NY NY - Robert Mayer, 46, Dix Hills, 14 Jun 2013 - # 7

[Momoffourboys]

Wonder if RM is a football fan...is he an NY Giant fan? Who knows, maybe he is in Dallas for the game, or Vegas. I know those are places I would think of this weekend, if my husband was missing.

If my husband was missing for three months and i found out he was watching football in dallas or vegas...he would be much safer not coming home.
:truce::truce::truce:

 

[Codger]

Wouldn't his wife know if he was suicidal or depressed or something bothering him?

She might. She might not. She might have indicated this early on June 14th to someone. LE did take the missing person report within 10 hours of his usual arrival time home from work. Some consider him "endangered missing". If someone close to RM felt this was a possibility it would explain both things to me + leaving the wallet, phone + cash behind. JMO

 

[Eileen730]

She might. She might not. She might have indicated this early on June 14th to someone. LE did take the missing person report within 10 hours of his usual arrival time home from work. Some consider him "endangered missing". If someone close to RM felt this was a possibility it would explain both things to me + leaving the wallet, phone + cash behind. JMO

But she has painted this perfect life picture and honestly im not buying it!

But if she knew deep down he was having trouble and was depressed don't you think she would say please help me find him im afraid he might harm himself? I would sure hope so!
But she hasn't and this is why I don't think he killed himself!
Something else is going on!

 

[Eileen730]

Didn't they say it was only 10 mins from the train statin to his house?

 

[Momoffourboys]

According to the charley project, this is the classification requirement for "endangered missing" adults:

http://www.charleyproject.org/terms.html
Endangered Missing

The default classification for minors (under 18) and elderly persons (over 65). An adult between those ages will be listed as Endangered Missing if they have a medical condition or are missing under circumstances that indicate they may be in danger.

 

[Eileen730]

According to the charley project, this is the classification requirement for "endangered missing" adults:

http://www.charleyproject.org/terms.html
Endangered Missing

The default classification for minors (under 18) and elderly persons (over 65). An adult between those ages will be listed as Endangered Missing if they have a medical condition or are missing under circumstances that indicate they may be in danger.

So why would he be endangered?

 

[Force Ten]

Wouldn't his wife know if he was suicidal or depressed or something bothering him?

Would you believe her if she stated he wasn't? Or otherwise?

 

[Eileen730]

If she thought he was she would have said so yes?
Law enforcement would have looked at it much differently also Yes?

 

[Momoffourboys]

So why would he be endangered?

That, is a good question and not one i can answer.

 

[SkyAutumn3]

Wouldn't his wife know if he was suicidal or depressed or something bothering him?

Not necessarily, IMO. Some people can't or won't see what's in front of them, or maybe just in denial.

 

[Eileen730]

Not necessarily, IMO. Some people can't or won't see what's in front of them, or maybe just in denial.

I find that very very sad!
For someone to want to kill themselves I would think that's pretty hard to hide...
But your right if they don't look they cant see!

 

[Eileen730]

So back to the train station!
Is it 10 mins from the station to his house?

that could disprove my last theory if it was farther away

 

[Momoffourboys]

So back to the train station!
Is it 10 mins from the station to his house?

that could disprove my last theory if it was farther away

No. It is approx. ten minutes to the train station.

 

[Eileen730]

No. It is approx. ten minutes to the train station.

So it is possible lol

 

[Momoffourboys]

So it is possible lol

which theory?
:facepalm:

 

[Eileen730]

which theory?
:facepalm:

Nevermind!
lol

 

[Momoffourboys]

Nevermind!
lol

Again, anything is possible...just not sure if i buy it.

ok.. never mind. LOL

 

[xheraldina]

Nevermind!
lol

If it is approx. ten minutes to the train station she would need 20 min. both ways.

 

[Eileen730]

Again, anything is possible...just not sure if i buy it.

ok.. never mind. LOL

I just don't think he drove his car to the train station!

 

[Eileen730]

When would LE do polygraphs?