I wasnt specific enough-my son did not see the MLKJr "cartoon" that depicts firebombing and firehoses being turned on black protestors by white law enforcement officers and his assasination at the hands of a white man with a gun. However, the other children in his class did. Which led to much discussion between the children on why do white people hate brown people? My son decided that the reason that his parent split up is because one is brown and one is white, so they must hate each other.
THIS is why it pisses me off that the state interferes in my right to parent my child. Because all of those children, not just mine, carry away these ideas that need further discussion. But the school just checks off the unit and moves on.
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I certainly appreciate your frustration, believe, but I have no doubt whatsoever that your son benefitted greatly from the discussion that ensued with you.
That being said, there's got to be a way to acknowledge our racist and segregationist past without giving children the impression that all white people hate all black people--something that was never true.
I remember segregation--in schools, water fountains and toilets. Even then there were plenty of white people (including my own parents and grandparents) who found the practice appalling! And, of course, there were hundreds if not thousands of white volunteers working to end segregation, poling taxes and other aspects of Jim Crow.
I'm sure schools want to avoid the "Hollywood treatment" of the subject, where noble-but-helpless black people are rescued from villainous white folks by the noble-and-mighty white people. But white people have never been in agreement about slavery or racism and there's no reason to pretend we have been.