NY NY - Robert Mayer, 46, Dix Hills, 14 Jun 2013 - # 8

[teamilk8]

Just caught up, wow
Still nothing, darn it

What bothers me is that there is no proof RM left that scrap yard.
Yes, he was obviously there to sell some stuff, but nobody can confirm he got in his Red GTO and drove away.....alone? Or possibly with someone??? Or someone else was driving?

There is no proof RM was in his house for those 10 minutes.
Yes, his car was seen on video ( a week later )?? By a neighbors camera
The wallet could have been there the whole time that day and never put there by RM that day.
We have no proof if RM had applied for a duplicate license or photo ID card
No proof that he didn't apply for OTHER credit cards, using a different mailing address?
No proof he is penniless out there, he may have a stash of cash he's been saving for a year now????
I'm pretty sure IM is a very smart woman, I hope she checked DMV and has hired a professional to look further into checking more things in detail. (Credit history, banks)

I would hate to think he just "left" or worse that he is somewhere and needs help or is not with us anymore. He has a beautiful family who misses him.

Too much time has gone by now, someone knows something!!!!

How did the phone get back to the house?:banghead: can't figure that out

 

[BunnyHop]

Today is a day that touches me deeply in many ways.
As a New Yorker, I have been effected directly in many ways.

I am in a business where I comfort and remember.
Let's put our differences aside, and come together in the spirit of Peace and Understanding. There is enough conflict in the world.

Let's do the best we can to stand for truth.

:heartbeat: :heartbeat:

 

[BunnyHop]

If you see me as signed in, it's probably because I was too busy to sign out.

:twocents:

 

[BunnyHop]

Any body home? :seeya:

 

[BunnyHop]

So her ya go. I am not Scot nor Irish. I am Slovak.
Born and raised in NYC area. My ex husband is from Bronx/Italian.

If I could align with anyone, I would align with Scots,
When I was kid/cheerleader, we took 1st prize every time.
We were good. Know who was better? Scots.

 

[Jerry516]

Any body home? :seeya:

Why is it so earily quiet tonight? Technical difficulties? fftobed:

 

[To Kill a Mockingbird]

Can we start a thread called

The Rumor Mill --- unsubstantiated,yet possible relevant information?

(the same name is a thread on the Long Island Serial Killer) thread...[in the parking lot]
and has proved very useful.

 

[Momoffourboys]

Seriously...

 

[CuriousinNY]

I noticed in the background of the missing poster just posted..there are slot machines. Any gambling issues? havent heard that tossed around.

 

[Momoffourboys]

I noticed in the background of the missing poster just posted..there are slot machines. Any gambling issues? havent heard that tossed around.

Per the verified insider...no gambling problem.

 

[teamilk8]

I've never seen it so quiet here. I was at work...did I miss something?

 

[JustyThoughts]

I'm thinking - MOO of course..... we have kinda run out of new things to say. Waiting on some new information to come out. Maybe it is because it's 9-11 and folks are emotionally drained.

My experiences is that a forum will slow down (fewer posts) after a time with nothing new coming from officials/msm and very little to go on. If something breaks, the pages will be flying again.

 

[Born2succeed]

I've never seen it so quiet here. I was at work...did I miss something?

Nope everyone just sitting on their hands or on the edge of the seat playing with the clothespin clipping our lips shut so we dont accidently say anything that ....well you know..
Hm.mmm mmmm mummhum

 

[Born2succeed]

And yes... an emotionally draining day

 

[Eileen730]

Ok lets start back at the beginning!
Now..... this family man that never spent a night away from home and lived for his kids and loved his car and everyone says hes a nice guy vanishes....

If he just took off don't u all think he would have done things differently.
He would have called someone...
He would have told her was leaving before he left!

If he just took off and no call no letter this says he didn't care for his family at all and that's just not the picture that has been painted here. If he had issues with his wife he would have told his mom or his sis a friend don't u agree. You just don't vanish...

Even f there was a GF! He would have called someone! JMO

 

[ElizaAvalon]

The thing is, because we don't have details of his life at home, I have a hard time believing he would leave simply because it was so terrible that he was pushed out.

Most people do not leave unless there is something horrible happening to push them away, like deep physical and/or mental abuse.

Unless, of course, there is something drawing them away from their life. What, besides another woman, could be such a lure that he would leave his children?

 

[Eileen730]

The thing is, because we don't have details of his life at home, I have a hard time believing he would leave simply because it was so terrible that he was pushed out.

Most people do not leave unless there is something horrible happening to push them away, like deep physical and/or mental abuse.

Unless, of course, there is something drawing them away from their life. What, besides another woman, could be such a lure that he would leave his children?

Exactly!
There has to be something else!
Even if it another woman no reason to vanish you get a lawyer right?
Still see your kids
Still go to work U just get a divorce!

 

[Eileen730]

Wives get murdered every day because they want a divorce!
They simply vanish some are found some are not!

AND I AM NOT saying He was murdered.

Just comparing..... men and women that vanish!

 

[Eileen730]

Suicide?

To me that's last on my list!
I cant say why.
Just a feeling!

 

[Eileen730]

Was he in trouble?