I had a request to copy and paste this article, I hope I am allowed to do this on this site? I think this is important to read.
The arrogance in the quotes from Jake and Angela- just totally beyond belief. In my opinion.
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No family members interviewed by the Enquirer have seen Kylie or Ruger since that mournful morning.
They have missed Kylie's first coos and maybe even Ruger's first steps. Family members say they routinely call Pike County Children Services to check on them; they are told the babies are doing well.
But no one in the family knows where the babies are or with whom. They don’t know if the little cousins are together or apart.
Some can't help but wonder if the babies will recognize them. Others wonder if whoever is caring for the babies shows them photos of their parents or talks about them.
Still others can't bring themselves to say it.
But it's there, just under the surface: What happens if investigators never solve the case, now headed into its seventh week with no known motive, suspects or arrests?
The system most certainly can't take the place of family,'' said Tracy Cook, executive director of ProKids. "There are just layers of complexities with a companion criminal case. The county is in the role of assessing any potential threats."
Having said that, though, doesn't make the situation any less painful, said Cook, whose agency advocates for kids in the child protection system.
Juvenile court judges and magistrates must weigh facts, must consider the needs of the children and then work to arrive at a decision that is in the best interest of the children. Often times, that means supervised visits with family members or coming up with creative solutions so kids like Kylie and Ruger don't lose complete contact with their family -- especially at such an early age in their development.
"There is no way these kids aren't traumatized,'' Cook said. "You are talking about bonds being broken ... That's the tragedy of the tragedy.
"I think the brutality of the reality is that these kids are without their families and the families are without the kids,'' she said.
"It's totally heartbreaking."
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Kylie's unanswered question
In the abyss of unanswered and seemingly never-ending questions, one answer may come soon for Kylie: The name of her daddy.
No father's name is listed on her birth certificate. Family and friends say her mom had been in three on-again, off-again relationships during the time in which Kylie was conceived. And two of those men said they will take paternity tests, perhaps as soon as this week, to determine paternity. They both want to raise the baby girl.
Jake Wagner, 23, said there's a 50/50 chance he's Kylie's father. He and Hanna Rhoden dated for nearly three years before they welcomed her half-sister, Sophia, now 2 1/2 years old. If Wagner is her father, that would mean her half-sister would become
her full sister.
And there is nothing Wagner would like more, he said, fondly recalling how he pulled the tiny sock off her itty, bitty foot shortly after she was born on April 17. He was checking for a hammer index toe: A Wagner family trait.
He's almost sure, he said, that he saw that bend. It's the hope he holds onto these days.
But if he isn't Kylie's dad, and if the courts deem another man suitable to care for her, he will step aside -- at least partially.
"I'm not going to take her," Wagner said. "But I will want mandatory visitation in order to see her regularly."
He wants to ensure she gets to know her tow-headed big sister who loves tea parties, getting her fingernails painted and swinging and playing on the extensive play areas Wagner has built at their house. It's a home where Wagner once hoped Hanna Rhoden would come back eventually, bringing Kylie.
Regardless of what happens, Kylie and Sophia are now, and forever will be, at least half-sisters.
The girls share a bond: They lost the same mommy.
"They need each other,'' said Wagner's mom, Angela Wagner. "When they get old enough to understand, they will
really need each other.
Charlie Gilley, 21, has never held Kylie. But he aches to, he said. He's seen pictures of her.
"Have you seen her photo? She looks just like me,'' he beamed. "Don't you think?"
He, too, has hired a lawyer. And just like Wagner, he is awaiting the material needed to have his DNA tested to establish paternity.
"It kills me every day that I can't see her. That she's with complete strangers. I can't stand the thought of it.
"I just can't wait to hold her," he said. "I know she's mine."
So is the man who might be Kylie's great-grandfather, Kenny Shoemaker: "Have you seen her nose? She's got my nose ... poor little thing."
Gilley and Hanna Rhoden had stopped seeing each other for about a month when she discovered she was pregnant using a store-bought test in the bathroom stall of a Wal-Mart.
He had wildly mixed emotions at the thought of being a father back then.
"It was scary. I was nervous,'' he said.
Hanna Rhoden and he "went our separate ways but I told her I'd be there for her."
He saw her occasionally, her belly growing bigger each time. In late September or early October, she sent him an ultrasound image of Kylie as a fetus.
Learning how to be a mom: Ruger's story
Gilley is so confident that he is Kylie's dad that he and an older sister, Meranda Gilley, have rented a four-bedroom house. They have painted it and fixed it up in hopes they will bring Kylie home one day soon along with Ruger Rhoden, he said. It's even near a daycare and not far from their jobs, he said.
Ruger's mom, Hannah Gilley, was their sister.
Meranda Gilley is also working with a lawyer in hopes of winning custody of her nephew, who was the light of her sister's life.
Hannah Gilley adored the baby and only once let someone watch him. She nursed Ruger and found leaving him nearly impossible, said her paternal grandmother Glenna Gilley.
"She absolutely adored him. He was just starting to sit up and crawl. She was so proud of him," she said.
Ruger visited her home with his mom and aunt on the Wednesday before the killings.
Hannah Gilley was "learning to be a mom" and doted on both him and his older half-brother Brentley, whom she considered her son as well.
Both grandparents worry the babies will forget them the longer the case drags out. They worry Ruger was having a difficult time adjusting to a bottle.
"Whoever has them, I just hope they show them picture of us," Glenna Gilley said. "I don't want him to forget us."
Tony Rhoden can't help but worry about that, too. And he vowed he and all the Rhodens will remain involved in their lives.
Recently, he made a special trip out to visit Samantha Robinson, grandmother of Ruger's 3-year-old half-brother Brentley. Brentley is the son of Frankie Rhoden and Chelsea Robinson, who is Samantha Robinson's daughter.
Tony Rhoden asked her if he can remain in Brentley's life.
"That day, we talked for hours. We cried and we laughed,'' Robinson said. "Mostly we cried."
Tony Rhoden told her he would be there for Brentley: "He said he'll be even closer to him now," Robinson said.
And she said she would never keep her grandson from his great uncles, aunts or cousins.
"I told him don't be scared about that,'' she said.
"We are family,'' she said, "And no one can change that."
Chris Graves is the Enquirer's local columnist. You can reach her at [email protected] or on Twitter @chrisgraves. Carrie Cochran is a photojournalist at the Enquirer. You can reach her at [email protected].