Hey all, I'm the aforementioned nephew of Tammy Lowe. (I have no way to prove this other than I can share some scans of documents given to us by the Toledo Police with a limited amount of individuals, provided that I could be assured that they won't be disseminated) Sorry for replying so late to this thread, hopefully I can be forgiven for that.
I am indeed the one who provided the details on the Wiki about Tammy's family life and living situation as well as many of the technical details such as when the police were called and when they arrived. The former came from my own father, which I can't really cite as a source on the Wiki, and the latter came from investigator's reports, autopsy reports, forensic toxicology reports, etc. the detectives gave us when they visited us to get a DNA sample from my father. I'm not a fan of Unidentified Wiki's citation system either, but I figured it would've been more jarring to put proper citations unlike the rest of the site so I elected not to do that.
Nobody is putting a plastic bag over somebody's head and trying to burn the body if what they're hiding isn't much worse than what it looks like. In my opinion.
Overdose is already the best way of hiding a murder so they had to hide much more than murder. Again, in my opinion.
We very much believe that Tammy's death was intentional, just based on the circumstances of her disappearance and the nature of the person she was last seen alive with. Now, her autopsy report stated that she had a concentration of 0.93mg/dl of cocaine in her blood - this is a lethal amount. This was not an accident, but she did objectively die of an overdose. In reference to this being used to possibly cover up a murder, as horrifying as it is to say, we believe that the overdose
was the method of murder.
Due to the lack of evidence (since both A. the fire destroyed a lot of evidence and B. the passage of time has ensured a lot of useful evidence has been lost), the Toledo Police has to officially rule it an overdose and they've said they're putting this somewhere between an accident and a homicide. They don't believe that Tammy did this to herself, this is a ruling of technicality. Since the man we believe most likely did this to Tammy has been dead since 2000, the Toledo Police aren't reopening the case. It is tragic, but I do believe that the ire should be reserved for the Detroit Police, who were told in no uncertain terms that Tammy was missing, that she was last seen alive being held captive against her will with a known violent drug dealer in Detroit, and they chose to do nothing. Even when my great-grandmother reported her missing a second time in October 1987, they still did nothing. Not even doing the bare minimum of registering my aunt as a missing person. It is because of their lack of due diligence that now my family has to face accusations of not caring about Tammy, that is why we now have to deal with questioning from those who don't know any better why she was a Jane Doe for so long. It is also why my aunt will never see justice.
Sorry for the long message, I wanted to thank you guys for taking an interest in my aunt's story long before she was identified and I wanted to clear up some things. Feel free to ask me anything.