rsd1200
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I grew up in Kentucky Appalachia. My mother (who was not pregnant) married at 14 with parental permission. It was allowed then with parental consent.
My parents would have been as angry as a hornet if I was married and/or pregnant at that age.
She wanted her children to achieve (have) more than her and my dad or be better.
She would be furious at a 20 year old man tho. No one in Appalachia wants their daughter to be with a 20 year old man.
Appalachia doesn't have lower expectations than any other part of this country.
It is illegal and immoral and insulting to the victims to think otherwise.
I was born in Appalachia,, Ky., live within a rock's throw of where I was born, dated a man over 10 years older than myself, when allowed to date at age 16 (much to my parent's chagrin), and we married as soon as I was out of high school. I did not "have to", either. The marriage lasted longer than most (almost 15 years). I have worked all throughout Kentucky's Appalachian Region, as well as other parts, my work was assisting in alleviating the poverty that exists here.
Apparently everyone has lower expectations of Appalachia than we do ourselves, we are the last culture that is okay to forget about political correctness when it comes to us.
JW was not 20 when he and HMR started seeing each other and it was zero secret. HMR was 13, and JW was 17. It was the responsibility of both of the kids' parents to have told them; Absolutely NOT!!
Not to offend, and I don't know what part you were from, but it goes on all the time. In your state, and mine. It's insulting that the relationships in my family, people who had more years between them, than the fewer than 4 1/2 between Jw&HMR, that were refered to as "illegal and immoral and insulting". Especially since DR and CR1 married at 16 & 19, respectively...
Should children be allowed to get married? In Ohio, thousands do
Between 2000 and 2015, 4,443 girls age 17 or younger were married in Ohio between 2000 and 2015, including 59 who were 15 or younger. The number of teen marriages has been in decline in recent years, as has the number of all marriages.
https://rewire.news/article/2012/03...t-laws-send-young-men-to-jail-consensual-sex/
Age of consent laws are meant to protect young people from exploitation by adults but in too many instances they send 18-year-old boys to jail for having consensual sex with their 15-year-old girlfriends. The boys then end up on sex offender registries for life along side rapists and pedophiles. Should we really be legislating teen sex?
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