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Regarding the BIL. I do think people need to give him a bit of break. Is he using this for personal gain and potentially a way to further advance his own career (i.e. making a film about this down the road), possibly? But there is a lot of distance between that and being the perp. Just imagine being in his shoes if he did it.. he is accepting every single media request that comes his way... if you had something to hide would you do that? Imagine the stress that would come with trying to hide that secret and also talking to the media so much and having the world dissect every word you say.
I think it's far more likely he has been tasked with being the family spokesperson, and he's doing the best job he can while making mistakes along the way and saying the wrong thing. He's made mistakes divulging info and commenting on the POI video. But how many of us would be perfect in that role? He was thrown into this. I do think some of his actions can be explained by the fact that he probably does sense some opportunity here for his future aspirations as a film maker or whatever, which is kind of gross, but also just human instinct for some people. JMO
<modsnip> I just think that he should definitely get into therapy himself and continue to work with his anxiety and perfectionism as well as bring kids into therapy as coping is hard. He might end up doing a good job.
And yes, his family is left with raising two orphans and I wish them strength. I hope that internet people will give them space and stop counting other people’s money especially since everyone in this situation might end up in a minus financially, not plus. I think that a tad of compassion might help. To remind again, even if the killer knew them, it was only one. The rest, all families and friends, are mourning so we can’t really push on them.
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