It was sad, JMO, how the Wagner family treated the young women/girls like "brood mares". The same way they bred horses, potbelly pigs, and various boutique farm animals, they chose these women to mate with the sons in order to have children. Once the children were born, they really had no further use for the young mothers. They had to be trained to perform work, keep the men happy or leave. Any young woman who tried to stand up for herself or show any autonomy was treated as if they needed to be removed from the herd.
George and Jake spoke of wanting partners who were "farm women". They treated their family members as if they were livestock. Hanna Rhoden was a spirited young filly who was independent and not tolerant of control or abuse. That made her a target.
It's probably important to point out that the Wagners behavior and attitudes towards women and family roles isn't typical of families in that area. There are others posting here who can speak to family customs in rural Appalachia better than I, so hopefully some can enlighten us.
The Appalachian culture and its values are typically rooted in family, elders, community, land, hard work ethic, and in some pockets deep religious beliefs. The behavior of protecting family and standing side by side even when family members disagree is also a norm in the region. Inside of every culture exists subcultures that are created based on each family or individuals personal life experience. They are the unwritten rules of how a family or unit operate and are created outside of written rules or laws we are governed by.
This is where ideology for safety, health, wealth and survival are created especially in economically challenged regions. The subculture for the 4 Wagner's became what AW and BW established for the boys based on their own historical experiences of family (Wagners, Carters, and Newcombs) and solutions (illicit activity). This is where as a unit they established their own norms, patterns of operation and beliefs.
As pointed out, neither boy chose to leave. Was this because AW instilled the notion the outside world is so much more dangerous and only she could protect them and their children?
The Appalachian culture is quite beautiful at its core as the care for family, friends and neighbors runs deep. It's a unique trait not easily replicated. If the residents of the hills and hollers know you, they will literally give the shirt off their back to lend a helping hand. If they don't know you, it takes time to trust you. Social Estrangement outside family and local community is a real facet in pockets of the region. If you are an outsider and break trust, you are typically no longer welcome. A unique angle to this in Appalachian culture is this rule does not typically apply to blood/family. Family is most generally always welcomed back home, and forgiveness is traditionally reserved for loved ones. The female victims here were not viewed as loved ones. They were not extended grace or forgiveness.
A unique aspect to Appalachia due to the family bonds is there is greater influence from elder family members and their life experiences as well. While this is can be valuable, it can cause units to be stuck in the past with only a fear of history repeating itself.
The encouragement to go into the outside world to learn, explore and grow as your own has evolved over the decades, but there are still subcultures in Appalachia where it is discouraged and no outsiders are trusted. I feel the R/G/M families and the local community showed us the lack of trust via the reaction to news outlets and LE that we observed in the early days. Can we blame them if we put ourselves in their shoes? Their family was gone, the world they felt safe in was disrupted and suddenly they are expected to trust the strangers coming in? Past strangers in these communities brought threats to land, and ripped apart local economies as legislation eradicated lifestyles due mostly to agriculture and environmental legislation. People are seen as coming in to take and disrupt, not help or give back.
To get to the specifics of this family, according to testimony AW experienced at the hands of her father abuse which triggered her to go into the military. I feel she at one time wanted out of the culture and behavior patterns of her family. Her mom stated she wanted to get away from it. I believe the young AW likely did. She did leave. She went into the military.
From what we have learned she was then assaulted in the military. Was this assault different from the type she experienced at the hands of her father which she was escaping or did it lead her to believe it was norm and happened everywhere? It seems it was alarming enough to cause her to return and she came back to her family, back to the trauma she attempted to escape.
In no way do I want to sugar coat Angie or her actions, but outside this forum, outside the crimes, looking solely at Angie, it would not be out of the norm for AW to exhibit protective behaviors that escalated over the years. Angie was a victim as well, but the path she chose for survival was found in illicit activities. Getting away with this for years set the foundation to perpetuate behaviors related to survival coming from illegal means. It ended with murder as HER morally (not legally) acceptable solution to her latest problem.
I feel AW sought others she felt she could control so they couldn't "harm" her or her boys or her grandchildren. All along she was doing the greatest harm.
Her desire to protect herself and her boys in her mind meant limited exposure to a world outside of her. It is likely she grew very paranoid and her behaviors and thoughts snowballed over the years until they became her norm. Keep in mind her behavior was being triggered by past trauma and current state survival was being met via a life of crime. Until late age it sounds the boys only had family to learn from. My guess is they heard many times the world outside is evil and we need to stick together.
One point I would like to be sure to note, is while all females in Appalachia certainly do not experience what we have heard in court regarding abuse, unfortunately many do. It is an unspoken truth. Appalachia falls behind on female equality, independence and empowerment when compared to other parts of the US. Threats to long established gender norms and views are not well accepted.
Females that attempt to break the cycles are often viewed as rebellious. As HR, Tabby, and Beth made decisions that did not fall in line with AW or the family elders, they likely became perceived as such. An educated female, a female of her own views and beliefs was a threat to AW.
This is very important in this family as AW comes across IMO as having a very specific view of gender roles which can be common in the region and specifically rural Appalachia as compared to the more urban Appalachian communities.
The Appalachian culture tends to be very patriarchal and a female that would be perceived as stronger than AW would be a threat to her very existence and role as the Matriarch she desired to become.