. What a :slap: slap in the face! Good for him! :great:

But its the kids that really get me....it MUST be heart wrenching! Hard for me to believe he would leave them too.....I dunno.......maybe he does have some intentions of coming back, as this was his warning to her that if things dont change, he's DONE :saber:

Right. I agree.
I dont think he chose to leave. I think he had to leave.

:scared:

 

[hot cawfeee]

Jerry---its always been my thought that he remained in contact with his mom, siblings and kids-----maybe its a trial separation being called something else?????? And then it boarded a runaway train on a public track??????????

 

[Momoffourboys]

Ok ok...im totally jealous of your graphics, avatars...whatever theyre called.
Where do you get them??

 

[Treelights]

Right. I agree.
I dont think he chose to leave. I think he had to leave.

:scared:

Is there a way you can expound on that further?
Just a little bit further?

 

[Momoffourboys]

Is there a way you can expound on that further?
Just a little bit further?

I have said before that this is too clean.
I cant pinpoint but i can guess...witness protection would be one theory. A mafia hit, another.
There are many scenarios i can come up with...all because i really find it hard to believe that he would leave his kids.
But thats just me...
🍻

 

[Jerry516]

Ok ok...im totally jealous of your graphics, avatars...whatever theyre called.
Where do you get them??

I am having way too much fun with these smileys!! I am getting ZERO work done, but hey, who needs to work when you have WS to keep you busy? :woot:

And by the way, isnt the color of the bike here a bit ironic? :bicycle:

 

[Eileen730]

Maybe he took the 3 safe fulls of green, and left her the "Minimal Amount" from the scrap yard. What a :slap: slap in the face! Good for him! :great:

But its the kids that really get me....it MUST be heart wrenching! Hard for me to believe he would leave them too.....I dunno.......maybe he does have some intentions of coming back, as this was his warning to her that if things dont change, he's DONE :saber:

I have a feeling he spoke to the kids either before leaving or shortly after JMO
I think they know whats going on kind of just don't know where he is.

Ill bet the kids were home that afternoon he left!

 

[Eileen730]

I am having way too much fun with these smileys!! I am getting ZERO work done, but hey, who needs to work when you have WS to keep you busy? :woot:

And by the way, isnt the color of the bike here a bit ironic? :bicycle:

Its very addicting!

 

[ElizaAvalon]

No way in hell do those kids know where their father is.

My children get very upset when their mother is upset.

Can you imagine a child keeping a secret like that from their mother who is distraught crying every day?!

NFW.

 

[Eileen730]

No way in hell do those kids know where their father is.

My children get very upset when their mother is upset.

Can you imagine a child keeping a secret like that from their mother who is distraught crying every day?!

NFW.

We don't know if they are upset do we?
We have not seen them nor heard from them.
And these are teens not little children... where were they during the searches?

Ida is everyones voice and im not buying everything she says!
sorry!

 

[hot cawfeee]

Eliza--do you think maybe its IM's reality that is being played out???? That she knows on one level what happened but her coping mechanism is to say "He disappeared" ???